Thread: It's ok to be average
- 04-19-2011 #1
Sometimes I don't understand why people started to believe that being average is not enough anymore in this day and age. I need to remind myself all the time that it's ok to be average. An average job, average pay check, average intellect, average looks, average penis, average looking partner,... I understand that's it's nice to be above average or really good in something, but it cannot take control of ones life. Look at many bodybuilders, they will only be truely happy when they are the biggest one in the gym, but what happens when they see someone bigger? Becoming better at something should never be an obsession if you're not happy with what you have already, or you will never be happy. When you are average and happy with what you have, you will find more meaning in life.
For those with below average penis size here, especially the starters, it's totally ok to be unhappy with your current size. But you should be happy with every single gain you make, even if it's just 1/8". Don't pay attention to the people who are on a quest for having the biggest. I'm not saying they are shallow, but there is really no need to become much bigger than average. Average is ok. The truth is, once you are average or a little above, you'll be able to satisfy most of the women out there. At that point, technique will become far more important than size anyway.
Think about this: if your girlfriend or wife is talking about you against her female friends, what's the thing that you would rather have her tell? "He's got a huge dick", or "He's a fantastic lover". Having a big dick is not really a skill is it? It's like giving the pusher (heavier) guy in the bobsleigh a compliment for having amazing weight, while the pilot really needs skill to get through the corners without crashing.
Anyway, something to think about, being average is ok.
- 04-19-2011 #2
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Great post!! Very true. But being who I am and true to myself, NOTHING I've ever done or been has been average. I have a need to surprass and compete. Every aspect of my life has always exceeded "average" expect one thing....and you guessed it, my PECKER! Now I'm here to fix that. Yeah, it's good enough to make me a happy man, but I always want more! That's just who I am, right wrong or indifferent........3/3/11: 6" BPEL
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- 04-19-2011 #3
The ultimate goal for me with this type of training is to realize in potentials- to get to the point where PE, sexual stamina, etc. become arbitrary because you've mastered it physically, and because you realize on a mental level that the "need" for larger size, etc. is really an illusion created by your own mind.
Once you reach that level it all becomes much more fun instead of something that you have to do in order to fulfill some self-perceived inadequacies. The confidence issue becomes almost nonexistent as well, and with time you may fully conquer them.
The challenge is really against yourself
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- 04-19-2011 #4
Well Darin you were above average to start with, you seem to ignore that girth
But yeah, great post Johnny. I think everybody should strive to be great at at least one thing in life, however that should be their passion, job etc. And that certainly shouldn't be cock size, priorities guys.
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- 04-19-2011 #5
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I like this Johnny... nice post.
I agree. Everybody has something they're good at... Average isn't bad. Some people thrive in the middle. that's where everyone is... everyone is a mixture of everything. You have to focus on what makes you, YOU... You're unique in your averageness (mediocrity is the wrong word here.)
Like Big Al just said... The challenge is against yourself. We all have much to offer. You're good at a few things. Focus on those things and everything else is a non-sequitur. Penis size isn't your only "asset" Hell its one of your least important!
- 04-19-2011 #6
I think I'm pretty average at the moment, 1.84 tall, 79 KG well ripped, I only need to define my bottom 2 pack abs and to reach my 8x6 goal and I'm happy afterStart(Feb/19)
- 04-19-2011 #7
Great post and I and both agree and bring up some other points. First, I agree that being average in dick-size is fine and men take it for granted way way too much. Perhaps I don't have a great right to say that firsthand, but I believe it 100%. More men are refused sex because of being too large compared to too small. You always have to be careful in terms of how important it is to stroke your ego compared to actually remembering the important factors of sex and being a size that can accommodate all forms. PE is excellent, but those are all fair points.
In terms of being average, it is hard to say. Many people are fine with it although you do only have 1 life to live and as long as you are content and at peace with your decisions and where you are at, then all is fine and well.
I think it helps the state of mind if you are actually above average in certain things though, penis size being one of the last on the list, lol. Little things from cross-word puzzles, building things, a trade, hobby, sports, being book smart, being street smart, etc. And a lot of people can say that they do something well, as minor as that may be. So how average are we? I am sure most of us can find one aspect or one area where we are above average. And I think that helps create our happiness and inner-peace.
- 04-19-2011 #8
Awesome post! I should staple what you said to my forehead. Funny, I was insecure about being average until I met my current partner who not only is average too, but is obsessed with my girth. I honestly feel proud of what I have simply because it drives my partner crazy. Gains would be great, but if he's happy with it, why shouldn't I be too?STATS:
Start (Aug '10) -- BPEL 6" x 6" -- BPFSL 5.75" x 3.5"
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