- 10-27-2010 #1
Now not a lot of guys on here know me, I started my career out on Betterman and achieved good gains over the last 6 years. Like most guys I was always a bit insecure about my penis size although I was perfectly average when I started. I am now on the large side and still trying to achieve something like an 8x6.
Now I work away from home sometimes for up to 6 weeks at a time. During my time away the misses and I have good skype sex and always build up to my return home for some monster sex sessions. Every now and then she will surprise me with some new underwear etc that she has bought and other times I buy the odd toy or 2 to spice things up.
The most recent toy was a jelly vibrator that has an insertable length of 8" with a girth of 5.75" with the base going out to 6.1/2". Unfortunately we never had the chance to try it out when I was home the last time but shed had a good shot or 3 whilst I was away. Now she says that thing is huge and it takes 15 mins with a smaller one to loosen herself up and when she finally gets the big one in it almost takes her breath away. So when I got home I obviously wanted to join in on the fun and see for myself just what she was talking about. My god she was right, after me going down on her for 10 mins or so then playing with another toy for a while we got the big boy out. Within minutes her legs were shaking, her breathing was so heavy and the bed patch of pussy juice was huge. After 20 mins or so of this I really felt her grinding right into the base of the toy which with a helping hand stretched her out until she took the whole thing. Screaming and squirting followed almost instantly until she begged me to stop as it was to much.
Now that night was a few weeks ago and since then she has had a few wine induced girly chats with her friends talking about sex toys and penis size etc in which they do a lot or so I was told. Now between them they all sort of guessed what size they really thought was perfect. The misses then compared it to some fruit (bananas) in the house. She said not one of them picked anything bigger than her pink vibrator which I can confirm measures 7 by 5. When she and one other picked something bigger which hers was 8 x 5.5 and 8 x 6 respectively .
So from what I have experienced over the years with women and having the misses back it up with a small 7/8ish group of 25-35 year old women that are certainly not shy but neither are they outlandish. It seems to me that something in the region of what i have and what I want is ideal. So to the new members or the single members out there that dream of 9 x 7 etc. Have a think of what your goals are. If its for the ultimate showman but not to bothered about a possible difficult sex life then go as big as you can. If you are growing with a partner then I am sure she will grow with you so to speak as I know mine has.
For 90% of the members on here and other boards out their, anything between 7x5 and 8x6 is where its at. So mr Average or slightly below has less to grow than a lot of people think. So when you guys are starting out, its maybe worth really taking a look at what you want to achieve once you have done jp's newbie routine. Then focus hard, knuckle down and before you know it you will be there.
- 10-27-2010 #2
- Join Date
- Apr 2008
I agree with your assessment of the outlandish (to me) nature of some of the stated goals you see here and elsewhere. I am convinced that what most women consider "big" or "ideal" is much smaller than what most men would come up with.
I am about 7.5" in insertable length with an average girth of around 5.75" going out to about 6.25" at the base, a little smaller than your wife's "big" toy. My wife has no trouble, but I know I would currently be bigger than desirable for some of the partners I had before marriage, simply because I am bigger now and I was "a little big for them" back then.
Based on my experience, most women consider anything approaching 7 inches in visible and/or insertable length, and anything significantly bigger than 5" in circumference as "ample" if not "more than ample".
I know there are many guys much larger than me who have had success finding multiple partners that can accommodate them, but I don't think that translates to the general female population's desires.
- 10-27-2010 #3
- Join Date
- May 2010
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I happen to be one of those guys with an 'outlandish' goal of 9x7 - but not for the reasons of showmanship or anything remotely like that. A simple matter of preference of what I want and desire to have. In the same way 8x6 my seem incredibly huge to some, it may not to others. Some guys like sports cars, others are happy in an SUV. let's just leave it at that.
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