A discussion on size

[8x5Goalzz Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 8x5Goalzz]

Hey everyone, I've been thinking a lot about this and I wanted to hear your thoughts. I'm OCD and I've been considering whether or not PE gains would be dismissed in a woman's eyes. Perhaps they could say "Oh his penis wasn't that size naturally." I personally think this is irrelevant, since they are not having sex with your younger self. PE undeniably increases the volume/mass of the penis so they can't say your penis is the same size as it was at least. Maybe I just shouldn't bring up the topic to future partners.

Excuse my inner insanity, I'm not trying to diminish anyone's progress in any way. I just deal with a lot of anxiety/depression and I'm having a rough day due to other things.

[Physdoc Retired Moderator Member of the Month July 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close Physdoc]

Women might say that if a guy had an obvious penile implant surgery with scars to show for it. Just like guys say that about women who get boob jobs. Doesn't seem to stop many guys from oogling at the bigger boobs, though, or women from getting the surgery. Otherwise, I can't see a reason why getting a gradually larger member is going to be some kind of stigma to fret over.

[8x5Goalzz Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 8x5Goalzz]

Women might say that if a guy had an obvious penile implant surgery with scars to show for it. Just like guys say that about women who get boob jobs. Doesn't seem to stop many guys from oogling at the bigger boobs, though, or women from getting the surgery. Otherwise, I can't see a reason why getting a gradually larger member is going to be some kind of stigma to fret over.

I thought about mentioning that in my post a little. Basically I've come to this. If your length/girth increases through PE, the tissues in your penis actually grew and you're getting more blood flow, so the organ truly grew biologically. As a side note, I can at least say a big penis through PE will perform equally or better to a pre PE penis of the same size, so it makes no difference in satisfying a woman. Usually PErs have better EQ anyways.

If you pump it full of silicone or some other substance, yes it will have more length and girth, but nothing about your actual penis tissues or blood flow improved. It's just full of artificial material. I feel like you can't really say your penis is bigger in this case, it's just surrounded by a bunch of goo or whatever is stuffed in there. Like would we actually say the guys with synthetic blobs have bigger penises than pornstars? I think most people would only value real penile tissue.

I've never been a fan of fake boobs because I feel like silicone inside the body is gross, but if I didn't know they were fake I'd say they looked good. Not trying to be misogynistic, I actually just prefer a flat chest to implants. As obsessed as I am with PE, I really don't care if girls have small boobs, or if their vagina isn't perfect. I'm a lot more concerned with the shape than the size.

[Dangler Senior Administrator☼ Wizard ☼ White Tiger Award 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Dangler]

The involved personality, type and depth of the relationship involved, can make answering this almost fruitless. Although you might have some general opinions, thoughts, I would think that you are not going to know very much in advance.
Play it by ear, don't over react.

[8x5Goalzz Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 8x5Goalzz]

The involved personality, type and depth of the relationship involved, can make answering this almost fruitless. Although you might have some general opinions, thoughts, I would think that you are not going to know very much in advance.
Play it by ear, don't over react.

You're right. I think I now care more about knowing I have a big penis, rather than a woman's opinion of how I got it. I still think to avoid all of this I'll just not mention it, but it's undeniable that PE increases your actual penis size (blood flow, smooth muscle etc)

[Dangler Senior Administrator☼ Wizard ☼ White Tiger Award 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Dangler]

Good you take control on your thinking this through, best you can in advance.Heck, who wouldn't ?

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

My wife knows, she liked it before, she likes it now but most of all she likes me

[Largo LaGrande Member Find all posts View Profile Close Largo LaGrande]

If it's any consolidation, science is dropping the idea that your penis size becomes fixed at age X. There are critical development points, but the varability thereafter is much larger than previously thought. Even without tugging and pumping, the size will vary throughout the life. Unfortunately for the worse, since a sedentary and dietary limited lifestyle is pretty much the norm. And it's likely that most people don't do many drastic lifestyle changes which would cause them to intuitively connect the dots.


So, there is no 'natural' penis size. What if you'd been an avid 24/7 ultra tight pant wearer since 1971 and just now realized that your dick has been screaming for air for 50 years? Would going commando style be unnatural? This in turn makes everything subjective. Shaking your dick an extra time for safety? Blasphemy!