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    Edge
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    Last edited by Edge; 06-29-2018, 10:49 AM.

  • #2
    yeah i sort of agree. i can't count the number of times i've seen insecurities over 7" NBPEL etc. Gimme a break. Perhaps they are being generous with the ruler however and its less than that. But still.

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    • #3
      Originally posted by Edge View Post
      Ok, this rather large number of guys coming on here and giving us their measurements which are almost always above average then complaining about being small and insecure... I think most of these guys are just looking for brownie points, a slew of people to compliment them and tell them how big they are. They know they are big, they just have a big dick ego that needs a little feeding time to time. I am having trouble feeling convinced by these posts, seriously. I just wanted to bring this up in case it hasn’t been. Don’t tell me I am the only one who feels this way.
      I responded to another one of your posts touching on the same thing. Yes, I do agree with you. However, there is also something called "Body Dysmorphic Disorder" or something like that and I would believe these guys suffer from this in combination with other serious internal insecurities that lead to this notion that even if they are 9" long, they're not big enough. JMO.
      It's a tough job being good looking and hung :-)

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      • #4
        While I don't doubt that there are some who do that, but I also feel that there are a large portion of them who get tricked into believing 8"x6" is average based on the world of porn and large number of guys who brag about them being ____ big when they're really only ___ big. A lot of them are also just not in the know of how to even properly measure their penises or understand that excess fat can make it appear smaller than it really is. I've seen some users come here thinking that they're small, but after presented with evidence realize they're not; so it's not just guys insisting that they're small no matter what. Those guys are just trolling for attention.

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        • #5
          I think everyone feels like this if no one did they wouldn't do PE . No matter if big or small or inbetween. I think they call it body dysmorphic correct me if I'm wrong. That is my 2 cents !!

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          • #6
            I have to say I felt the same, I used to feel really bad about the number of 7" BPEL starters I used to see. However, now I'm there myself, I can MAYBE understand, but I would say that's mainly because I have 1"+ fat pad.

            But yeah, 7 NBP and I can't imagine having found myself here... I mean 6.25-6.5 looks big to me rolled out on a tape!

            As for your comments about trolls, we tend to be very wary of the 'braggish' types, but we (mods) have recently been criticised for mistaking arrogance with confidence. I would disagree with that, I mean one of our biggest member here is a well-loved mod who has never come across in such a way.
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            • #7
              Insecurity/confidence is a mind thing ..its not a physical thing.
              i do agree some fall into the category you are describing i do believe some fall into a category where they really do believe their penis isn't big enough justs as MBD was saying BDD..many also have porn perspective no different to the guys with smaller penises...
              The key is trying to figure out who is here to brag or reap an ego stroke and or troll and who genuinely has insecurity about their penis.

              There is also nothing wrong with Men who have cocks that they are proud of, to talk with confidence about their penis(regardless of size) but if they are arrogant about it then its going to smack the members here who are struggling with their own penis..so its a situation where men have to be aware of other men ..practice a little empathy .. from both sides.

              The way i see it is Penis size does not dictate confidence level ..mind set does.
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              • #8
                Hey Edge, try not to stress over it. Just let them troll along - everybody knows who they are.

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                • #9
                  Lol, somewhat similar posts again TTBB? Slightly beat you this time though!
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                  • #10
                    Hehe.. I had to chuckle when i saw ..one minute grrr.. i need to type faster.
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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by TittyTittyBangBang View Post
                      Hehe.. I had to chuckle when i saw ..one minute grrr.. i need to type faster.
                      Does that mean I shouldn't brag about the fact I'm on a phone?

                      But yeah, this forum helps a lot of people gauge what is actually average. I would be one to agree that in this respect porn is a VERY bad thing.
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                      • #12
                        I don't have an average sized penis nor do I find myself feeling small, but who's to tell me that I cannot PE for my own satisfaction, benefit or personal reasons? Just because someone doesn't come in here with an average or below average measurement, doesn't mean they cannot partake in the forum or PE because someone believes they're too big or big enough.

                        I find it odd to complain about the size of another member's starting stats when all that matters is that of your own. Don't worry about others goals, etc. They do not affect your gains and shouldn't cause headache.

                        If someone is complaining about the size of their cock and it is actually quite large, I guess it's up to them to decide how far they can go with their efforts. If they're here to satisfy their ego amongst other males, I'm sure it will be quite obvious to the rest.

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                        • #13
                          I actually doubted the legitimacy of the site because of it, when I first got here a few weeks ago, but I think in most cases, it's legit. I just couldn't believe that guys with big dicks would ever even find a site like this. I didn't find it until recently, and my cock could use some serious improvement.

                          People already pointed out the Body Dysmorphic Disorder, but I also think average and smaller guys forget that even guys with big cocks see or hear about guys with even bigger cocks. They have the same fears that more modest sized guys have - that some guy with a bigger cock has fucked or will fuck their girlfriend, wife, or whoever.

                          I think it's horrifying to all of us until we deal with it, and I think some of the bigger guys have never dealt with it, because they've always been the biggest their girlfriends have ever had. Then one day some girl they're having sex with tells them that she had sex with some guy with a cock much bigger than theirs, and suddenly, Big Boy feels like Peewee.

                          I know it's hard to feel bad for guys with huge cocks, who are complaining that they feel insecure, but I really think most of these guys on here are legit. If you haven't already, read some of the threads about size in the Women's Perspective section.

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                          • #14
                            Straw man argument - nobody is telling you that you cannot PE. But ok.

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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by aidan784 View Post
                              Does that mean I shouldn't brag about the fact I'm on a phone?

                              But yeah, this forum helps a lot of people gauge what is actually average. I would be one to agree that in this respect porn is a VERY bad thing.
                              LOL .. if i was on a phone you wouldn't understand nyaythign i yoot .. i am phone illiterate..so brag away.
                              i wasn't sure if i should post that is why it took me so long this time.. other wise i would have beaten you by a mile :P
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