- 07-29-2011 #1
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- Jul 2011
I am relatively new here, but not new to telling the TRUTH about my experiences with seeing different size penises on men. First of all let me set the record straight for everyone that my experiences are based on old bootcamp days from being in the U.S. Navy 26 years ago with 85 different men of all ethnic groups around the world whose ages were from 17 to 32 at the time, and my most recent experiences that I am still actively involved in today that I started in with my wife 6 yrs ago thats called SWINGING! First of all when I joined the Navy in 1986, the year after I graduated High school, I would have never imagined what my exposure to seeing other guys naked would be like until then.
At that time I was relatively about 2.5 to 3.5 hanging flaccid and about 7" errect. Obviously, I would'nt show any of my fellow bootcampers my erection, should that happen at any time during my 12 weeks of training....lol. Nevertheless, the one thing we all had in common is that when shower time came at 8 P.M. every night we all had to shit, shower, and shave together in 5 minutes flat and figure out how to share 35 shower heads, 10 toilets, 10 urinals, and 15 sinks in that short amount of time. When you are in that type of position with other naked men then it only seems to be quiet natural that you look around at how God made others just because of curiousity and no choice as well. Here is what my memory can recall at that time....... About 30 of us were White males from the U.S., about 30 were of foriegn decent (from Phillipines, Niqurague, Mexico, India, etc.), and about 25 black males mostly from the U.S. with a few from other countries. Yes, we have a very open country when it comes to U.S. citizens joining the military......lol. Of all the guys that I remember seeing naked, Only one stood out more than the rest. He was indeed a black male whose flaccid penis was about 7". I could'nt never forget it because I was always thinking then that DAMN if hes like that flaccid, then he was probably a monster around 9" to 11" erect. As far as everyone else there, it seemed that they were all within the 1.5" to 4" range hanging flaccid and I certainly remember myself thinking that well at least I fit somewhere in the middle and did'nt pay no more mind to any of it. After all it was bootcamp.
When I got out of bootcamp and was stationed in N.A.S. Cecil Field just outside Jacksonville, FL. I was attached to an F-18 Fighter Attach Squadron that was always deploying to different Aircraft Carriers. There I meet my best friend (White Male) at the time who had just completed bootcamp in Michigan and was assigned with me as well to that Squadron. We were both 19 at the time. Anyway, my best friend was about 6'1" and I was just over 5'11", both of us roughly about the same body size with 1 exception that made us different; he had a 10" penis! Not that I cared, but it always made me wonder how God made us all so different and unique. I really learned alot about him and him about me as well, Not anything sexually together of course. The following year I married my sweetheart (My current wife of 25 yrs. now) and moved her to Florida where I was a stationed. She found a job there and my best friend found himself a girlfriend where we all 4 literally became best friends without sexual benefits of course. Here is what I learned about my sexuality and my best friends; yes he did indeed have a large penis and I sometimes envied him for it until I learned that he was what I called a 15 second wonder....lol. Meaning once he inserted it into is girlfriend it was basically over in 15 seconds or less. He always had this problem and I did not. I learned how to do oral on my wife at 19 (Which I Love to Still do with her everytime before sex) and i could hold a good 15 to 30 minute stanima while having sex with her and my best friend envied me for that. He did not like to do oral on his lady and he could not hold a nut longer that 15 seconds. Nevertheless, my 7" penis was justified by its ability to satisfy -vs- my best friends 10" penis. His girlfriend would always ask my wife how I did it and even wanted me to do her just to see how it would feel longer that 15 seconds. Never did that of course and my best friend just kept his monster and his secret to himself.
Now to my current day life.......About 6 yrs. ago my wife and I decided to take the leap into trying out SWINGING, due to her sexual preference and interest in women; (Long Story, but I'll get to the point), with her being a bi-sexual we obviously just wanted to find a lady friend with benefits for her and/or us. After joining different swing sites and limiting our search just for that type encounter we found ourselves without any luck and no success in a 8 month time frame, except for large women who wanted an interest in us and us not them. My wife is a petite 5'6" 120 lb. 44 yr.old sexy blue eyed blonde with perky natual 34b tits, so Big ladies was not in our criteria. We were looking for women that were simular to her Hieght, Weight, and build. So we switched sides and decided to solicit couples with bi-sexual wives / girlfriends and give that a try because they were so much more plentiful as far as the numbers were concerned. Once we started meeting couples and finding what worked and what did'nt, we stayed in that position and are still active in it today when time & kids permit us that is. We have been to several nudist resorts and a handful of swingers resorts.
Here is where the walk of life in my journey gets more realistic; To date we have probably been out with around 30 something couples and men of different ages between early 30's to late 50's, all caucasion couples of course and the one thing that most of the men have in common is still that the average penis size that we have observed is between 6" and 7"! There was this one couple we meet from Brazil where the guy was about 9" erect, but here again it fell back to the 15 second wonder event from my best friend in the Navy, plus his penis was really thin, where mine is like about 5" E.G. I guess with all this said and with our experiences around other men that this should maybe simplify a real life scenario about the male penis differences. Now for my personal and real reason on being here and to accomplish a mission is from a recent encounter we had in April of this year. About 2 yrs ago we decidied to take our swinging experience to a different level and to start doing what is called full swap with other couples, meaning we would engage in intercourse with our swing friends if all were attracted to each other and all agreed of course; whereas before that time time we would only engage into what in the swing world is known as Soft Swap ( everything goes except intercourse with our swing couples ), and no male on male of course...lol.
Anyway, this one couple we meet in April was a good but unique experience. After the ladies were done playing with each other after a while we all decided that we were up for Full Swap. The guy of the couple was 32 yrs old and about 8.5" erect which was already about 1.5 to 2" of an advantage on me. Once we started to get underway, my wife was doing me orally while she was on her knees with me on mine in front of her and the other guy was rubbing her and getting her wet from behind so he could penatrate her from behind while his wife was rubbing all 3 of us together. When he finally started to insert it in her, I noticed he was having a hard time keeping an erection with the condom on, as with alot of men that I've seen when a condom is used...lol. Anyway his wife was helping him slowly get it back hard while my wife was still doing oral on me. Once he got it back up, he started slowly penetrating my wife until he had all 8+" inside of her. Once that happened I could see the expression on my wifes face and the moan she made was unlike any I've heard her ever have during sex. In about 10 seconds she came like hell and got so tight that he came 15 seconds later. It was so uniquely different to see her in that moment and sexually intreqing to me that I wanted to see her that way (satisfied superfast) from myself. Appearantly, theres no way I could ever reach where he was with my penis, so it gave me a new mission to search for and thats how I stunbled across this PEGym site. I want to be in that position and I want it bad. Strangly enough, Ive never let that become an issue because I can hold my own in the stanima dept. and make any lady appreciate what I have to offer, but that one moment in time changed my perception of being on a new mission. That one guy was the perfect male 8+"x5.5-6" and thats my new goal. So far I have been on the JP90 program for about a week and already my EQ is a 10 and sex is just that much better for us. Every morning is a woodmaster and my wife is like a hit of Viagra everytime I look at her now....lol. Thanks for reading my experiences and hopefully that will change the way some guys think about themselves for the better in the self image dept. Remember none of us created exactly alike and what God give us in different areas was done for a good reason.
My Current Stats:
44 yr old wht male; 5'11" 185lbs.
BPEL: 6.75 EG: 5.0
NBPSF 4.0 BPSFL 7.0
Last edited by STAGE FRIGHT; 07-29-2011 at 03:41 AM.
- 07-29-2011 #2
Im sorry man, can you please break it up with some paragraphs..7.5"NBP (+.25")
6" Base Girth (+..75")
Dahan Extender (204.20 hrs Week 7) 1/12/12
Shooting for the magic 8x6 .. Girth almost there..length goal, Your going down!!!
- 07-29-2011 #3
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- Jan 2011
- Portland, OR
Please, separate in paragraphs. Also, your woman is of the few that can take 8+ all in without the staff smacking the cervix or going up in it. Unless you are taking the time to measure, you don't know. It is apparent that he has more length than you and more girth. Well, I hope you get your goal but I am pretty sure it was more the girth that did it for her than the length. You don't need 8 inches of length to push on the cervix depending on position but you do need girth to hit the walls at once which has a great impact on the intercourse.Begin 7/25/2011:
NBPEL 7, BPEL 7.2, MEG 5.6, BEG 6
FL 5.25, FG 5.2
NBPEL 7.8, BPEL 8.1, UEG 5.75, MEG 6.25, BEG 6.7
- 07-29-2011 #4
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- Apr 2011
Thanks for the post, very interesting stuff!
- 07-29-2011 #5
There is a question that is hanging in the air.
Did your lady come in that way just because his dick was a little bigger than yours or because it was her first penetration by somebody other than you and the "new" situation made her more horny than your usual swings.
I would vote for the latter but you never told us what your wife said about the experience- which is the missing link here....I am surprised you did not mention her feedback.
I doubt 1 inch in length would really feel that much different for a woman unless she has a shallow vagina and it actually bothers her cervix if someone is thrusting as deep as possible.Otherwise it probably is superfluous in this case. Girth matters more of course and this she can feel but also most women can adjust easily to half inch difference in the normal range and then it probably feels the same so I really doubt that it was the "size" difference that made her come so fast.
Anyway if you want a woman to feel you more it is better to aim for girth than length. I would say for example that a 6x5.8 penis is more massive for a woman than a 7.5x4.8 even though they may be the same volume.
Last edited by sotorp; 07-29-2011 at 05:05 AM.
- 07-29-2011 #6
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Gee that was a long post ,surprised so many men let you pull out a ruler and measure them.
- 07-29-2011 #7
Nice post! Welcome to the PEGym! GOOD LUCK!!
- 07-29-2011 #8
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- Jul 2011
As for the question hanging one of you asked ........... yes her cervix was indeed bumped and the presence of a guy 12 yrs younger than her built like he was enough to trigger a really quick orgasm. He was 8+ and looked it compared to me. His only drawback was that he had no interest in oral sex with her or his own wife for that matter. I know its not a requirement for men to perform oral, but its just what I personally like to do. The whole idea of the original post was to share my experiences with viewing men of penis size differences over my walk of life, not to really take it anywhere else. The swinging was just a part of the experience ride. As for the paragraph seperating, sorry, english and paragraphs was'nt my best subject in school 25 years ago. I just want to carry on a dream here with other members in my quest for a better and hopefully bigger penis and have fun doing it. So far, so good. The wife thinks I am going overboard, as she's fine with it like it is. Its my new mission and my new passion............
- 07-29-2011 #9
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