Want to help a brother out? Please?

[wantbenign Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close wantbenign]

Alright you guys, I have a question and I hope somebody will be able to help me here. I came back to PE after a pretty long break and continued on JP's routine for about a week. I have been trying to figure out what my problem is. I don't get erections anymore unless I try really hard, and when I do get them they are really pathetic. I have taken a few days off and it hasn't gotten any better.I also come really quick, like 7 minutes when I edge. I finally found something out today and it is really confusing (also, I used the search, and couldn't find anything of use).I decided to masturbate today, since it's been a week and it is supposed to be good for you, and it feels like the inside of my penis is numb? It's really hard to explain. I have also noticed that my flaccid hang is pretty bad lately too. I got drunk for the first time in my life last night and I realized my flaccid was at least at the level it used to be, if not better. The only thing I did different was drinking over a gallon of water in like 4 hours. So I pissed a lot, not sure what that's all about. The main thing is, I just want to get my PI's back to normal so I can get back to gaining! There is also another thing complicating the matter that I should be really happy about but my current problems are making it not so great. I am a virgin...now that I got that out there, there is a girl I just started talking to and all she wants to do is have sex. This is amazing news! But...if I can't use my dick, this is terrible.

I have so many mixed emotions right now I am about to go crazy . You don't have any idea how appreciative I will be if someone helps me here! I feel like I won the lottery, but can't spend the money...damnit!

Anything you need to know for me to help you help me I can provide. Ask and comment away! She's talking to me on Facebook right now and I don't want to fuck this up, lol. Thanks you guys!

[kingpole Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close kingpole]

Im going to ask questions?
How often do you drink?
Do you smoke?
do you take any medications that may me contributing to the problem like SSRI's?
Do you smoke pot?
Do you get adequate sleep?
Are you in any pain down in the genetle region?

Numbness may take a while to heal.

[wantbenign Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close wantbenign]

Last night was the first time I ever drank.
Never smoked.
I don't take any medication.
Don't touch weed.
My sleep could be a lot better, never thought about that. I recently started working the night shift and I have been sleeping maybe 4 hours a night. That could be it. I noticed something else too, I also started to hold my piss in a lot, so I would have to go, then I would just keep holding it for an hour or so. I have no idea why but I'm stopping that. Thanks for the ideas, I am trying to eliminate whatever the problem is, I'm down to try anything. I don't have any pain down there, but it is uncomfortable sometimes because it will feel like I have a really hard erection and it is just hanging a little. Thank you, that gives me something to work with.

[kingpole Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close kingpole]

Last night was the first time I ever drank.
Never smoked.
I don't take any medication.
Don't touch weed.
My sleep could be a lot better, never thought about that. I recently started working the night shift and I have been sleeping maybe 4 hours a night. That could be it. I noticed something else too, I also started to hold my piss in a lot, so I would have to go, then I would just keep holding it for an hour or so. I have no idea why but I'm stopping that. Thanks for the ideas, I am trying to eliminate whatever the problem is, I'm down to try anything. I don't have any pain down there, but it is uncomfortable sometimes because it will feel like I have a really hard erection and it is just hanging a little. Thank you, that gives me something to work with.

holding urine is not healthy, four hours of sleep is not good either.
How many times a week do you masturbate?

[wantbenign Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close wantbenign]

When I wasn't doing PE I would go a week or two without. Do you think those two things could be the cause? If so, would you recommend no PE for a while?

[kingpole Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close kingpole]

When I wasn't doing PE I would go a week or two without. Do you think those two things could be the cause? If so, would you recommend no PE for a while?

Your not wanking to the point of ejaculation, this is the problem. You should have at least 3-5 orgasms per week. are you sexually active?

[wantbenign Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close wantbenign]

I'm still a virgin, so no. I can definitely fix the masturbation thing, I just thought it was better for PE if I held off for every 2 or 3 days, so I figured it would be better to wait longer. Ok, so I can add that to what I can change, thank you for taking your time to help me out.

[kingpole Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close kingpole]

I'm still a virgin, so no. I can definitely fix the masturbation thing, I just thought it was better for PE if I held off for every 2 or 3 days, so I figured it would be better to wait longer. Ok, so I can add that to what I can change, thank you for taking your time to help me out.

You fell into the advice of an old and dangerous wise tail. Read my thread "The health benifits of male orgasm" its in my signature.

[woodywood Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close woodywood]

Kingpole, the link in that signature (the article) is no longer valid.... FYI.

[wantbenign Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close wantbenign]

I think the link is dead, I will take your word for it though. So is there a way to maximize my recovery? Maybe make sure to ejaculate every other day or something? How about kegels?

[Going411x7 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Going411x7]

Kegel a lot, get at least eight hours of sleep a night, ejaculate often and drink at least four to eight glasses of water a day, and you'll be fine.

[wantbenign Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close wantbenign]

Kegel a lot, get at least eight hours of sleep a night, ejaculate often and drink at least four to eight glasses of water a day, and you'll be fine.

Got it, I got about 7 hours last night and I'm off to get some water right now. For best results, should I ejaculate everyday for now or should I just go for every other day? Thanks guys, I can't wait to get back to PE. I realized last night that when I tried kegeling, I only felt it through maybe half of my penis, and it was cold too. I think this will help me out though.

[wantbenign Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close wantbenign]

I'm not sure if this changes anything, but I also realized that when I start to get aroused, the half of my penis near my body is regular but the half furthest away is still kind of shriveled like it is turtling or is just flaccid. I figured I would add this just in case it changes anything. Thank you guys for the quick responses, I can't wait to get rid of this problem.

[wantbenign Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close wantbenign]

I just figured I would update this, I pissed a whole lot yesterday and it seemed to never stop, could be because my system is used to me holding it all in. I also decided to masturbate yesterday. When I did, I finally got as hard as I used to be a little bit before I was about to ejaculate. After I got to that point, I could keep it there as long as I wanted with minimal numbness it felt like. It of course went away a while after I ejaculated. This could be a good thing, I really hope it is. Also, this morning I keep getting the feeling that I am getting erections, but I'm not actually getting them. I think I am getting aroused easier now but my penis is not caught up yet. This stuff is really starting to scare me so I'll give it a few more days before I man up and go get it checked out.

[hunglet Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close hunglet]

wantbenign edging(ejaculating every session), kegels and garlic(sounds strange but it thins blood and that helps it to get into penis) have skyrocketed my EQ i've used to wake up with erection 3-4 times a month, now i wake up with a raging hard on almost every day(wake up flaccid after drinking nights). As a side bonus my stamina have increased, I lasted 1 h 40 min on a non stop masturbation session, then i ran out of porn and decided to ejaculate