So I was checking my old school goals, really early into my PE career, and I saw I wanted something within the realm of a 9.5 inch penis. And something ridiculous like 7.5 girth.
After doing some research, and reading a couple women's forums on the subject of an ideal size, I realized my goals were the goals of someone's ego needing to be stroked, coupled with the messed up perceptions that porn brings to the average male life.
I've now dialed back my ideal to 8inches by 6inch girth, I plan to go a little over 8, just to get a consistent 8 regardless of less than stellar EQ and to, god forbid, add a buffer to any loss of size after reaching my goals and switching to a maintenance routine.
What's interesting I found with reading some of the women's forums, is firstly and this has been discussed many times before; the strange ability of a woman to quote a size as her ideal... without any idea on how to properly measure penis size.
What I also found interesting and frustrating in equal measure is nearly every one of these women have had an ex, or a lover with a "King Kong Dong" or "monster cock" of over 10 inches, which again reinforces my feeling that most girls have no idea the size of their partner:- seems that if the guy is big, he's in excess of 10 inches, if he's average, he's 8, and if he's small, he's 6 and below.
Absolute rubbish.
Upon last measurement in 2010, I was 6.7 BPEL, and I've bottomed out in girls; some being the petite skinny and short types, others being curvy and taller; the gasps that I thought meant I was doing well actually were gasps of pain (urgh, I suck...) from banging myself against their cervix, so the idea that I'm almost within the "small range" according to the uneducated masses of girls not versed in the proper measurement of a penis just screams that some quotes of size are complete crap.
The last point my investigation revealed, which is what led me down this course of reevaluating goals is that when some of the girls said they've been with a large guy... 1: In some cases it was uncomfortable and some positions were out of the question due to sheer inability to fit comfortably thus rendering love making unpleasant, and 2: a larger penis simply means potential to be a good lover, it is not the defining trait, oft quoted "The guy with the big dick who couldn't use it properly" scenario seems to pop up quite alot and I realised, to the girls I have bottomed out in, I may actually be the afformentioned case study...
Which leads me to where I am now; I want the 8inches to gain that "WOW" factor as well as the confidence boost that such holstered firepower brings, which I think is what the majority of guys here are after when they start PE... but I don't want size to preclude any sensual, or down-right-dirty-and-perverted activity, and thus my reestablished "Realistic" goals.
Anyone else experienced this? The realisation that your goals are much closer and more attainable because you DON'T NEED porn star equipment to get the job done?
A quote from Futurama you may enjoy...
[Cut to Doctor's office. A doctorbot is doing something with a wrench]
Doctorbot: There, that's a big as I can make it. But I caution you, it looks completely unrealistic.
Calculon: You let me worry about that. Just do your job.
After doing some research, and reading a couple women's forums on the subject of an ideal size, I realized my goals were the goals of someone's ego needing to be stroked, coupled with the messed up perceptions that porn brings to the average male life.
I've now dialed back my ideal to 8inches by 6inch girth, I plan to go a little over 8, just to get a consistent 8 regardless of less than stellar EQ and to, god forbid, add a buffer to any loss of size after reaching my goals and switching to a maintenance routine.
What's interesting I found with reading some of the women's forums, is firstly and this has been discussed many times before; the strange ability of a woman to quote a size as her ideal... without any idea on how to properly measure penis size.
What I also found interesting and frustrating in equal measure is nearly every one of these women have had an ex, or a lover with a "King Kong Dong" or "monster cock" of over 10 inches, which again reinforces my feeling that most girls have no idea the size of their partner:- seems that if the guy is big, he's in excess of 10 inches, if he's average, he's 8, and if he's small, he's 6 and below.
Absolute rubbish.
Upon last measurement in 2010, I was 6.7 BPEL, and I've bottomed out in girls; some being the petite skinny and short types, others being curvy and taller; the gasps that I thought meant I was doing well actually were gasps of pain (urgh, I suck...) from banging myself against their cervix, so the idea that I'm almost within the "small range" according to the uneducated masses of girls not versed in the proper measurement of a penis just screams that some quotes of size are complete crap.
The last point my investigation revealed, which is what led me down this course of reevaluating goals is that when some of the girls said they've been with a large guy... 1: In some cases it was uncomfortable and some positions were out of the question due to sheer inability to fit comfortably thus rendering love making unpleasant, and 2: a larger penis simply means potential to be a good lover, it is not the defining trait, oft quoted "The guy with the big dick who couldn't use it properly" scenario seems to pop up quite alot and I realised, to the girls I have bottomed out in, I may actually be the afformentioned case study...
Which leads me to where I am now; I want the 8inches to gain that "WOW" factor as well as the confidence boost that such holstered firepower brings, which I think is what the majority of guys here are after when they start PE... but I don't want size to preclude any sensual, or down-right-dirty-and-perverted activity, and thus my reestablished "Realistic" goals.
Anyone else experienced this? The realisation that your goals are much closer and more attainable because you DON'T NEED porn star equipment to get the job done?
A quote from Futurama you may enjoy...
[Cut to Doctor's office. A doctorbot is doing something with a wrench]
Doctorbot: There, that's a big as I can make it. But I caution you, it looks completely unrealistic.
Calculon: You let me worry about that. Just do your job.
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