Thread: Do girls easily adjust?
- 11-18-2010 #1
Hi everyone. Former lurker here
I have quite a bit of experience with PE and various devices, but have had a lot of time off. I'm just getting back into it and decided to go back to the basics, only jelqing for now. Well It has only been 4 days and the results have been really good. Bigger flacid and harder erections. I think the time off really did me good and it feels like I'm a "newbie" again, I think gains could come quickly.
Anyway, back to the question in topic. I was making love to my long term girlfriend this morning and she said something which made me somewhat pleased but more worried.
"It hurts a bit" then "has it got bigger?".
I have told her about PE in the past but didn't feel like admitting I had started it up again. I just commented that maybe it was because we hadn't had sex in a while, about 2 weeks. So as you can imagine it was nice to here PE was having a positive affect on my manhood, but devastating to here that I was hurting her already!
I don't want to have to give up PE so early. I'm really hoping she would be able to adjust, what do you guys think? I'm not that big at all, around 6.3", and it's not like she's very petite or anything, she's about 5'6" tall.
Sorry for long post.
- 11-18-2010 #2
Height has no real coralation to vaginal depth.
Some 5.0 girls can take a 10 incher.
Some 6.0 girls cant take a 8 incher.
If it were me, I would hold off in getting bigger.
Just make sure she is verry aroused before insertion to ensure the cervex moves all the way back.
The bigger you get, the more important foreplay is.
- 11-18-2010 #3
- Join Date
- Sep 2010
Yep more foreplay for sure, my gf can take my new size although I have definitely stretched her cooch out some. She likes it and finds
It more pleasurable just go slow before you go savage on her insides lol
- 11-18-2010 #4
You had some good advices here. Foreplay definitely does the trick. If not use some lube in addition and everything should be fine...
zenjamin is right: there's no correlation between height and vagina depth no more that correlation between height and penis size. Vagina depth varies according to arrousal so make sure that she's so horny that she can't wait for you to put your penis in... However, I doubt that any woman can completely take a 10 incher...
- 11-18-2010 #5
- Join Date
- Apr 2008
It depends on the woman. I have heard a lot of guys claim that there female partners "adapted" to their large size over time.
I had a couple of partners years ago for whom I was a bit bigger than ideal. I had to be mindful much of the time not to get too carried away and box their cervix, and/or they would have some soreness after prolonged intercourse. I was with both of them for 6+ months and that didn't change over the course of our relationships.
That also begs the question if a woman does have the ability to "adapt", is she going to want to stick around to do so? It no doubt depends on how she feels about you, as well as the level of discomfort that she experiences and whether she is having more serious issues, like frequent urinary tract infections or bleeding.
One thing is certain: I have heard many more women complain about guys being "too big" than I have heard men complain about being too big.
- 11-18-2010 #6
- Join Date
- Dec 2009
Well, for women it is all about the sex and the pleasure.
For men, it is often more about ego.
- 11-18-2010 #7
Thanks everyone that's really useful. There is usually quite a lot of foreplay but I'll go slower next time.
I didn't know about there being no correlation with size of vagina and body, so thanks for that!
If it doesn't seem like she's going to get used to it I will just have to swallow my pride and stop doing PE
- 11-18-2010 #8
- 11-18-2010 #9
It does make me wonder about her ex's size lol. I always imagined that were bigger but now I'm not sure... scared to ask!
- 11-19-2010 #10
We should send a link to this thread for those guys who desire a really huge penis, it may be an eyeopener for them. Its a thought worth having for any guy who is indicisive about what size to aim for. It is possible that big can become too big but i dont think half the guys here realise that.
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