Partner reactions??

**sg0123456** · 07-09-2010

nicely put larry, i got to agree with that for most things.. but i think that when it comes to sex self-confidence in a man is the ultimate turn on. which is why I always act like i believe my dick is the absolute best out there

**larrypinball** · 07-09-2010

I'm happy knowing that me being "the best out there" is one of the reasons my wife is now my wife. And I guess if I was still "out there" I'd do the same; just make sure you also deliver!

**sg0123456** · 07-09-2010

I do wonder whether some women would worry about their partner getting a much bigger dick for another reason: the boost to a guy's ego could be even bigger than being 5-10 years younger or having the perfect body.. could they be worried that their partner will be tempted to talk about, show or even use it more outside their relationship??

**larrypinball** · 07-09-2010

From my experience... That's been mentioned in our discussions about dicks and PE. So I guess it could be a worry and, but it's only you yourself that knows if there's a chance for that to happen. Looking at my past... stepping outside the relationship had more to do with the relationship than with my dick (didn't have the dick of my dreams though). But I'm sure if it happens in a relationship it will not be because of the dick. My PE though has to do with me, not wanting to put a log on the table or exploring new vaginas!

**sg0123456** · 07-09-2010

yes and im sure someone else is thinking "if you have a great relationship there is nothing to worry about" etc etc but insecurities are human and irrational..

**JJ8** · 07-09-2010

For me I don't want to tell my partner because she'll tell me to stop. She always says I have a big dick and its perfect for her....which could be truth, who knows.

But for me and my confidence I still want to be comfortable in the fact that I am bigger then average. But thats just me.

**Panther** · 07-09-2010

When I started I was a little under average at 5". Started at the same time I found my current gf. I am now 6.2" and she has noticed the difference, of course. The reason she noticed is deep throat - she can't do it quite as easily as before.

I've told her about PE and she tells me there is nothing wrong with my dick and I don't need it. My response: I appreciate the compliment. Then I explain I am really doing this for me and I want it for me. She understands and is on board. Beside, I think she likes it bigger and just doesn't want to say so for fear it will hurt me.

**millia** · 07-09-2010

Originally Posted by Panther

When I started I was a little under average at 5". Started at the same time I found my current gf. I am now 6.2" and she has noticed the difference, of course. The reason she noticed is deep throat - she can't do it quite as easily as before.

I've told her about PE and she tells me there is nothing wrong with my dick and I don't need it. My response: I appreciate the compliment. Then I explain I am really doing this for me and I want it for me. She understands and is on board. Beside, I think she likes it bigger and just doesn't want to say so for fear it will hurt me.

I couldn't have put it better myself, this is the same exact situation as me. But not so much about the sizes :P

**haroldo** · 07-09-2010

Originally Posted by sg0123456

there are many reasons why you might not want to say, eg i wouldnt want to risk promising a bigger dick and then not delivering.

I second that!!

**NP97** · 07-09-2010

If my girlfriend asks I'll tell her what I have been doing. After a little bit of playful lying first.
Dunno babe... get on webMD and figure it out... maybe something is wrong.
Something like that...