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  • Argh!!! I think I'm getting better and then...

    Okay, sorry guys if you've heard this before, but I need to vent for just a second here. Finding PE has been one of the greatest changes of my life, because, whether I like it or not, a lot of my confidence and self-assurance has been based upon how I feel about my size. Since coming here in August I have learned that 1) I'm average (I was convinced I was below average); and 2) insecurities about my size are probably based off of watching hung guys in porn and/or having sex with other guys (which, intentionally or not, often ends in comparison). While having a larger member is awesome it doesn't mean much if you don't know how to use it, and ultimately, I need to be proud about who I am and my sexuality irregardless of how large I am.

    So, I think I'm doing really well and gaining confidence, thinking to myself "hey -- i have a nice thick cock. Sure there's stuff I'd like to change, but I am changing it...so let it go."

    But then WHAM I am at a dinner party or a beach or locker room, and some how the topic of some guy being "insanely hung" comes up and I immediately revert back to feeling helpless. I get all quiet, and for a second I feel like everyone knows that I got a baby flaccid or something. And I think that somewhere at some point people have talked about my dick size and complained about how small or average I am. It's weird and it's starting to piss me off. I'm tired dick size being equated to how good we are in bed or how manly we are (whatever that means).

    AND IT'S ALL IN MY HEAD!!!! (no pun intended)

    GOAL FOR PE: Get to a point (I don't really care about the size) where someone can mention some guys cock size and I can sit back comfortably and confidently and think "he's got nothing on me. I like mine just the way it is."

    In the meantime, back to JPs 90...
    STATS:
    Start (Aug '10) -- BPEL 6" x 6" -- BPFSL 5.75" x 3.5"

    GOAL:
    BPEL 7.5" x 6.5"
    :rolleyes:

  • #2
    thats head wrecking stuff mate but dont listen to any of that shit that people talk anymore....you just stick to your goals and forget about the way people chit chat.....truth is you have found something pretty incredible in PE.....it is great for the overall health of the penis......nothing can give you erections like PE....maybe viagra but that causes damage in the long run....i recognize what youre saying cos i get bothered easily and upset sometimes over things like that....but i always come back with more determination and a fresh head.....you sound like a positive person so dont let nothing slow you down....
    Starting Size-------6.75" x 5.0"
    Last Measurement-7.25" x 5.25"
    Destination---------7.5" x 5.5"

    "A smile is a curve that sets everything straight"

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    • #3
      Thanks wc!

      Determination: Check.
      Fresh perspective: Check (especially after the site went down).

      PE is truly something incredible.
      STATS:
      Start (Aug '10) -- BPEL 6" x 6" -- BPFSL 5.75" x 3.5"

      GOAL:
      BPEL 7.5" x 6.5"
      :rolleyes:

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      • #4
        Originally posted by JonasKay View Post
        Thanks wc!

        Determination: Check.
        Fresh perspective: Check (especially after the site went down).

        PE is truly something incredible.
        You are fine just the way you are. No need to let your head swim in self doubt.


        For I will restore health unto thee and I will heal thee of thine wounds, saith the Lord Jeremiah 30:17

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        • #5
          Easier said than done kingpole, but when you're right...you're right.
          STATS:
          Start (Aug '10) -- BPEL 6" x 6" -- BPFSL 5.75" x 3.5"

          GOAL:
          BPEL 7.5" x 6.5"
          :rolleyes:

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          • #6
            Its hard man. I used to be reluctant on intimacy because I thought my dick was too skinny. No one has ever told me that but the mind is a powerful thing. Its sucks that we've been indoctrinated to think that we are measured by our dick size. You just gotta look past it man. If it takes you getting a bigger dick to realize that then so be it. Thats why I'm doing PE at least.
            https://www.pegym.com/forums/progres...nt-logger.html
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            • #7
              I try to shut my mouth when that topic comes up. I know mines big enough for me or whomever I may be banging. Only time I say anything is about how everyone is basically the same and state what the average is.
              Just keep it out of your mind... girth is generally more important and you have MORE than enough in that regards. You're above average in length as well.

              Keep on PEing and working on the mind as well!
              Starting Size (09/2009): ~7"BPEL x ~5" MSEG
              Most Recent Measurement (08/13/2012): 8"BPEL x 5.5"MSEG
              Final Goal: When I'm told to stop.
              http://www.towelaroundtheworld.com/#/us

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