The sad reality of having a small penis

[Big Al]

Very true but unfortunately it's only as big as she thinks it is.

While others are entitled to their preferences/opinions. please don't make the mistake of giving your power over to someone else by allowing you to feel substandard. If someone is going out of their way to point out how small they perceive someone to be, this is cruelty at someone's expense.

I wish I could tell you these are isolated incidences, but cruelty (esp. online) appears to be becoming more fashionable. One's best defense is in strengthening one's mind- as well as other attributes.

Some recommended reading: Emotional Control and Anxiety

[Uxorious101]

"No amount of drugs, therapy, etc, will help if you don’t make a concerted effort to get your mind under control This means doing your best to get to the root of whatever is ailing you- since acute and chronic feelings of sexual inadequacy are often rooted in deeper issues."

I would turtle to one inch in elementary school thru college. Some edging in my 20's got me to maybe 2 inches but I stood straight out and never hung down.

If you take your finger and point it straight at you with a slight downward curve then take that same finger and point it straight down. It looks twice as big.

I had my one and only tinder hookup 2 years ago and as I pulled down my pants I looked at her and she immediately looked up at and around the ceiling as her eyes got big. Like I'm looking. It was histerical, but nothing was going to stop my one and only tinder hookup...lol

Doing PE these past few years I always measured afterwards and I felt that a flaccid of 3.5 inches would be the minimum to make me feel normal.

I had my ligament cut recently and when I woke up I was hanging down. I stood up in front of two nurses buck naked while one reached for my clothes to hand to me. I felt free, 100%. That embarrassment that I've had since 13 was completely gone.

I told one of the nurses the next day that I would be back for scrotal webbing reduction. She said "I was looking but I didn't see anything wrong, You looked 100% normal to me."

She also hinted that i should give her a call sometime.

When I got back to my motel I measured and I was 3.5 inches. Unfortunately over the course of 2 days the wrapping loosened and I turtled to 2.75 inches.

With the other two procedures that I will undertake I'm really confident that I will be around 3.75 inch flaccid.

I've gained about .75 inches in erect length since my 20's to get me at 5 inches erect. For me 5.5 inches is my minimum, 6 would have me strutting.

I really don't have any deeper issues.
I just want to feel and be percieved as normal.
My minimum is where a lot of guys start on these sites.

If I don't gain from hanging this year I'm going back to manual stretching and will probably hire you Big Al as a coach.

[Jabs]

Daaang, deep.

How are your erections after the procedure? And maybe the cost too lol. Sounds tempting.

[Big Al]

"No amount of drugs, therapy, etc, will help if you don’t make a concerted effort to get your mind under control This means doing your best to get to the root of whatever is ailing you- since acute and chronic feelings of sexual inadequacy are often rooted in deeper issues."

I would turtle to one inch in elementary school thru college. Some edging in my 20's got me to maybe 2 inches but I stood straight out and never hung down.

If you take your finger and point it straight at you with a slight downward curve then take that same finger and point it straight down. It looks twice as big.

I had my one and only tinder hookup 2 years ago and as I pulled down my pants I looked at her and she immediately looked up at and around the ceiling as her eyes got big. Like I'm looking. It was histerical, but nothing was going to stop my one and only tinder hookup...lol

Doing PE these past few years I always measured afterwards and I felt that a flaccid of 3.5 inches would be the minimum to make me feel normal.

I had my ligament cut recently and when I woke up I was hanging down. I stood up in front of two nurses buck naked while one reached for my clothes to hand to me. I felt free, 100%. That embarrassment that I've had since 13 was completely gone.

I told one of the nurses the next day that I would be back for scrotal webbing reduction. She said "I was looking but I didn't see anything wrong, You looked 100% normal to me."

She also hinted that i should give her a call sometime.

When I got back to my motel I measured and I was 3.5 inches. Unfortunately over the course of 2 days the wrapping loosened and I turtled to 2.75 inches.

With the other two procedures that I will undertake I'm really confident that I will be around 3.75 inch flaccid.

I've gained about .75 inches in erect length since my 20's to get me at 5 inches erect. For me 5.5 inches is my minimum, 6 would have me strutting.

I really don't have any deeper issues.
I just want to feel and be percieved as normal.
My minimum is where a lot of guys start on these sites.

If I don't gain from hanging this year I'm going back to manual stretching and will probably hire you Big Al as a coach.

Thanks! I'd be happy to be your coach!

You're to be commended for not giving up, and your story puts things into perspective for those of us who are [merely] doing this to go from average or already large to very large.

[Uxorious101]

Daaang, deep.

How are your erections after the procedure? And maybe the cost too lol. Sounds tempting.

It was 10k and my erections were almost straight up, maybe 2 inches short.

Now it's about 3 inches higher than straight out.

It felt a little wobbly at first but after a month I can't tell a difference.

[Jabs]

Amazing.

[Uxorious101]

You're to be commended for not giving up



I made myself a promise a long time ago that I will not leave this world with a little dick...lol

[Uxorious101]

Amazing.

Hopefully she will say that someday as well

[NeedlePenis]

I want to tell a story today, my story. I have no one I can talk to about this issues, this place is the only place where I can vent to people who can understand my cursed situation.

I'm a young black man, very good looking and in shape. Have a good social life and a moderate social circle. In my social circle I'm know as the ladies man, I'm usually the one who gets with most women and as a result of this I've slept with more than a hundred girls.

I've never thought much of it, I was just fulfilling my sexual desires and stroking my enormous ego. Until one day the reality started creeping in... maybe I have a penis that is considered small by a lot of girls. At first I didn't believe it, I had this thought at the back of my mind for a long time but I never fully succumbed to it. Maybe my ego was putting me in denial but I just refused to believe I was small, even when girls were mocking me to my face I was still refusing to accept the facts. I was thinking it was just spiteful insults done by women to insult my fragile ego.

Years went by, my confidence in bed was slowly growing but the truth was too obvious for me to escape. You guys probably know the stereotypes around black guys, and girls my age sleep around a lot more compared to previous generation so they quickly find out what's the ideal size. Well, it turns out I'm not the ideal size... In fact I'm considered small.

My decline started this summer, slept with a few girls in a row and been called small and refused further sex by 2-3 girls in a short time span. Was this a new occurrence ? My ego kept telling me yes, but the truth is that this has always been my reality. I'm only able to have sex once with most girls I deal with, after the first time I either get blocked or just messed around with excuses to why they can't meet again. It wasn't until I sat down and forced myself to be honest that I realised that there was definitely something wrong, I had no problem sleeping with women but I found it impossible to keep a fuck buddy. Something was up... And I had to confirm my doubts... Which I did.

Recently I started contacting girls I slept with in the past and asking explanation as to why they don't want to entertain sex with me anymore (Pathetic I know, but I had to know the truth). Keep in mind that most girls never initially admitted the problem was my size so that fueled my ignorance over the issue. After pressing and insisting, most girls admitted that I was too small for them. A few told me I was the smallest they have ever been with. Now u can imagine how this felt, especially to a guy who was living in denial and was convinced of having a good size. Admission after admission, I became addicted to contacting previous partner and confirming this pattern. Well... The results have been clear. And today I received another few confirmations...

My ego is crushed and I'm depressed, I don't even have the strength to follow PE routines. Which is ironic because this experience should motivate me to take PE seriously. I have lost the will to pursue most activities and I've became a shell of my former self.

The truth is that I feel like I've been defeated and already lost. Who knows how many times I've been mocked by girls during sleep overs ? My crushed ego doesn't even allow me to sleep or function normally, I have been broken and ridiculed for most of my life without even being aware of it.

Sorry for the long post... just wanted to rant to people, if you've read this far I thank you for your time. Hopefully my story doesn't depress you like it does to me. Please if u have experiences to share feel free...

It's over for me.


My size is 5.5 nbel 5.5 eg

This dude is so soft..... actually has decent girth at 5.5. I have 4.5 girth (needle dick) and your complaining. You actually have sex too and we suppose to feel sorry for you ? I feel like you just want to rub it in people face to be honest. You don’t have any real problems at all at 5.5 girth.

[Pegasus]

This dude is so soft..... actually has decent girth at 5.5. I have 4.5 girth (needle dick) and your complaining. You actually have sex too and we suppose to feel sorry for you ? I feel like you just want to rub it in people face to be honest. You don’t have any real problems at all at 5.5 girth.

Yes he is over average in both length and girth but he has head issues so one must try to have sympathy . By the way 4.5" girth is average hardly needle dick.