How to let your son in on PE

**deleteduser** · 09-20-2011

Originally Posted by MurphKitty

I personally think that PE would work wonders for a young teen to do while going through puberty, just like frequent stretching will help a person still growing to reach their full potential height if done right. I believe a teen can handle very basic and light stretches along with a low intensity jelq. I want to tell my 14 year old cousin because I feel that me telling him would be less awkward than his father telling him, even though i don't think his dad knows. I will probably tell him at age 16 and he is a very mature kid as of now so he should be able to process it just fine.

Agreed. Great post Murph.

**TINKERBELL** · 09-21-2011

i think with boys under the age of 18, the teaching and focus should be on accepting what they have, building a general self confidence and belief instead of instilling your own insecurities and fears onto your sons at such an impressionable age..Not training them to believe bigger is better, that what they naturally have isn't good enough... Regardless of how you phrase it, young minds will twist what you are expressing. Your issues are not your sons issues, you really shouldn't transfer your trauma, baggage and fears onto your children or put your dreams on to them. Puberty is awkward enough with out the added pressure of daddies issues and obsession about size being transferred.

Boys under the age of 18+ do not have control over there erections or arousal levels,or even grip,
We get many young guys here between 18-24 who run into problems because their focus and understanding of things is not developed enough.. Do you really want to be responsible for your son injuring his penis because he was too young, because you encouraged him to tinker with his perfectly good penis before it was necessary.

Teach your sons that its not about inches, that 'more' does not make you 'more' of a man. That it really doesn't matter how big a guys cock is there will always be negative feedback of some sort, at some point, by some one (and the feed back really isn't about the penis.) Teach them that when they are young..to respect how they are, don't teach them that they need to change to be good enough.

**BigO** · 09-21-2011

I think the lady makes agreat point.

**CUSP82** · 09-21-2011

Agreed!

**deleteduser** · 09-21-2011

I think there is a way to let your son in on PE without giving your son a stigma. It takes having a relationship with your son and ongoing dialogue with him. And not just about PE but about all facets of life.

**Pirate** · 09-21-2011

Shipmates, I am glad that everyone is having fun with this thread but, please, no more references to under age boys and sex, or sexual adventures including masturbation.
There is a slippery slope and a fine line around here somewhere and no one wants to get in trouble.
Thanks.

**BigO** · 09-21-2011

Well said Pirate

**deleteduser** · 09-22-2011

I understand where you're coming from pirate. For example, your son can't be on these forums until 18 for a reason. That being said, there is a taboo in society about fathers and sons talking about such matters and we have to be aware of that. Its one of the problems of being a pioneer in the development and evolution of PE. What we see as just a workout and no big deal looks sexual to others. Thanks for the reminder.

**luweesz** · 10-15-2011

Originally Posted by higherone

I understand where you're coming from pirate. For example, your son can't be on these forums until 18 for a reason. That being said, there is a taboo in society about fathers and sons talking about such matters and we have to be aware of that. Its one of the problems of being a pioneer in the development and evolution of PE. What we see as just a workout and no big deal looks sexual to others. Thanks for the reminder.

hi there... i've seen in a sauna room a father and his teen son talking bout each other's penises.. kinda weird but i think it's great

**namsokiek** · 10-16-2011

One of my fatherly goals is that my kids, primarily my son, will feel comfortable coming to me to talk about anything and everything. Although one can talk to friends for support, the idea that teenage friends can provide "guidance" or "prospective" concerning life's problems is laughable; they're just as ignorant and inexperienced as the one asking. In the case of my son, they're probably much more ignorant.

In the case of PE, I would wait until the topic of sexual performance comes up; hopefully sometime after 21.