How to let your son in on PE

**deleteduser** · 06-15-2011

Originally Posted by CUSP82

How did any of us find this site ( and others?) We had an interest and went looking. If people have no interest why point it out? It may make them feel that they're not up to snuff. If they have an interest they will look on their own. It also reinforces the idea that the dick, not the man, makes a woman happy and that is soo wrong.

We are vanguards, CUSP82. We were all raised that you are born with what you have and you can't change it. By letting your son or dad or buddy in on PE you're dispelling the myth we all grew up with that you can't change what you've got. Under no circumstances am I saying you should make your son feel inadequate about his size in any way. Quite the contrary, I'm saying introduce PE for the health aspects of long term penis health (better stamina, stronger erections, amazing orgasms, less need for viagra in the future if you do PE, etc.). As a father you have a tremendous influence on your son- more than you may even know. By letting him know that you found this and you do PE it shows that you're willing to bond with your son by telling him a man to man secret. This can open doors for your son to be more comfortable talking you about girls, sex, etc. It's through these conversations with our sons that we can teach him that the man makes the woman happy, not PE or the dick and that if you're going to do PE it should be for YOURSELF, not to please a girl. That being said, most boys are insecure about how they measure up but don't know they can do something about it. Letting your son in on PE gives him an opportunity to do something about it if he does have any insecurities about his dick. If you didn't let him in on PE then you'd never know how he felt about any insecurities he may have about his size.

**CUSP82** · 06-15-2011

Nope Higher I couldn't disagree with more. My sons are my sons and not men ( although one is old enough to be considered a man). I am their father. They are not now nor will they ever be my equal as their sons won't be their equal. Going into ceratin topics with children break down the parent-child relationship into a more casual friend type deal. I am not their friend; I am their father. We cannot pave the road smooth for our kids. They must have potholes to fall into. That is how they learn. We have a generation of young people that are useless and don't know how to do a dam thing because mommy and daddy did everything for them. Well parents don't live forever and it's tough at age 45 to have to try to learn the things they should have learned when they were 15. In matters such as these they need to discover things on their own. In the discovery there is knowledge but the process they take to get there teaches them as well.No I will not tell my sons. If they have an interest they will find things if they want to . Let me ask you this; would you tell your daughter about pe so that they in turn can tell their husbands/boyfriends?

**B1ue** · 06-15-2011

for a non-joke comment in the thread I would say that PE is a private matter and besides a wife or gf I wouldn't try sharing it with anyone unless someone is specifically complaining about size that goes for a son too I think you're more likely to make him feel insecure about his size than be of any help

**deleteduser** · 06-16-2011

Originally Posted by CUSP82

Nope Higher I couldn't disagree with more. My sons are my sons and not men ( although one is old enough to be considered a man). I am their father. They are not now nor will they ever be my equal as their sons won't be their equal. Going into ceratin topics with children break down the parent-child relationship into a more casual friend type deal. I am not their friend; I am their father. We cannot pave the road smooth for our kids. They must have potholes to fall into. That is how they learn. We have a generation of young people that are useless and don't know how to do a dam thing because mommy and daddy did everything for them. Well parents don't live forever and it's tough at age 45 to have to try to learn the things they should have learned when they were 15. In matters such as these they need to discover things on their own. In the discovery there is knowledge but the process they take to get there teaches them as well.No I will not tell my sons. If they have an interest they will find things if they want to . Let me ask you this; would you tell your daughter about pe so that they in turn can tell their husbands/boyfriends?

I understand where you are coming from CUSP82. Letting your son in on PE isn't for everyone. I'm not suggesting be your son's buddy at all. I'm suggesting you mentor your son, and if it's in your comfort zone, include PE in that mentoring and guiding. I hardly think letting your son in on PE is paving a smooth road for your son. PE takes a ton of work and dedication.

I do like your comment "In the discovery there is knowledge but the process they take to get there teaches them as well." Wise words, indeed.

I don't think I'd tell my daughter about PE but if I had a good relationship with my son in law I might consider letting him in on it. I don't have a son in law yet so I can't say for sure. Talking about PE is a man thing like talking about "that time of the month" is a woman thing. While the opposite sex can kind of relate, it's hard to truly understand.

**deleteduser** · 06-17-2011

Originally Posted by B1ue

for a non-joke comment in the thread I would say that PE is a private matter and besides a wife or gf I wouldn't try sharing it with anyone unless someone is specifically complaining about size that goes for a son too I think you're more likely to make him feel insecure about his size than be of any help

I think if you approach it the right way you can pass it on to your son without making him feel insecure about his size.

**CUSP82** · 06-17-2011

Why? Why does he need to know? It is such a small part of our bodies so I don't get the idea that we should tell them so they have good penile health.20 years from now penile health will come in bottle next to Coke and Pepsi.

**deleteduser** · 06-17-2011

Originally Posted by CUSP82

Why? Why does he need to know? It is such a small part of our bodies so I don't get the idea that we should tell them so they have good penile health.20 years from now penile health will come in bottle next to Coke and Pepsi.

You tell your son about the birds and the bees. You tell your son about being safe and using protection. It's just along those lines in my opinion.

**CUSP82** · 06-17-2011

You ar entitled to your opinion whether I agree or not.

**not2big** · 06-17-2011

Originally Posted by CUSP82

Why? Why does he need to know? It is such a small part of our bodies so I don't get the idea that we should tell them so they have good penile health.20 years from now penile health will come in bottle next to Coke and Pepsi.

A small part of our bodies (in my case, extremely small); however, a major part of our lives. I personally would feel awkward discussing PE with my sons. However, if one of them had a small penis like mine, I would want them to know about PE in order to avoid a lifetime of embarrassment and low self esteem. I don't believe guys with average and above average penises can really relate to the stress and embarrassment we little guys have to endure in a world where 90% plus of the other guys are perceived as significantly larger.

That being said, I am still struggling to come up with a way to diplomatically bring up the subject, not to mention a way to avoid admitting I have a small one and may be responsible for their small one, if indeed they have a small one.