How to let your son in on PE

[GaryTruman]

i didnt read this thread. but do as the other guy did. he heard his mom talking about kegels and talked to her. talk about it with someone, or just have the phone off. do it where he can hear.

unless he thinks ur cheating on his mom with some guy or another chick. lol

[deleteduser]

Well had my boy over yesterday and he checked ou the site for a while, thought it was interesting and says hell get on the site but who knows with him, as long as he has that skate board in his hands hes not thinking about too much else. At least hes interested but its his choice and I will let him do as he will, he did like the site.

That's awesome bigopimp! You have a very healthy view about PE, you let your son in on it but aren't forcing it on him. Congratulations on keeping that bond strong with your son and talking openly about PE and PEGym with your son.

[deleteduser]

I think that question would spark the mind of any male on the planet, haha! The question for me is: is it fair and appropriate to give him that kind of power or knowledge at a young age?

Depends on how young you're talking, in my opinion. I know guys who have their sons growing up knowing about PE, much like you know as a kid about parents having babies. As they get older, you tell them more and more as they are mature enough to handle it.

I also know guys that wait until their sons are in their early teens during puberty to let them in on PE during the "birds and bees" talk. They feel that if their son is old enough to get erections and understand about sex, then he's old enough to know about PE.

There are guys I know like bigopimp on here that let their sons in on PE in their late teens, knowing their sons are sexually active and on the cusp of adulthood.

With any age level, it's important that the father guide the son to use the power, as you call it, responsibly. Not only so the son doesn't overdo PE and possibly injure himself, but also so that he doesn't use his new size to be arrogant or obnoxious. I think letting your son in on PE can be done in all of these ways effectively if the father son relationship is open, honest, and ongoing.

[Batwoman]

Number one priority should be safety. It's all well and good to talk about sharing knowledge, but we see so darn many injuries here when young guys get into PE and treat it like weightlifting or running or something else with a "more is better" philosophy. I think every boy is different, but I would ALWAYS say to err on the side of caution with your particular child. How would you feel if you "let them in on the secret" and then they overdid it and damaged themselves? My guess is that a graph of PE injury rates versus age would show that the vast majority of PE injuries occur with guys who are 18-20 years old and just don't have enough common sense to approach PE slowly and carefully.

[deleteduser]

Number one priority should be safety. It's all well and good to talk about sharing knowledge, but we see so darn many injuries here when young guys get into PE and treat it like weightlifting or running or something else with a "more is better" philosophy. I think every boy is different, but I would ALWAYS say to err on the side of caution with your particular child. How would you feel if you "let them in on the secret" and then they overdid it and damaged themselves? My guess is that a graph of PE injury rates versus age would show that the vast majority of PE injuries occur with guys who are 18-20 years old and just don't have enough common sense to approach PE slowly and carefully.

I agree completely. No father (or mother, Batwoman) wants their son to get hurt. Raising your son to be responsible is key when/if you decide to let him in on PE. For example, we were raised around guns (my father was an avid hunter and cop) and we grew up to respect their power. We also lifted weights with our dad and uncles. We grew up with their guidance in doing so, which prevented a lot of mistakes and potential injuries. We grew up around it, so we respected it and the knowledge of the people training us.

I"m not saying let your son in on PE young, old, or at all. I've seen guys be successful doing it all ways. The key is to teach your son to respect PE for what it is and what it can do, both good and bad, whatever age you decide to let him in on it. You have to know your son, his maturity level (to know how much you're going to let him in on at one time), and his willingness to listen to you as his parent or guide into PE before you let him in on it.

[Joe30909]

My Dad didn't teach me PE but a friend's Dad did. Was at my bud's house for the weekend whenI was 13 or 14 and he told me his Dad had taught him to stretch his dick to make it bigger. I thought he was talking about jacking off until my friend showed me how. That was on a Friday night. On Saturday his Dad took us out to their small family farm for the day, just us boys. On the way my buddy told his Dad he had shared his PE routine with me and that I wanted to learn more. It took some begging on my part but later that day his Dad gave us both some instruction. I remember thinking how huge is Dad's penis was and how I wanted mine to grow like that. I am cut and his Dad's cock was the first uncut dick I had ever seen, thick and probably about 8.5 or nine inches. My bud and I jelqued togehter from then through High School and his Dad would show us new tricks every now and then. I am 51 and of course this all happened before internet info. I've been at it ever since. Sharing your knowledge can be a useful thing. Still like to PE with others in to it when I get a chance. My wife knows about it and now both my boys are grown but both at least know how although I don't know if they PE now or not.

[BigO]

When I talked to my son the primary focus was on the health and function of his penis. I did point out that it could get bigger but the best benefit was overall penis health and better sexual health as well. I dont want him to abuse the power so to speak but he is not that kind of young man, been with the same gal since he was 17 and he is about to turn 20 so hopefully he is ready. i felt as if he was and talking to him about this was something I thought about for a few weeks before it was done. I completely respect all the views on this thread as they helped me to reach a decision with good info and insight.

[deleteduser]

My Dad didn't teach me PE but a friend's Dad did. Was at my bud's house for the weekend whenI was 13 or 14 and he told me his Dad had taught him to stretch his dick to make it bigger. I thought he was talking about jacking off until my friend showed me how. That was on a Friday night. On Saturday his Dad took us out to their small family farm for the day, just us boys. On the way my buddy told his Dad he had shared his PE routine with me and that I wanted to learn more. It took some begging on my part but later that day his Dad gave us both some instruction. I remember thinking how huge is Dad's penis was and how I wanted mine to grow like that. I am cut and his Dad's cock was the first uncut dick I had ever seen, thick and probably about 8.5 or nine inches. My bud and I jelqued togehter from then through High School and his Dad would show us new tricks every now and then. I am 51 and of course this all happened before internet info. I've been at it ever since. Sharing your knowledge can be a useful thing. Still like to PE with others in to it when I get a chance. My wife knows about it and now both my boys are grown but both at least know how although I don't know if they PE now or not.

Wow, so PE was around 35 years ago? How old were your sons when you let them in on PE?

[deleteduser]

When I talked to my son the primary focus was on the health and function of his penis. I did point out that it could get bigger but the best benefit was overall penis health and better sexual health as well. I dont want him to abuse the power so to speak but he is not that kind of young man, been with the same gal since he was 17 and he is about to turn 20 so hopefully he is ready. i felt as if he was and talking to him about this was something I thought about for a few weeks before it was done. I completely respect all the views on this thread as they helped me to reach a decision with good info and insight.

Sounds like you had the right approach with your son, bigopimp. Great job!

[Zathora_8x5.5]

Thanks to wanttogrow for getting a conversation started on "helping your male children" regarding would you let your son in on PE. This thread is "How to let your son in on PE" for those guys that said they want to, but don't know how to get the conversation started. This thread is for needed advice and success stories on how other members let their sons in on PE and made it through. Those without sons can contribute by discussing would you want your dad to let you in on PE, and if so, how would you want him to go about it and at what age?

to me if my dad walked in and told me to do 50-100 Jelqs before bed every night i would of said. . . ok dad. . what a Jelq? (lol)
but that's me, i was VERY open as a child/kid

i personal will be telling my son to do it (when i am blessed with one) but i would only ask for him to do jelqing (must be a middle eastern thing)

yeah but no going for a walk or anything (coz if my dad took me for a walk then said "look son i need to talk to you about your dick" i would think its about to fall off

just my 20 cents