How much Is too much??

[RONINVU Member Find all posts View Profile Close RONINVU]

Well I know everyone says, 1-it depends on the girl or 2- never too much. Personally I had the experience of the girl feeling discomfort until I work into it but Im only 7" L 6" G.

I would like to hear from your experiences to see If shooting for 9" L 7" G is Practical.



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[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Issues start becoming common over 8 by 6. Of course you may get lucky with a partner who can handle more than this but if you want general useability it is a good guide. this would allow vaginal and oral with most women with some care, of course anal is another matter.

[RedForever Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close RedForever]

7.5 NBPEL x 5.5 Girth is the ideal.

[ExS Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ExS]

Just my 2 cents...

I've never thought of myself as large, probably because my length (6") is pretty much average. But most women I've been with (my wife of sixteen years and those before her) always commented on my girth (5.75").

I can't speak for length because I'm not where I want to be yet, but regarding girth, I think that 6" is close to the upper bound of where I'd ever want to be. Even at 5.75, I've had a few girls experience discomfort and even tearing if things get aggressive enough, even when well lubricated. And with my wife, if we don't have sex often enough to keep her accommodated to it, she suffers the same. The trouble is, if we don't have sex frequently enough for some reason and some vaginal damage does occur, then we typically won't have it again very soon and we get into a vicious cycle. The only way out is to take it very easy for a few times after any damage.

This may not be the case for all women but my wife is very nicely tight even after two vaginal births. The girls before her who had issues were also pretty tight.

Maybe if I had more length to feel "big", I would be happy staying with where I am on girth. But, I do want to feel big in at least one dimension and girth is all I've got to give me that at the moment. If I had the 7.5 inch length that RedForever mentions, I would be happy with a touch less girth. So maybe 7.5x5.5 would be ideal.

[redbear52 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close redbear52]

My experience is just about the same as ExS's as far as girth is concerned. I was right around 5.75" before marriage, had a number of partners comment that I was considerably thicker than what they were used to, and had some issues with a couple of partners at that size. The issues weren't that serious as far as vaginal sex was concerned, but I did create some soreness and occasional superficial skin tears for them. A number of women complained of jaw fatigue when giving me head. Successful anal intercourse has not happened for me but there was only one attempt.

As for length, before marriage I was perhaps a fraction less than 7" in functional length. I was never with a women that I could not fully penetrate at least in some positions, but a few had discomfort with me going "too deep" in some and I would at least occasionally accidentally box the cervix of around half of my partners.

Based on that experience I would think that the 8" length by 6" girth that seems to be embraced by so many guys as the ideal would be pushing it for a significant percentage of women and anything bigger would be likely to create some issues for many, if not most women. Not to say that some women are not able to accommodate and even appreciate huge sizes, but in my opinion, they are a minority.

[ExS Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ExS]

Ditto on most everything, even the single anal try... I had one girlfriend give it a good try but it just wasn't going to happen. On the few occasions (one just recently) when I've mentioned the idea to my wife, she said that with my size there was no chance of going there. I suspect that she'd be open to it if I wasn't as thick because she recently bought a butt-plug at a sex toy party.

[amc Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close amc]

I'm only 5.35 in girth, but I believe you're right about 5.75 is very big for most women. 6 would be very
much, and requires a lot of foreplay. I will be glad when I reach 5.5(.75) while not clamping, but I will still
aim for 6, why because you will loose some gains after stopping PE, I wont be doing this for the
rest of my life, perhaps once a week to the max. So I really need to cement the 6 inches. Haha, what
if reaching 6 inches but all girls you meet wont have sex with you. And it wont go back to original state. hehe.. bad

[ExS Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ExS]

At 6" they'll still have sex with you, not a worry. I think you'd have to be pretty huge in girth or turn them away. You'll just need to warm them up a lot more before any hard banging so as not to cause any tearing.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

My current partner quite openly says she prefered me at 5,5" girth to my current 6.1" girth. Funny enough she has no problem with length .

[RONINVU Member Find all posts View Profile Close RONINVU]

Thanks for all the feed back. The more you guys post, the more points of views I see. Huge help thanks.

One more question though? is 7" girth too much?

[UYN Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close UYN]

Thanks for all the feed back. The more you guys post, the more points of views I see. Huge help thanks.

One more question though? is 7" girth too much?

Some say yes, some say no. I think this is very individual. For example. The big guys over at ************* say their wife's don't even flinch(though they do admit that they are size queens), I may be exaggerating on the no flinching part. Though they do say the wife's have no problems handling it vaginal wise, while other's with 7" say things from it's "OK" to "too much". All depends on the lady I guess.

The more important questions is where do you think you will stop at 6 or 7 EG? Also the difference between those two measurements is huge, so you will have more than enough time to figure out what you want and see how ladies responds. No worries.

-UYN-

[darinsixpack Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close darinsixpack]

I am 6" in length by 5.5" mid shaft and 5.75-6" base. I've had the same experience. Girls tell me I'm thick, but never long. I've had several tell me to go easy even at my size. Some can swallow me up, others I have to go slow. Same thing with getting head. Some larger mounthed girls with bigger hands make me feel puny, while the smaller petite girls, when looking down, I feel like a porn star. haha. But I always get the same feedback...."You're perfect size for me, or....you have the perfect sized cock, or, you fit me just right"...a few have said I'm average...a few, "I wouldn't want anything bigger then you" I think some are just being nice, however, I always get the job done. What do you guys think? I think having a 6" dick with nice girth is adequate for MOST women, not all though.

[GTO Retired ModeratorPEGym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close GTO]

Thanks for all the feed back. The more you guys post, the more points of views I see. Huge help thanks.

One more question though? is 7" girth too much?

Personally, I don't think so. In my experience, women tend to dig girth moreso than length (although I still want 9" )

[Livin Life Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Livin Life]

I agree with 7"-8" length and 5.75-6" girth.
My wife loves the girth at just under the 6" I would like another 1/2" length

[ExS Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ExS]

I definitely wouldn't want 7" girth. It would be fun to hold and look at but more trouble that it would be worth for actual sex.