- 04-17-2011 #21
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- Dec 2009
Lord, don't overthink this, Radio. Just enjoy each other and learn each other's bodies over time. You'll learn what she likes best, she'll learn what you like, and you'll both get better at making pleasure together. If you go into sex with goals in mind, you'll just screw it up. Have fun and explore each other -- don't try to make her do anything! My god, judging her and yourself based on one time in bed together -- what are you thinking??????
- 04-17-2011 #22
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- Mar 2011
While most men would love to satisfy their ladies with intercourse, it's not always the best idea. This is because it depends on factors like the position, her level of arousal, and penis and vaginal shape and size. To cut the long story short using fingers is the easiest way to reach orgasm with the most chance of success.
What you must do before stimulating the G-Spot
In every case women clitoris should be stimulated first before stimulating the g-spot. When it is wholly stimulated, it will be too sensitive for direct contact. When the clitoris is uncomfortable and dry, you can then move into the g-spot.
The best positions to stimulate the G-Spot
To thoroughly stimulate the g-spot, you are supposed to be in a way that will give you easy access to enjoy your sex. They are: Your partner should lie on her back while you lie next to her using your stronger arm, she should sit in a dogie-style position while you sit and pleasure her from behind. Meanwhile if you need more excitement and pleasure, shift from one position to another while you are stimulating. How to stimulate the G-spot with techniques
The motion you should use is "come over here" gesture with your fingers. Always bear in mind that the g-spot and clitoris are different, which implies that sometimes you will hit it harder than the clitoris. Begin by massaging it smoothly and work your way to a point she finds exciting.
How to tell if she's enjoying it
Bear in mind that the best feeling is not the same with all women, it varies from women to women. Alternate between two slight movements to see which way she likes it the best, you will be able to discover what she truly loves by the way she breathes or when she holds you tight, with all this I have said there is a method to make this experience more pleasurable, exciting and enjoyable.
The missing guide to powerful orgasms
Did you know that extended foreplay is said to intensify orgasms? That's true, men mostly focus on acting but they forget about spicing up their lovemaking with exciting and new styles. When you take your clothes off, away you go and in a few second or minutes the show is over. As the bedroom magic fades, it gets harder and harder to make women achieve orgasms. The reason is because women hunger for variety in their sexual intercourse, the best and easiest way to please women long term is to have a whole lot of ideas ready to come out whenever you are in the mode for lovemaking. I must stress on the need to keep your lovemaking fresh and exciting in every way, it's the secret to a fulfilled lovemaking !
- 04-17-2011 #23
- 04-17-2011 #24
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- Apr 2011
I agree with the people who have suggested trying to get her to masturbate for you. I also agree that you should give yourself a break, and also, not put too much pressure on her about climaxing.
I wouldn't give up on her clit. I had a girlfriend, years ago, who had a much less sensitive clit than I was used to. I was pretty sure she couldn't cum from stimulating her clit, but then I asked her to masturbate for me. I never would have tried applying the amount of pressure that she did, if I hadn't seen her do it to herself.
I also couldn't make her cum by going down on her, but once I realized how much pressure she needed, I knew why. I was applying even less pressure with my tongue. Even after I knew how much pressure she needed, I couldn't make her cum with my tongue alone, because I just couldn't generate enough pressure with it. I had serious tongue aches from trying :-)
Good luck, and please keep us posted. I'm sure things will get better.
- 04-17-2011 #25
Holy smokes, I wasnt expecting so many good quality posts in less than 24 hours. You guys are right. I need to get to know her pleasure spots better before I can make her cum. it was only the first time we had sex!
I agree, fingers are the best way to stimulate the G spot PHYSICALLY, but mentally it`s not as much of a turn on (imo). In a few more weeks, we'll be able to discuss these things together. Im rather optimistic about her not being one of those women who cant cum. That definitely sucks for both of us, but judging by how it wentt, I think she can in fact cum.
..oh but i still want my size back! lolStarting stats: October 15th, 2008 - NBPEL: 6.25' EG: 5.00'
Current stats October 15th, 2009 - (100% erection) NBPEL: 7.20' EG: 5.375'
Goal: NBPEL: 8' EG: 6' (objective: girth)
A man should not strive to eliminate his complexes but to get into accord with them: they are legitimately what directs his conduct in the world. -Sigmund Freud
- 04-17-2011 #26
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- 04-18-2011 #27
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Radiohead welcome back to the gym, we are here with you bro, and we are going to go through this together, don't forget that.Starting: 7.75 BPEL * 4.9 EG
Goal: 8.5 BPEL * 6
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