Do hot chicks think average is small?

[southernprince]

I am 6.75 bpel and 5 inches mseg and I've been called small by several good looking women.

I agree with everyone else here, you are above average. I would be very happy if one day I achieve your measurements.

So guys I'm not a feminist and probably dislike them, but there does seem to a bias against woman here. For the most part the female equivalent of dick size to woman is breast size. Also breasts are like a key differentiator of femininity.

I agree with you about the women bias, but after all this a site about penis enlargement and most men are here because at some point they felt that their penis size is not enough, especially after comments they received from women. Which is very common for the average man.

But as others have replied, breast size is not the female equivalent to penis size.

True, the OP needs to man up but don't tell me the girls are showing good qualities...

What does it even mean to "man up"? Ignore the comments or ignore his feelings? What the OP needs to do is realize that the comments he received were inaccurate, at best, and manipulative at worse. There's plenty of proof that he is well above average.

[TeoDeles]

I have not read the replies but I ll answer just according the title of this thread.

Having an average size dick ( I consider average a dick of 14cm NBPEL and 12cm MEG) is never a bad thing and it will never be bad for any girl IF the stamina and way of making sex is superb.
Is it better though to have a bigger than average dick that is also combined with superb stamina and way of making sex. Sure it is.

I have had sex with around 40 super hot women in my life.(before increasing my size through PE... having an average dick)
My good looks + my fit body + my superb stamina and way of sex was making all women come to multiple orgasms that no one had offered them even with huge dicks. ( they were telling me these things on their own after multiple orgasms sex that they were having with me).
They were also telling me that huge dicks is a problem because they were causing pain and they couldn t enjoy and come into orgasm.

I also have female friends and they all had the same thinking.
That the looks+the way of sex is the most important and in general the sex chemistry is what matters.

The huge dick enthusiasm is comming only from girls that are very young in age and that they have not yet felt what real quality sex is all about.
An other type of women that loves huge dicks are the known size queens that are very limited but even them when they meet someone with an average dick that have all the rest ( looks-fit body-stamina-sex chemistry etc) they don t have a problem with that.

The best thing is to have all the rest + a dick that is bigger that average ... not huge.
In this way you are making them feel joy and not pain and also have the admiration of a big dick.

The best dick size that is for all around purposes is NBPEL 16cm max and 14cm girth max.

[TeoDeles]

Let me add some more things here.

The average dick is the best tool for providing orgasms.(been there done that multiple times)
It causes no pain or discomfort because its not so big to hit the bottom on the pussy hard and its not small for not being able to offer a nice filling in the pussy.

The problem with the average dick is just the looks of it. This is more for us not for the women.
A sight of a bigger than average dick is making us and the woman that we are having sex feel admiration.
This admiration for us means more comfidence ( I never had any confidence issues when having an average dick but always had the need to be just a little bigger for my ego) and for the women means its just more hot when they see it and when they lick it.

I was always enjoying when they were licking my dick... I was watching their hot faces and lips on my dick.
But now with a bigger dick I also enjoy looking at my dick and their faces on my dick and their admiration and stragle to put it in their mouths.

Having a bigger dick is just a spice for the sex.

[Alwaysbbetter]

Southernprince...I by manning up I meant he can't let it bother him...He has to take the feedback for what it is and not let it get the best of him...

Teodeles...great posts! That is pretty similar to my mindset..nothing wrong with average but having game in the bedroom is more important..being slightly bigger is what I stride for...that point where you are like entry level big..

Moral of the story for the OP...Ifbyour measurements are right, you are actually slightly larger than average...maybe not even slightly by many of the statistics our there...Yes, its possible you just may be with some women that like bigger cocks....But you can just leave if you don't like someone's comments...there are other women out there that would likely think your big...go with them and you will feel much better...

[Johnny D]

I think your missing the point johnny...In these thread stories the guy didn't ask the chicks volunteered it...If the OP is explaining it right they really had no reason other than some power trip put em in his place nonsense...True, the OP needs to man up but don't tell me the girls are showing good qualities...In any case, if you guys don't like the comments leave the chicks...Find someone you feel more comfortable with that knows how to act...

Sorry... I wasn't referring to the responses to the OP topic. I was being critical of some of the responses to NymphGamerAddict.

[tank0909]

A lot of things boil down to confidence. It is the more confident guy that approaches the more physically attractive woman. The less confident guys typically do not. What plays a major part in our self-confidence?... Our dick sizes. So if the "hot" chick is only approached with guys that have bigger dicks (more confidence), then maybe they become accustomed to them and that's the basis for what they consider normal or average. Some of them may prefer it because it feels better to them. Some of them may say they prefer it because of social reasons. (If they hang out with other women that only talk about guys with bigger dicks, they'll "fit in" to the group if they have stories or ridicule guys.) Some may just be naive and not know any better. Some may just be idiots. Some may be overconfident in themselves because they're approached by so many guys on a daily basis. It may be all of the above. So, what do we do about it?

Some key things:
1. If you're insecure about your size, don't tell her unless you're in a long term/serious relationship. Even then, depending on her, you still may not want to say anything about it. Some women are turned off by whatever they consider to be a weakness. Being insecure doesn't mean you're weak. It just means you have a couple things to work out. But some women can use it against you (see point 2).

2. Just because she's a 10 out of 10 on looks, doesn't mean she doesn't have a shitty personality. Looks are one thing... everything else is another and another and another. She could be a 50,000 out of 10... but still be a 1. A quote to remember: "Just because she looks good, doesn't mean somebody somewhere isn't tired of her shit."

3. Have confidence in yourself. Have confidence in who you are. Have confidence in what you have (and learn how to use it). If you don't... fake it until you make it. It will come.

4. Some of the very attractive women are insecure too... they DON'T get approached by any "quality" men because of the man's lower confidence.

5. If you're looking for a relationship, don't have sex right away. Get to know her. Let her get to know you. Usually, if she cares about you... dick size won't matter. If it does and it's not the size she wants (bigger or smaller), then you aren't right for eachother. Oh well. NEXT! Over 7 billion people in this world... there are plenty of women out there. Just open your eyes and look beyond the immediate circle around you.

6. If you're looking for a one-night-stand, don't shit where you eat. Stay away from that immediate circle around you.

[Alwaysbbetter]

To the OP,

All this advice aside, lead the female in question up to your bedroom...when you reach the bed push her forward..bend her over and enter her from behind...work up your temp gradually picking up the pace...Grab a hand full of her hair and pull her head back as you go to pound town and say to her "you like getting f*cked by my big cock...your my little slut..."

she will love it...so will you...

[solidlength]

Speaking from experience, a bigger dick can be a bad thing. If you've never hit a woman's cervix while PIV then you're lucky. Nothing can interrupt a female's arousal faster than bottoming out. I've been told it's like getting kicked in the nuts. All women are different and have different length vaginas and the vagina also extends based on arousal. I have hit multiple partner's cervixes (cervii) and I'm not that big.

"Good" sexual partners know that size isn't key.

[BigO]

Every single good looking young fella out there in the world believes that B cups are the absolute best tits ever!



Think about how ridiculous that sounds

[Alwaysbbetter]

I gotta say I'm not into anything under a C cup....There you go..I'm a size king...Fir real though nothing below C cup for me...