How to let your son in on PE

**Wolfmesser** · 02-05-2011

Even though Im totally in favour of the idea of letting your son in on PE eventually, depending on his maturity level, theres something that I would worry about telling him at say 14 or 15. At 15 or so we are at our horniest, we'll catch ourselves looking at nice asses and breasts in the hallways in highschool and we think about sex on a constant basis, that being said, our penis becomes our "guide" throughout adolesence. I know that at 15, had I only had the enlargment aspects in mind, I not only go at it hardcore, I would also not hesitate telling my friends about such an awesome thing, and at that stage in your life, you think "Oh hells yeah I want a bigger dick!" then next thing you know you get a powder keg effect when your son and his friends yanking at their dick hardcore potentially causing uneccessary problems. I already gave my opinion on it but in my opinion explaining it with both the health and sexual aspects of it is the way to go, just like bodybuilding, you want to look good to the ladies, but you also want to be healthy and feel good about yourself, this approach I think is best, and also leading by example, introduce it carefully, and give him all the details providing hes mature enough to handle it. Its just like the force. lol

**deleteduser** · 02-05-2011

Originally Posted by Wolfmesser

Even though Im totally in favour of the idea of letting your son in on PE eventually, depending on his maturity level, theres something that I would worry about telling him at say 14 or 15. At 15 or so we are at our horniest, we'll catch ourselves looking at nice asses and breasts in the hallways in highschool and we think about sex on a constant basis, that being said, our penis becomes our "guide" throughout adolesence. I know that at 15, had I only had the enlargment aspects in mind, I not only go at it hardcore, I would also not hesitate telling my friends about such an awesome thing, and at that stage in your life, you think "Oh hells yeah I want a bigger dick!" then next thing you know you get a powder keg effect when your son and his friends yanking at their dick hardcore potentially causing uneccessary problems. I already gave my opinion on it but in my opinion explaining it with both the health and sexual aspects of it is the way to go, just like bodybuilding, you want to look good to the ladies, but you also want to be healthy and feel good about yourself, this approach I think is best, and also leading by example, introduce it carefully, and give him all the details providing hes mature enough to handle it. Its just like the force. lol

Excellent post, Wolfmesser! I think that if you slowly introduce PE to your son over time you can get over some of those issues. For example, letting your 15 year old know that after he takes a leak he should pull on his dick up, down, and side to side before putting it away is a good introduction. At 16 introduce jelqs. At 17 introduce some more advanced exercises and kegels. Then at 18 introduce him to the forums. This is just a suggestion. Other guys suggest that if your son grows up knowing about PE from an early age it'll just be normal to him and won't be a big deal. Sometimes it's US as fathers that think it's a big deal, but our sons won't think anything of it if they've grown up with it.

**wind chill** · 02-06-2011

Well if i had a son there would be no point in telling him.He would do the same thing i did.
Do a in-depth long long search and he would find it.

**deleteduser** · 02-06-2011

Originally Posted by Sidewinder.a7x

Well if i had a son there would be no point in telling him.He would do the same thing i did.
Do a in-depth long long search and he would find it.

I think that this misses some of the point of letting your son in on PE. The point isn't just so your son has the information to grow a bigger dick. The bigger goal is a father son bond where you can be honest and open about anything with each other. When we hide things, we do that for a reason. Is that because we are ashamed or embarrassed, for protection of the other person, or because it's an awkward conversation? We need to look at ourselves as fathers and realize that the uncomfortable talks with our sons give the very guidance and bonding that they need. For years, dads have abdicated their responsibilities to their sons, letting moms, TV, friends, and the Internet guide their sons. If you can be your true self with your son about PE, you open the door to being authentic with him in many things and he with you, as you lead by example of sharing with him.

**rhinoguy** · 02-06-2011

Mellow, gently choreographed conversations are the way to go. You can't know the whole dialog going in, only that you want to hit certain topics and open the conversation. Yes it is awkward getting started. Yes your son is going to see an awkward conversation coming a mile away. I assure you that you will feel in the end the trouble was worth it though, and even if it goes less well than hoped, having made an attempt to open the door is worth a ton. I still think back to specific conversations my father started with me about life and about sex when I was a kid in his home. Some of them went well, others went so-so and one I can think of kind of missed the boat. But I always valued his love for me as a kid. It does matter to try and have quiet personal talks with your kids. Once every now and then is all it takes, maybe once a year if things are going ok. More often if not. Tell Joey I would like for us to take a walk so we can talk about something that has been on my mind, something that may not be all that comfortable to talk about at first.

**deleteduser** · 02-06-2011

Originally Posted by rhinoguy

Mellow, gently choreographed conversations are the way to go. You can't know the whole dialog going in, only that you want to hit certain topics and open the conversation. Yes it is awkward getting started. Yes your son is going to see an awkward conversation coming a mile away. I assure you that you will feel in the end the trouble was worth it though, and even if it goes less well than hoped, having made an attempt to open the door is worth a ton. I still think back to specific conversations my father started with me about life and about sex when I was a kid in his home. Some of them went well, others went so-so and one I can think of kind of missed the boat. But I always valued his love for me as a kid. It does matter to try and have quiet personal talks with your kids. Once every now and then is all it takes, maybe once a year if things are going ok. More often if not. Tell Joey I would like for us to take a walk so we can talk about something that has been on my mind, something that may not be all that comfortable to talk about at first.

Excellent post, rhinoguy! I agree with you that "one and done" is a bad way to go. Talks over time are a way to ensure he's doing PE properly and that you guys have a good father-son bond.

**wind chill** · 02-07-2011

Originally Posted by higherone

I think that this misses some of the point of letting your son in on PE. The point isn't just so your son has the information to grow a bigger dick. The bigger goal is a father son bond where you can be honest and open about anything with each other. When we hide things, we do that for a reason. Is that because we are ashamed or embarrassed, for protection of the other person, or because it's an awkward conversation? We need to look at ourselves as fathers and realize that the uncomfortable talks with our sons give the very guidance and bonding that they need. For years, dads have abdicated their responsibilities to their sons, letting moms, TV, friends, and the Internet guide their sons. If you can be your true self with your son about PE, you open the door to being authentic with him in many things and he with you, as you lead by example of sharing with him.

i guess your right.I'm pretty far away from having a son so i don't worry too much.