How to let your son in on PE

**deleteduser** · 06-06-2011

Originally Posted by averageguy6

At 45 Im used to it and it was done well so not a major problem...although my glans is getting cracked and dried out....Along with PE Im considering foreskin restoration...but its is a lot of work to do both...Im a surgeon with my own practice to run and as such sometimes a very busy person.....I do have some time to work on PE here and there in the evening and on weekends...and my wife is understanding about the whole thing. (although I would not want my 11 year old daughter to walk in on me hanging weights. Nor do I want her to get obsessed with the idea that somehow a large penis is "better" since her dad was always working on one...)

My wife is a wonderful human being and is understanding about my feelings.... somewhat....she is a dermatologist and skin surgeon... so she has offered to give me a skin graft to accelerate the foreskin restoration...but I prefer the natural way and Im not sure where the skin graft would come from anyway....At work, she sees a variety of (hopefully non-erect..ha ha) penises at work.....daily....and she swears I am average. She has zero interest in my having a change to my penis. We have had sexual problems over the years based upon her childhood issues and a strange fetish that she developed as a child which scares the hell out of her..(another story)....but I dont think she has that much interest in penis size...my wife does not have orgasms from intercourse...only from self stimulation and its very difficult for her...but it does happen. Of course, initially I blamed her lack of orgasms on my "small" penis...but now I know that this is far from the case. I had good luck with GF's before marriage so Im not sure why I got so obsessed with this issue...but for many of you guys...Im sure you understand. Many women have a very difficult time getting to orgasm...and many simply dont care about getting there that much anyway. Most of them just dont have our sexual needs.

That has nothing to do with my own feelings though...as you all know. I want this for ME. I'm not sure why its so important...but it is as you all know.

And YES ..if I ever have a son...my own or adopted...I will absolutely talk to him about PE at the onset of puberty. Perhaps around age 12 to 13...as all children mature at different rates.

Yes this discussion needs to be undertaken very carefully. You do not want to imply that your son is less of a man or that penis size is important to anyone but himself....and you want to give him the option of not doing anything and leave it at that....but its a perfect conversation to have with your son...and you should tell your son that masturbation is perfectly normal...and that he might even want to incorporate PE exercises into his natural activity to help the penis grow larger...if he wants to.....his choice...no pressure....maybe discuss it a couple times...make sure he gets the point...make sure he feels comfortable asking questions..and understands safety issues and that he should come to you with any concerns about injury.

I think its a wonderful thing to do for a growing boy and he will thank your for it for the rest of his life. Obviously you should set some size parameters as he will have no idea what is normal, you should be VERY VERY careful to discuss SAFETY, and much more importantly you must be supportive in all aspects of his sexuality without being judgemental in any way. I know from personal experience that this is also a period when fetishes can develop if the child is not aware that his sexuality is normal and can be discussed and questioned in the correct setting. You have to make sure he understands there is NOTHING to be ashamed about, that masturbation is done by everyone and is a 100% normal part of life, and that anyone who says that they dont do it or makes fun of him regarding this issue is ignorant and probably a liar.

HELP YOUR SONS!!!

Very good post, averageguy6! I agree that anyone who does PE should be doing it for themselves and not for anyone else.

I agree that the discussion has to be done very carefully with your son about PE. Good idea about it being his choice and no pressure and no shame.

**PlazmaGunz** · 06-06-2011

Originally Posted by higherone

Very good post, averageguy6! I agree that anyone who does PE should be doing it for themselves and not for anyone else.

I agree that the discussion has to be done very carefully with your son about PE. Good idea about it being his choice and no pressure and no shame.

I just want a bigger dick LOOOOL.

You guys should watch this video, it focuses on women and how they feel about the male penis size. It will surprise you.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O0SDzFEWliw&feature=showob&oref=http%3A%2F %2Fwww.youtube.com%2Fresults%3Fsearch_query%3Dextr eme%2Bmale%2Bbeauty%26aq%3D0%26oq%3Dextreme%2Bmale %2B&has_verified=1

If I'm not allowed to post youtube videos then I apologize I'm new to this site.

**CUSP82** · 06-06-2011

You can post youtube as long as you realize that most of it's bullshit.

**deleteduser** · 06-06-2011

Originally Posted by CUSP82

You can post youtube as long as you realize that most of it's bullshit.

That's what people say about PE Websites, too.

We know better!

**CUSP82** · 06-06-2011

And we know better about youtube as well!

**PlazmaGunz** · 06-06-2011

Originally Posted by higherone

That's what people say about PE Websites, too.

We know better!

Hahaha I was once one of those people to think PE was a load of rubbish. How wrong I was...

**not2big** · 06-06-2011

As I mentioned on posts earlier in this thread, I am embarrassed to bring up the subject of PE to my 30 something married sons. However, I was wondering if it would be inappropriate to bring the subject to the attention of my grandson when he approaches or passes puberty. He turned six last month