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    Hey guys... I wasn't going to post this because everything in my life I'd had to do on my own and I'm the kind of person that doesn't want to "bother" other people with my problems.

    But, I really need some help with this PE stuff because I'm starting lose hope with this whole thing and the idea of making my penis bigger. =(

    BACKGROUND:
    It seems like every long-term girl I date, the guy before was "huge" ... 7 inches has been the smallest and the last one she said "my ex was 9 1/2 inches". I said that's just silly and if she was "eye balling" it and she quickly said "no, I measured it because he was a little bit bigger than my last boyfriend who was 9 inches"

    I mean... ugg... I really felt like crap after hearing that and it made it really difficult to "perform" when the guys before me have been so much bigger =(

    Anyway... I'm not hear to sing a sad song.... I just really need your help.

    MY ROUTINE
    I tried PE about 4 years ago for 2-3 months. I did hanging back then almost every day. I saw no results and after a while, it just became a chore. Probably with my LOT 7, I shouldn't of ever hanged to begin with, but I still Jelqed all the time.

    I gave up on it, but started again 4+ months ago. I've read a lot at this site (very helpful, thank you!), bought the book "Exercising the Penis" by Kemmer... have followed various routines and still ... zero results. =(

    True, I haven't been "obsessive" about this every single day of my life - I'm busy running a corporation and stuff. But I've been persistent... I do a routine minimum 2-3x a week and sometimes 5x a week.

    The usual warm up, stretch, jelq and cool down. I also prefer the reverse of jelqing and then stretching. Sometimes I also "double split" my sessions and do 2 shorter sessions daily.

    Still .... NO RESULTS =(


    Is this normal? Am I being impatient?

    Some say "less is more" and then others are doing this every day, 30-40+ minutes daily. I'm just really confused....


    I'm a very dedicated person and will not give up... but, I really need to hear some feedback and advice from you guys to give me hope again, so I can keep pushing forward or change something to get SOME kind of results to motivate me.

    Thank you in advance for reading this long post (sorry about that) and for any assistance.

    PS - I'll even pay someone as a "coach" to help me with this if need be. I just don't want to be wasting my time on this, if I'm doing something wrong.

  • #2
    So you say you're dedicated? Your pe history proves otherwise. If this is what you want than you must get dedicated; give it time and consistency. Without out both you're wasting your time. Let me know if I can help.
    The world's still a toy if you just stay a boy!

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    • #3
      No, it's not normal to be as dedicated as you indicate and not gain anything. But not to be an ass and shot straight, did you really truly look at your routine and be brutally honest with yourself? Are you really doing your routine right, do you feel it in your heart, are you passionate about it, do you feel the need to know your penis and really listen to it? Or did you just rush through the routine so you could check it off your daily tasks? I know cause I gained .35" in the first 45 days or so and then it stopped. I evaluated my routine and realized I was being sloppy and not really putting my heart into it. I was just doing the exercises so I could say I did them. Anyhow, I started really focusing again and putting myself into it and I'm up another .25" ove the last 45 days or so. I'm gaining again.

      Really be honest with yourself. Are you really putting a true effort into it? Learning your dick? Really following the routines? Ask yourself and start over.......
      3/3/11: 6" BPEL
      3/3/11 5.5" MEG
      3/3/11 6.25" BEG
      4/12/11 6.35" BPEL
      4/12/11 5.6" MEG
      4/12/11 6.35" BEG
      5/18/11 6.45" BPEL
      5/18/11 5.6" MEG
      5/18/11 6.5" BEG
      8/26/11 6.7" Bpel
      8/26/11 5.35 Meg
      8/26/11 6.25 beg
      11/17/11 6.75 BPEL
      02/25/12 6.95 BPEL BPFSL 7.15
      05/01/2012 7.05 BPEL BPFSL 7.25

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      • #4
        Get over the Jp 90 days and reasearchg other routines and try diffrent ones out on your penis and see what works for you, whining and bitching wont make your penis grow

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        • #5
          Another point I see is that you said you were back at it for a few months trying various routines. Drop the S and make the word routine! You do need to be dedicate and focused. The common denominator I see beteween the people who gain and those who do not is usually the phrase I have tried everying or I have tried several things. Take a look at the JP90 day routine and then give it 90 days, you need to make the time and then do the work. Good luck
          Last edited by BigO; 07-24-2011, 11:07 AM.
          Going an inch and 1/2 deeper than before

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          • #6
            Originally posted by samsi4life View Post
            Get over the Jp 90 days and reasearchg other routines and try diffrent ones out on your penis and see what works for you, whining and bitching wont make your penis grow
            Come on Samsi, youve been doing good!
            Going an inch and 1/2 deeper than before

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            • #7
              Hi mate. Well, I've been at it for about 3-4 months now too, and I've seen no gains!! - But: I found out that my routine was waaaaaay too light, so I advanced, and I somehow believe I'll see results soon. My point is, don't give up. Why? Because if you do, you will always feel that way when a girl(friend) talks about her ex with a huge monster between his legs. That feeling will probably stay with you, UNLESS you gain some inches under your belt yourself! It seems harsh but it's actually beautiful: You are doing something most people in the world consider clinically impossible!

              Here's my idea: If I do not gain a bit in the next few months, I might contact big al. I've heard many many good things about his MeCoach and it sounds as a good thing..so that's what I'll do. You could do the same if you like, or do it on your own, either way just stick to it and believe in yourself and PE... How are the other guys on the forum different from you? They are probably not! If they can, you most likely can too!

              - Ill
              I'm not heavy-gifted. I'm heavy-achieved.
              Start: March 16= BPEL 6.1" EG 5.1"

              First Goal: BPEL 6.6" EG 5.4"
              2nd Goal: BPEL 7.0" EG 5.8"
              3rd Goal: BPEL 7.5" EG 6.0"
              Final Goal: BPEL 8.3" EG 6.2"

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              • #8
                Originally posted by CUSP82 View Post
                So you say you're dedicated? Your pe history proves otherwise. If this is what you want than you must get dedicated; give it time and consistency. Without out both you're wasting your time. Let me know if I can help.
                Well, I just wanted to see if what I was doing was on the right track - that's all.

                I read how one person says "less is more" ... so, I do less and then after 60 days I don't see anything. I don't have side-effects. I'm not over training so I think - okay, I'll increase the intensity. Then another 30-45 days go by, I see no results and I get worried "maybe I AM over training"...

                So, that's all - I'm just trying to get feedback and I thank you for your time. =)

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by samsi4life View Post
                  Get over the Jp 90 days and reasearchg other routines and try diffrent ones out on your penis and see what works for you, whining and bitching wont make your penis grow
                  Awesome - glad so see people like you are here to "help" others like me - where is the "whining and bitching" in my post?...

                  I came here with a sincere goal to get help and opened myself up - not to have someone like you criticize me. As stated, I HAVE tried various routines, each for about 60 days and saw ZERO results and thought "hmm, maybe something is off".

                  If you went to the gym and tried low sets for 60 days and then high sets for 60 days and some other method and still you never saw any gains, you'd think something is wrong and you'd seek help of "experts" for guidance - right?

                  I didn't do this for a week and then expect to turn into a professional bodybuilder or a porn star - I was just hoping that after 60+ days on 2-3 different routines, SOMETHING would have happened by now...

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by Illnath View Post
                    Hi mate. Well, I've been at it for about 3-4 months now too, and I've seen no gains!! - But: I found out that my routine was waaaaaay too light, so I advanced, and I somehow believe I'll see results soon. My point is, don't give up. Why? Because if you do, you will always feel that way when a girl(friend) talks about her ex with a huge monster between his legs. That feeling will probably stay with you, UNLESS you gain some inches under your belt yourself! It seems harsh but it's actually beautiful: You are doing something most people in the world consider clinically impossible!

                    Here's my idea: If I do not gain a bit in the next few months, I might contact big al. I've heard many many good things about his MeCoach and it sounds as a good thing..so that's what I'll do. You could do the same if you like, or do it on your own, either way just stick to it and believe in yourself and PE... How are the other guys on the forum different from you? They are probably not! If they can, you most likely can too!

                    - Ill
                    Thank you... I may just ask Big Al if nothing else happens. I appreciate your reply =)

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by mrsamiam View Post
                      Hey guys... I wasn't going to post this because everything in my life I'd had to do on my own and I'm the kind of person that doesn't want to "bother" other people with my problems.

                      But, I really need some help with this PE stuff because I'm starting lose hope with this whole thing and the idea of making my penis bigger. =(

                      BACKGROUND:
                      It seems like every long-term girl I date, the guy before was "huge" ... 7 inches has been the smallest and the last one she said "my ex was 9 1/2 inches". I said that's just silly and if she was "eye balling" it and she quickly said "no, I measured it because he was a little bit bigger than my last boyfriend who was 9 inches"

                      I mean... ugg... I really felt like crap after hearing that and it made it really difficult to "perform" when the guys before me have been so much bigger =(...
                      I'm sure others will be able to help you with practical issues much better than I can, however I'd just like to address the above.

                      Unfortunately a lot of women lie in relationships as a means of control over their partner. Apologies to any women reading who might be offended by this suggestion, but I'm convinced it's true. Maybe it doesn't apply to all women, but it does apply to a great many - perhaps even the majority (in other words something more than 50%).

                      Of course men do it too; they just lie about a different things. I'm not being cynical about relationships when I say that most of them have some sort of power game at their core - it might be subtle, or more overt, but it's usually there. Sadly, it often manifests itself in a dysfunctional way, as a lot of human beings can be douchebags.

                      One way of scoring an open goal (sorry about the football analogy Americans) is to target someone's insecurities. What more fundamental insecurity is there for a man than penis size? If you then open the goal still wider by actually asking a girl about your size, thus signifying to her that you are particularly worried about the subject, don't be surprised if you receive a Machiavellian response.

                      The idea that your ex-had a 9 1/2" penis correctly measured is unlikely in the extreme. I'd have to look it up for the exact figure, but the preponderance of reputable surveys would suggest that the odds of encountering a penis of this size are in the thousands if not millions to one against.

                      By way of illustration, a few months back, a thread was posted on LPSG asking for believable photos of a properly measured 8" to be posted. The thread ran to over 40 pages last time I looked, with many photographs - yet all bar one resorted to a completely bogus BS measurement technique or a photoshop job. Even in that one photo, you couldn't completely see the end of the ruler IIRC, but it did otherwise seem reasonably legit.

                      Remember that this is a forum supposedly intended for those with unusually large penises (and seemingly the gay afficionados thereof) yet only ONE individual could find a photo of an 8"NBP cock. Moreover if you look at the user submitted photos on there, or on the numerous "post pictures of yourself" sites and look with a critical eye, you again see precious few that appear to be as big as they're claimed to be. That in itself should tell you something.

                      Claims of multiple partners 8" in length, or a succession of women claiming to have encountered one partner with that length, are so preposterous as to be utterly laughable. In fact that's what I'd do if a woman tried to tell me that she'd had multiple partners much bigger than me - i.e. laugh. I sometimes think a warning about women making ridiculous claims about previous partners to keep their men down, should be a sticky on here.

                      Anyway, to cut a long story short, I'd be amazed if you have any genuine reason to feel as bad as you do. Don't believe the hype
                      Last edited by drabman; 07-20-2011, 08:36 AM.

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                      • #12
                        I agree for the most part with Drabman, but the fact remains ....there are men out there with huge penises
                        . Before we got married my wife dated a man with a 9in and one with a 10in dick! Yes measured. In her words "it was too fucking huge!"
                        I know, I know. What are the odds? But I believe her.

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                        • #13
                          hey dude i know how you feel ive probably encountered this with all my girls, it wasnt that there ex was huge, just the opposite, i wasnt close to being huge, its a hard thing to ignore but like the other guy said, its hard to know if there telling the truth so, i just say dont care, because, theres nothing you can do to magically make your penis grow............. o wait there is :P basically i just think you shouldnt let it get to you, not alot of people have huge dicks so your girlfriend should be expecting everyone to have them anyways


                          but in regards to pe, i have been doing is for 5 months and i have had no results except my intial .25 girth gain in the beggining, i was doing the less is more thing, doing it for about 10-20 mins, but not i switched it up this week, i have tripled my routine from 100 jelqs to 300 and 50 v jelqs to 150 taking about 40-50 minutes on a 2 days on 1dats off. and according to my penis is feels like its working. we will have to see in a month, but all i have to say is keep trying, quitting would be one of the things u will regret. seeing as how pe is your best chance for the penis you want why quit?

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by jim4444 View Post
                            I agree for the most part with Drabman, but the fact remains ....there are men out there with huge penises
                            . Before we got married my wife dated a man with a 9in and one with a 10in dick! Yes measured. In her words "it was too fucking huge!"
                            I know, I know. What are the odds? But I believe her.
                            You admit you've never seen these penises, so you have to also admit that your evidence isn't the best.

                            I'm not suggesting your wife is lying, but it's fairly well-established that a lot of women are not good at judging - or even measuring - penis length. Im a solid 8.25 BP, some times more with a top EQ and I once became aware that a girl was telling her friends that I was 10" (and no, I didn't get approached as a result).

                            I'm sure your wife is convinced that she has encountered two penises 9" or above, so I understand why you believe her. However the statistical likelihood of such a thing is miniscule - something like many millions, if not a billion to one against if I recall correctly. That is considerably less likely than being struck by lightning two or three times in succession. In fact most reputable surveys have never encountered a 10" penis.

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                            • #15
                              Hey, dude. The woman is lying to you. She is trying to make you feel inferior. The average size is 6x5 give or take for 90% of males. She may have come across some bigger ones but that is all unless she has been out with a numerous amount of men in her lifetime (which is that case I would not even deal with her, hell you might catch a STD).
                              PE because you want your **** to be what you want.
                              Begin 7/25/2011:
                              NBPEL 7, BPEL 7.2, MEG 5.6, BEG 6

                              Current 12/05/2014:
                              FL 5.25, FG 5.2
                              NBPEL 7.8, BPEL 8.1, UEG 5.75, MEG 6.25, BEG 6.7

                              Long:
                              UEG:MEG 6.5

                              https://www.pegym.com/forums/progres...henewuser.html

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