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Thread: How to let your son in on PE
- 02-01-2011 #121
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I'm 19 for anyone thinking about talking to their song thinking age, and honestly I wish I had learned about this even sooner than now.
I'm a health student so I know a shit ton about general health, and I'll tell you 2 important facts I've learned in my courses:
1. Stress can become the absolute worst detrimental health aspect in your life, and regardless of how physically healthy you are it can cause serious problems.
2. When it comes to self esteem, dick size is numero uno on a vast majority of guys. People with a good self esteem have less stress and live longer, healthier lives.
Maybe not every girl cares if you have a big dick, but if it's bigger than it is now, there is almost no doubt it will make them happier, which in turn makes you happier and gives you less stress in your life.
Make it subtle because it would honestly be kinda awkward to talk about this with my dad (if he had told me about it, actually just kinda found it randomly one day, thank god), but the sooner someone learns about this stuff and the importance (I'd say once you're old enough to legit start having sex like 16-17), the better for them. They'll thank you in the long run when they are having an awesome time with sex, feel on top of the world and never have to worry about such a small thing (which'll actually be big by now, haha pun intended)
- 02-02-2011 #122
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It's interesting that if you look at the poll when guys would want to have learned about PE, the highest ranks are the ages between 11 and 20. While I understand that the results may be a little skewed because of our desire to get bigger, but I have a feeling the results would be pretty similar with your sons regardless.
To me, there is no shame in PE. It's no different than when guys first began to lift weights/bodybuild and it was a fringe thing. Now it's mainstream.
- 02-03-2011 #123
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Thanks for your viewpoints, aimingfor8! It's interesting to get the views of younger PEers about how fathers should let their sons in on PE. Especially interesting was your point that the sooner someone learns about this and it's importance the better. I would add that it's importance in the grand scheme of things is minimal. It's much more important to be a good person, hard worker, socially engaging, and well rounded than it is to grow a big dick. I love your quote "They'll thank you in the long run when they are having an awesome time with sex, feel on top of the world and never have to worry about such a small thing (which'll actually be big by now, haha pun intended)" because in the grand scheme of things, it is a small thing. That's why I don't think it's as big a deal as a lot of dads make it out to be. If you are talking to your son regularly, then bringing up PE, it's usefulness, and proper perspective in life should be no big deal.
To me, there is no shame in PE. It's no different than when guys first began to lift weights/bodybuild and it was a fringe thing. Now it's mainstream.
- 02-03-2011 #124
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Well my son is only 23 months old and he's hung like a horse, so I don't see it being an issue
The way he plays with it all the time, he's doing it naturally.
I think I would just leave it in my history or leave it in a window that I minimized and "fotgot" to close if there was anything I wanted my son to see on the computer. But were years from that...Start Feb 3 2011 - Erect 7.25" x 5.25" / Goal - 8.5" x 6.5"
- 02-03-2011 #125
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That's what happened with Bigboss512 when he was 14 years old. "I found out about pegym because my father forgot to logout of the site. Just leave the site up an he'll look into it."
I would suggest that talking to your son is a better approach for a couple of reasons. First, he's going to have questions and need guidance. Second, having him find it that way kind of suggests that it's a secret or dirty, like finding dad's porn stash. Just my two cents. Go back and read our exchange about it (Posts #84, #85, and #86 on the thread).To me, there is no shame in PE. It's no different than when guys first began to lift weights/bodybuild and it was a fringe thing. Now it's mainstream.
- 02-04-2011 #126
Yeah I am against the stealthy accidently leaving it up on the screen method too HigherOne. This is bullshit having a CIA encounter with your own son. Openness is the foundation of all father-son trust. Tell the little SOB you stretch dick and be done with it.
Last edited by rhinoguy; 02-04-2011 at 12:29 AM.
Where there is PE, there is happiness and excitement.
Start, Oct. '10:
BPEL: 7.0"
May 2014:
BPEL: 7 and ~7/8"
Goals:
2014: BPEL 8.0"
2025: BPEL 36.0"
- 02-04-2011 #127
Don't call him an SOB though- that was just a figure of speech!
Where there is PE, there is happiness and excitement.
Start, Oct. '10:
BPEL: 7.0"
May 2014:
BPEL: 7 and ~7/8"
Goals:
2014: BPEL 8.0"
2025: BPEL 36.0"
- 02-04-2011 #128
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- 02-04-2011 #129
Even though I'm 18, I don't think I should have been told about this site by my father, I woulda been like "thanks dad!" If he told me about this place when I was about 15. I think if you know about PE, you should let your son know when he is entering puberty. Why would you sell your son short on having a more thrilling sexual future?
Started PE on 12/22/10
BPEL- 6.5"
Short Term Goal
BPEL- 7.0"
Long Term Goal
BPEL- 7.5"
(Will Post other Measurements and goals when I measure)
- 02-05-2011 #130
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Even though I feel this way too, you have to realize that some fathers aren't comfortable letting their sons in on PE at puberty. They feel their son isn't mature enough emotionally to handle the knowledge or that physically they may harm themselves overdoing it. I think with proper guidance and talking with your son these things can be mitigated and avoided with him doing PE, but it takes openness and honesty. Not every father and son relationship is like that. It takes work and time.
To me, there is no shame in PE. It's no different than when guys first began to lift weights/bodybuild and it was a fringe thing. Now it's mainstream.
Congrats, bro!
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