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  • Quiting PE

    I have decided to quit PE, I do not foresee myself returning at a later point either. I posted details in my thread "Girth is Temporary". I've posted on here fairly regularly for the past few months and thought it would be best to provide a reason why I am not going to be posting much or any at all from this point on. I plan on continuing to do kegels, but will not be doing any other PE exercises.

    This is a somewhat depressing conclusion to what I was hoping to be a physically transformative experience. I never fully shared my story of why I became self-conscious about my penis size because I didn't want to be identified by anyone regardless of how slim that possibility would be. To sum it up, I have been cheated on by almost every female in my adult life. Furthermore, I have received comparison comments multiple times. One girl when I was younger and a young woman recently repeatedly compared me to the size of other men they had been with. Obviously, my penis was much smaller in size to whom they were comparing me and the most recent experience encouraged me to investigate average penis size in order for me to prove to myself that I was average and the comments were unnecessary. Unfortunately, I have found that my penis girth is 4.25-4.375, which is in the bottom 20th percentile for penis girth. I am .5 inches or more below the average cited penile girth. Considering sex studies inquiring women about penis size have cited girth as more important than length has left me feeling depressed and inadequate.

    I never wanted to be excessively large, but to be below average and for it to be repeatedly pointed out is a hard pill to swallow. It has taken a toll on my view of my own masculinity. I suppose I need to accept it for what it is and hope I meet someone that can do the same. I have never judged a female physically the way I have been judged in my relationships. I am a romantic person with other positive qualities. As difficult as it is my value as a lover shouldn't be significantly depreciated by the fact that my penis is somewhat thinner than average.

  • #2
    You're not a failure until you give up. Think about it, if you give up, you KNOW no gains will ever come of it, but if you press on through the frustration and the temporary feeling of inadequacy, sooner or later life you'll reach the point where success is just at the tip of your fingertips (no pun intended).
    Start:
    BPEL: 6.00"
    EG: 5.00"

    Current:
    BPEL: 7.00"
    EG: 5.10"

    Goal:
    BPEL: 8.00"
    EG: 6.50"

    Your "feel good" chemical, Dopamine.

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    • #3
      Wow man, that should be reasons to continue not quit. But ultimately you should do PE for you and nobody else. My advice is to keep going and try to do something about it! Never surrender! You can please women with what you have, and I bet the ladies on here will agree..

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      • #4
        How do you expect to ever get a thicken penis is you quit? jelq the right way and do it slow and watch the blood move through your penis filling up the glans. If you do that it's impossible for your penis NOT to grow, it could take a long time, even years, but if you quit you will NEVER see results. Why not just continue to PE because atleast then you have a CHANCE
        BPEL 6.75 (+.25)
        EG 4.75

        Goal 8x6!

        "Nature does not hurry, yet everything is accomplished" - Lao Tzu

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        • #5
          I don't understand why you are quitting...
          are you quitting because the gains are not coming fast enough?
          or are you quitting because you just feel completely defeated ?

          you can accept your penis as it is and also continue to work at it ..
          ~ If.....
          ~ TTBB big-ginners program for JPopping boobies
          ~ Lust and Love


          “It is so hard to leave—until you leave. And then it is the easiest goddamned thing in the world.”




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          • #6
            Then you have not found the right woman but rather you dated some little "girls". Any female that would compare you is not worth listening to.Real woman, a woman that you could make a wife, doesn't care about your dick size; they care about you as a person.Do you make them smile, take care of them, show kindness, do little things for them and the list goes on and on. The same thing you would expect from a woman and that you have never judged a female physically is the type of woman you want to spend the rest of your life with. Pe or not it's up to you but maybe you should look for a better class of women to date. Men, and real men, are much more than a dick!
            The world's still a toy if you just stay a boy!

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            • #7
              I agree with the folks above. The bottom line is that you have not been choosing your partners very well. Any woman who says anything negative about your size is a loser. Yes, you are somewhat below average -- but that won't matter a hoot to the right girl. I know you are probably tired of hearing it, but it really truly is all about how you use what you have.

              And why decide now that PE won't work for you? You joined here in September? Seems to me that you are just giving up. Nothing happens magically fast, you have to work for it. And above all be patient (that goes for finding a partner as well as growing a bigger penis, by the way).

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              • #8
                Sorry to hear that you are quitting, but for you it might be a good thing if you attempt to do it with mentality such as that. But don't quit altogether, take as much time as you need, get some things worked out and when your attitude is more positive and you feel better about yourself, then you can come back into it and really appreciate and enjoy the gains that you make. Concerning your girth, I don't think it's something to be overly concerned about seeing average is only about 4.5 anyway.

                Take Care

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                • #9
                  And Cusp is completely right -- you wouldn't pick a woman to spend the rest of your life with based on boob size, right? Well, us ladies don't pick our men for cock size, either. Men worry about it all the time; women (know know better) don't.

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                  • #10
                    hey homie- heres a different perspective. i, too,am ashamed (kind of) of my 6x5 on a good day. but dude, youve only been at it for a little while! like 3 months, right? cant you notice better erection quality? doesnt it feel heavier? can you seriously not tell that its heavier? i have found a woman who is okay with my penis size and loves me for who i am. you will too. now here's the fun part. keep PEing for 3 years then you can nail some chick with your 9" dong and fuck out the frustrations of all past girls who didnt appreciate you. this moment you will have will be extraordinary. anyway you did it for yourself! not for some chick! you know damn well that youll regret it if you quit. personally i f*cking love PE. gives me an excuse to play with myself 5 days a week. having an orgasm w/o ejaculating is amazing (edging). i can get hard ons that rival viagra. not only that but the g-spot is only 2" in dude. PE makes me feel great about myself. i want to share that with my fellow man. good luck in wtvr you choose homie.
                    starting stats: nov '10 6x5
                    short term goal: 7x5
                    long term goal: 9x6.5 I don't care how long it takes.
                    I'm obsessed and will meet this goal even if it takes years.

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                    • #11
                      Ur beliefs direct ur life, ur believing it won't work. So it won't.

                      Choose to stop pe. No ones stopping u. But u did post in here maybe of the hope someone can help convince u not to stop.

                      Just think if in 6 months to a year time and u get ur head righgt and u devcide to return to give it another shot, you couldve had all that pe time under your belt with some impressive gains.

                      All the best mate, confidence is a way of living. Not a result of action.
                      Start. - Sep 2010. BPEL. 6.5 MSEG. 4.875
                      Current - BPEL. 7.0. MSEG. 5.0
                      Goal. - Vote in the "How long it took for 1 inch" poll
                      And BPEL. 8.0. MSEG. 6.0

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                      • #12
                        When you find a girl who picks you for who you are and not the size of your dick, grab her, pal. She is gold!!!!! And they are out there, believe me.

                        We will be here for you no matter what, so if you change your mind and decide to return, we will welcome you with open arms. You are our friend in p.e. even if we are in cyberspace.

                        If you DO decide to return, stick with the winners, like miki, who is a newbie like yourself, and yet he is a WINNER!!

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                        • #13
                          Have you tried clamping or pumping?
                          I suggest jelqing until you get conditioned, throw in some ulis and squeezes and then proceed to clamping or pumping.
                          Sure, you may have to do it the rest of your life.

                          But clamping feels so good that I would do it 10 min every day, the rest of my life, if all I got was better EQ.
                          Log
                          Measurements (Current):
                          BPEL: 7.25"
                          HG: ~6.25"|MEG:6.25"|Low shaft EG:6.5"|BG: 7"

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                          • #14
                            Guys, you need to read his reasoning before telling him to continue. IMO, if he doesn't feel comfortable progressing from here after the issues he has seen, then he should not do so. His issues are interesting however, as I have, for lack of better terms, beat the heck out of my penis for the last two years, and have not experienced any issues. (knock on wood)
                            My progress notes

                            Goal: approx 7.25 EL x 5.7 EG - Length for me, Girth for her:biggrin1:

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                            • #15
                              Yeah, John did A LOT of heavy research before doing any PE other than edging and kegels. He was a major skeptic and I think just seeing anything that possibly resembled an injury was enough to scare him, which is fair enough.

                              I hope he does find a good woman, seemed like he's had a lot of pain in relationships. Good luck to him.
                              Foreskins are friends.

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