Who keeps PE a secret?

[arlos Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close arlos]

My ex came over and found my bathmate. She learned I started PE. I learned she goes through my stuff.

Do you keep this stuff to yourself or have you told your SO?

What happened because of your choice?

[not2big Senior Super ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close not2big]

I have ED so my wife is aware that I use a VED, but she is not aware that I also use a pump with a vacuume gauge and an all day extender for penis enhancement.

If your significant other finds you equipment, just tell her/him you are trying to improve your EQ for her/his pleasure.

I am currently sitting next to my wife watching tv with my ADS on under my pants and she hasn’t a clue. Actually, I have logged in 7.5 hours so far with the ADS.

[arlos Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close arlos]

I have ED so my wife is aware that I use a VED, but she is not aware that I also use a pump with a vacuume gauge and an all day extender for penis enhancement.

What's your thinking on keeping this to yourself? No judgments.

[Party Senior Member Member of the Month August 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Party]

Ok, wait. Your Ex came over and went through your stuff ? WTF. Why is she there. And why wold she, or you care? Confused.

[Party Senior Member Member of the Month August 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Party]

As far as your question. Yes my wife knows. Her cervix definitely knows now.

[arlos Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close arlos]

Ok, wait. Your Ex came over and went through your stuff ? WTF. Why is she there. And why wold she, or you care? Confused.

We have a kid and were dating at the time. She was very insecure about what I was doing with PE. It's not a big deal to me. I was doing it for better sex. She took it a different way.

[rbi99 Retired Moderator Member of the Month Nov 2017PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close rbi99]

I haven't told anyone, and I get all the conversation about PE that I want when I'm in here. While I have had the occasional guy jokingly tell me that they are hung like a horse, I have never had a discussion of any kind about penises with other guys. Tons of talk about sports, music, weather, mountain climbing and hiking, dogs, etc.

[Party Senior Member Member of the Month August 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Party]

We have a kid and were dating at the time. She was very insecure about what I was doing with PE. It's not a big deal to me. I was doing it for better sex. She took it a different way.

Ok so I’m still confused. You share a child, congrats. Of course she will always be in your life. Are you still having sex with her? If you care to answer?

[arlos Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close arlos]

Ok so I’m still confused. You share a child, congrats. Of course she will always be in your life. Are you still having sex with her? If you care to answer?

At the time, yes.

[not2big Senior Super ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close not2big]

What's your thinking on keeping this to yourself? No judgments.

My wife is a very modest, private person and rarely discusses anything sexually oriented except when engaged in intercourse. The one time I showed her how I pumped up my dick for sex, her response was, “be careful. You might hurt yourself.” I don’t believe she would understand using an extender and stretching. After 50 years, you get to know how your parter thinks.

[BootySnorkler Member Find all posts View Profile Close BootySnorkler]

I got wife and a friend that know about me exercising and when I did some BM routines ,my friend (female) even saw me pumping ,she was wondering ,how it looks after it gets legit 2inches after 20-25 mins in girth lol
To them is good ,they r questioning if it works but they both said if I benefit from it than why not ,every guy should focus on trying to achieve something better if possible ,so I'm gucci,I don't hide things ,to me is pretty normal ,as I go gym and workout all other muscles ,why shouldn't I focus on most important one kinda

[Cunny Linguist Senior Member Member of the Month May 2021 Find all posts View Profile Close Cunny Linguist]

I had mentioned to my wife that I was thinking about doing PE (using an extender) when we were discussing my issue with ED one night. I told her how PE could improve my EQ and how it could also increase my length...which prompted a very interested "Oh, really?!?" from my wife. I decided right then and there that I would be keeping it a secret and see if she would be able to tell the difference as things progress.

[madyogi Moderator Member of the Month April 2020PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close madyogi]

My wife "found out" because I left a browser window open to this site. We chatted about it, her first reaction was, "Are you kidding me, you think that works?!" Then, "Why? You're perfectly fine for me as you are."

We talked about it some more over the course of a month or two, and she did notice the difference, so she now encourages me to do it when time and privacy allow. That said, she has no interest in discussing it anymore at this point. All discussion is reserved for the action in bed

[Party Senior Member Member of the Month August 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Party]

My wife "found out" because I left a browser window open to this site. We chatted about it, her first reaction was, "Are you kidding me, you think that works?!" Then, "Why? You're perfectly fine for me as you are."

We talked about it some more over the course of a month or two, and she did notice the difference, so she now encourages me to do it when time and privacy allow. That said, she has no interest in discussing it anymore at this point. All discussion is reserved for the action in bed

Surely she noticed your two inch gain and obviously enjoys the bigger you.

[Party Senior Member Member of the Month August 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Party]

I had mentioned to my wife that I was thinking about doing PE (using an extender) when we were discussing my issue with ED one night. I told her how PE could improve my EQ and how it could also increase my length...which prompted a very interested "Oh, really?!?" from my wife. I decided right then and there that I would be keeping it a secret and see if she would be able to tell the difference as things progress.

And? Seen any gains yet?