- 07-16-2010 #11
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- Jun 2009
Bro, you need a whole new mind concept. Number one, you aren't going to go from 6" to 11+", tomorrow, next year, ever. So if you are trying to beat down some past dude, you are going to loose. Even if you had the perfect penis and could add 5", you would have to be tugging that bad boy all day, every day, and with all the toys on the market, and for a whole lot more years than you are going to want to. That being said, if your minimum routine is all your unit can handle right now, then that is all you can do.
Since you are after length at this point, the jelqing is what is kicking your unit's butt, so add as much additional stretching to your routine as it can handle, and cut back completely from jelqing to see how that works. Add jelqing when your bad boy can start to handle it better. Overdo any of this and you won't have a bad boy to worry about.
After your gf said how big some past dude was, did she say anything complimentary to you? Was she joking, or dead ass serious? If all she wants is a huge cock in her, and isn't more concerned with what you are packing UPSTAIRS, I don't know..............................
- 07-16-2010 #12
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Girls seem to have a compulsion to over estimate/'boast' when posed with the question you asked. I do not know why this is, but it is well documented on this site.
Like the other guys said, it is beyond highly unlikely (11") - for your own sanity, you should translate this to mean 8" or maybe 8.5/9" & if this is the case, So what.
I would bet large sums of money that it was more in this range.
Nb, do not get angry at your girlfriend because; 1) Women just cannot read size, 2) Not all women understand just how over sensitive we men are on this particular topic.Vulcan
7.25 (start July 2009)>>>>>>8.125"BPEL (current)
5.25 (start July 2009)>>>>>>5.75"EG (current)
- 07-16-2010 #13
Dear Erro123, the woman lying on the bed beside you has two major missions to carry out. 1) take responsability of her orgasms 2) accept you for what you are.
If she's not satisfied with your penis, she has a wonderful solution at hand: go away.
If she doesn't accept you for what you are, you have a wonderful solution at hand: dump her.
A 6 inch penis might not be what you really like but is absolutely normal and fit to give pleasure to a normal and healthy minded woman.
Biggest sex organ in humans is between our ears and is called brain.
If she's convinced that an 11 inch monster is what she needs, you can gym out your penis until 10 inches and... it will never be enough.
Just do pegym FOR YOU, for the sake to do it, for the pleasure to do it.
If you get obsessed with results, no wonder that you don't progress. You're far too nervous to do things properly.
Relax, change partner, find someone who loves you for what you are and try to let things go more easyly in bed. You're there to have fun, not to undergo an ego threatening experience with the help of a sadic and stupid lady.There's a little wild one down there...
- 07-16-2010 #14
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- Oct 2008
You need to relax, brother. First of all, your girlfriend is full of shit. Unless she's fucked a thousand guys, I doubt if she has seen an 11" dick. And you will never get rid of the turtling so long as you are so up tight. When you start to relax and to honor your penis just the way the good Lord created it, you will find that it will start turtling less and less. Turtling is a defense mechanism, and the more nervous you are, the more it will turtle. As you practice p.e. over the months and then years, you will find that your penis will hang lower and lower and turtle less and less. This is a promise of long-term p.e.
Begin to visualize your penis hanging lower, thicker, and heavier as you practice your exercises. Before you know it, it will actually happen. This is the "leap of faith" that larry pinball was referring to. Good luck.Going411by7 (I was a grower; now I'm a shower).
Oct. '03: BPEL 7.75" x 5" Flaccid 4" x 4"
Feb. '04: BPEL 10.5" x 7" Flaccid 4" x 4"
Oct. '08 BPEL 9.50" x 6" Flaccid 7" x 6"
Feb. '09 BPEL 9.50" x 7" Flaccid 7" x 6.5"
February '12 BPEL 9.5" x 6" Flaccid 7.5" x 6.25"
June '13 BPFLS 11"
"It's All Good!" Bob Dylan
It's not the gettin' there but the
GOING that's gotta be good.
P.E.: My magnificent obsession
"Can't stop! Won't stop! Why stop?!
- 07-16-2010 #15
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Your girl is full of it and trying to break your confidence, time to move on.
- 07-16-2010 #16
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"i made the stupid mistake of asking my gf whats the biggest she had? i [B]jokingly said[/B] "10 inches? lol" she looked at me with a smirk on her face and said "nahhh... 11 inches".
a) when you play a game, you might lose.
b) Seems she caught on to your game, and played by her rules.
c) Oh, no rules in place? Each player will play to win WITHOUT rules.
d) Summary, you don't handle losing very well, or, you are way too serious when playing a game and you are unaware of that.
Just be glad she did not take offense at such a prying personal question and back hand you.
- 07-16-2010 #17
Hey Erro, welcome. I'd like to tell you part of my story so that maybe you don't feel alone in this situaton as I did for a while before I joined this PE site. I share your gf story almost equally. My current gf which I love to death, has a lot of possibility of becoming my future wife. This all almost came to an end when after almost 2 years of a perfect type of relationship, I did the same mistake and asked the same question. She did not give me any numbers since there was no measuring but she actually made it clear to me by pointing her fingers. At the time, I was 8.5 bpel, and had been the largest of almost all my past relationships and sex partners. I always had a doubt because I expected a certain surprised reaction when she first saw my penis but instead she had no type of reaction whatsoever. Anyways, one day we started talking about penis size and so it happened. I asked her who had the longest penis she'd ever seen and she held back and didn't want to answer. I then turned the question around and asked her who had been the thickest. She had the same reaction. I then kind forced her to answer me and she said well, the thickest was my ex from a few years back. I was shocked at the answer but kind of played it off like it didn't bother me, then I asked, "so who was the longest?" and she replied my other ex. I felt everything just stop all of a sudden, as if time had been paused. I kept cool though, or at least I tried to but she knew I was somehow hurt because I couldn't be myself at that point and for some time after that. I just kept asking myself why, why her out of so many other females that had been in my life before her. I felt that I would have been happy even if I had a 1 inch penis as long as she hadn't seen a bigger one. Like two days after that I asked exactly how long and how thick and she said the thick one was almost like the thickest part of her forearm which to me seems about 8 inches of girth and then the long one I'm guessing was at 11 or 12 inches in length by calculating how far she had her fingers apart when she measured with her hands. I couldn't believe it, I took her virginity but yet she had seen cock sizes that not even hoes have seen. This began to affect me a lot and was affecting our relationship greatly. I was thinking of breaking up with her but couldn't find a way because I loved her so much. She had been my first virgin and my first true love so I knew I had to find a way around this curse. I then began to search for penis enlargement alternatives and ended up landing here. I believe this is the best solution for anyone with our problems, you just have to dedicate yourself and be willing to go through with it and stick to a routine.
Always remember that women do not know how to measure. Did she actually tell you exactly how she measured? If she measured from under the penis from the testicles up or from the side, she did a wrong measurement. A lot of guys including myself have low hanging testicles which actually give us about 2 more inches than our along the top measurement. I would advise you not to keep bringing the subject up because it will hurt the relationship, she will not like for her man to be so insecure, and it will hurt you much further in the long run. Try to keep it off your mind and think to yourself that you are already doing something about it, yeah, that's right PE.
I began with my mind set to get bigger and reach 12 x 8 inches no matter what. I didn't care if it meant erectyle disfunction for me, as long as I reached my long term goal, I would be happy no matter what. I started to PE and have been on my way ever since. I feel as if there is no stopping me, I will get there in time but I will get there because I need to, I need to be happy for the rest of my life. Try JP's newbie routine which is great and shoutd not cause you any harm.
Good luck man, please try to stay focused on making yourself happy and I believe this will work for you. I have gained .7 inches in bpel injust about 2 months. If I'm doing it so you can you buddy.The power of the mind is our strongest tool.
- 07-16-2010 #18
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- Jun 2010
Thanks for all the responses guys. i really appreciate it! i had no where to turn about this.
anyways, i dont think she tried to make me feel insecure in anyway. my gf is a wonderful girl, best gf i've ever had by far! she always assures me that sex is great, she loves my penis, yada yada yada.
But finding out about my gf's past has really messed with my head. I used to be such a cocky dude, now its kind of out the window. I feel as if i've dug my self a hole and i cant really get myself out. Its just tough mentally, i'm sure some of you can understand
To all of you saying i need to relax and take my time, well i appreciate the concern. I'm very careful tho, trust me the last thing i want to do is break my dick!
I'm starting JP's newbie routine today. hopefully i'll start to see some good progress. i'm also gonna lay off on the masturbation too
oh and i dont plan to be anywhere near 11". i know thats not possible. my ultimate goal would be to gain an inch. i'd love to be bigger, but i have to set realistic goals for myself
thanks man ur story helped. i'm sure i'm not the only guy to ever go through this problem. Sounds liek you have a pretty sizeable dick tho... if i were you i would have just slapped my gf across the face with my dick and told her to respect the wrath of my cawk O.o
Last edited by erro123; 07-16-2010 at 12:55 PM.
- 07-16-2010 #19
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- Feb 2010
I had the same experience as you. My current gf said that her first bf was huge (I didn't ask, she said it because we were talking about penis sizes and joking). The moment she said that my life changed. I was having dinner and almost threw up. After all, I thought (and still think) that this is the girl I'll problably marry. It happened 3 years ago and sometimes I still talk about it with her and have discussions, and she'll feel like crap too. I often feel depressed, but I'm getting better... after 3 years.
However, after I discovered PE, I've been feeling much better. I can finally accept (well, kinda) that she had a bigger one, but she loves my cock and wouldn't change it for anything. She likes the way I make love, and she knows that she won't find it anywhere.
I'm peing for me first. Deep down there I want to be the biggest she's ever had, but it may be impossible. So, I have to concentrate on what I can be, and when my penis is finally bigger I know she'll have the best experience of her life.Goal:
- 07-16-2010 #20
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- Dec 2009
I wouldn't let it get to you. Do the JP program, pay attention to PI's as you jelq and in a few months buy some devices. Maybe even edge a few nights but only ejaculate once out of those few nights to get that EQ up and throbbin'.
I personally would consider an 11" cock a curse. The biggest I would ever want is 9" x 6.5". I enjoy getting blow jobs, deep throat and I enjoy a girl going balls deep with her vagina. If you got a ruler in your pants, most girls aren't going to sit all the way down on that.
Girls really don't understand how sensitive guys are about their dicks. It's becoming more factual everyday as stories like these continuously pop up.
I personally would dump her ass if she was serious because that makes her sound like a dick magnet which is a no go for me, but I doubt she was serious if she smirked. Maybe she was playing one of her jedi mind tricks like women do.
I used to turtle quite a bit, but you do need to just chill. Remember, there's someone out there who will love you for who you are and think you have the biggest dick in the world. My fiance guessed my length to be 10 inches long, you know why? Because she's so in love with me and I'm in love with her. We connect when we have sex, I have multiple orgasms and she has orgasms upon orgasms because she's relaxed and loves me for me and the way I rock the boat.
If nothing else my dude, learn how to eat pussy like a champ. I've made my fiance go into crying mixed with giggle fits after her final huge orgasm when I go down on her.. which usually leads to me getting the most amazing oral sex ever. I'm probably just echoing everyone else, but relax and do your PE one day at a time.
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