GF satisfied with oral, dissapointed in sex?

[Fitetoend Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Fitetoend]

Hey Everyone:

Well tonight i got a blowjob from my current girlfriend and then i ate her out. but between the blowjob and eating her out she attempted to ride me and after trying to put in my semi-erect small penis inside a few times and "riding" me she gave up when it wasnt doing anything for her at which point she even let out a "ahh come on". then she said "it would be really good if you ate me". so i started eating her out and she had an orgasm. Right after she said "god that was good, ill have the best sleep ever". Now im completely torn between feeling depressed about my inadequate, incapable penis for sex, and being able to make her orgasm really well from oral. What should I make of this? Im sooo depressed about failing at sex yet i did make her orgasm. But I KNOW she loves sex over oral. I always start to feel good about PE and everything and then a situation like tonight comes up and it completely deflates me.

[Ongekibou Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Ongekibou]

Some girls don't get off from sex. A lot of girls find it hard (haha... dangly parts) to get off from sex. Are you sure it was you and not her? Or perhaps it was a problem with EQ, since you say semi-erect...

If you're feeling inadequate and would like to get a bigger thingymajigger, start on JP's 90 Day Routine.

[headlikeahole Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close headlikeahole]

Ok wait a minute. When you say "blowjob" do you mean that you came? Then she tried to have sex with you after you came from her going down on you?

If that's the case then it's perfectly normal that your erection quality was low after getting a blowjob. Your body needs time to recuperate before you can get another 100 percenter.

[aussieguy Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close aussieguy]

Ok wait a minute. When you say "blowjob" do you mean that you came? Then she tried to have sex with you after you came from her going down on you?

If that's the case then it's perfectly normal that your erection quality was low after getting a blowjob. Your body needs time to recuperate before you can get another 100 percenter.

This ^^

Only on viagra have i had sex straight after a BJ

Youre doing it the wrong way around
Nail her with everything youve got then let her suck your 60% boner!

[NP97 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close NP97]

This ^^

Only on viagra have i had sex straight after a BJ

Youre doing it the wrong way around
Nail her with everything youve got then let her suck your 60% boner!

Let her suck you hard, and while you fiddle with a condom. Then bang. Hehehe.

[aussieguy Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close aussieguy]

Let her suck you hard, and while you fiddle with a condom. Then bang. Hehehe.

Haha, whatever works man, its all good

[Fitetoend Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Fitetoend]

Hey guys

Yeah she sucked me and i came and then we tried to have sex. But regardless Im small down there and I feel that she doesnt get a real kick out of sex with me anyways. Im only 4.2 inches hard keep that in mind. I make her orgasm through oral most of the time but sometimes she asks midway through to have sex and then tries to ride me and cant keep it in. Im wondering if keeping a girl very satisfied with oral and having a miniature pecker is enough. I feel like a Failure.

[pterodactyl Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close pterodactyl]

Lay her down. Put a pillow under her ass and then go for it. Its a very good angle for the ladies no matter your size.

[amiok Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close amiok]

I feel ya man, I really do.

[Fitetoend Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Fitetoend]

yeah I do the whole pillow under her butt thing and start penetrating. I go fast and then slow and obviously i cant penetrate that far even in that position and sometimes in pleasure she says " you should fuck me real deep" and I think "have you not seen my thing?" or are you just saying that to make a point. So even in that position i face challenges. I tried doggy but that didnt do it. So that leaves me feeling the way I feel.

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

you cant be that bad brother, she keeps sleeping with you correct! just dont blow it during the oral, have sex and then eat her out. See whos the man then, you are!

[Fitetoend Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Fitetoend]

BigO:

HAHA, YOU are the man. well she definitely says she enjoys me "sexually" and keeps asking me to have sex with her, but Ive been wondering if its just her trying to see if she can finally make it work with my dick, lol. sort of like a "its gotta work at some point" type of thing. I normally eat her out, have sex and thats how it goes. Sometimes she orgasms when i eat her out, then we have sex. sometimes midway through she says "put it in" so theres no orgasm. But twice she did orgasm through sex, while she was on top. So im torn.

[pterodactyl Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close pterodactyl]

Well you have the battle won then! Yu said she has orgasmed through sex! This is no easy accomplishment. From what I have read and heard most girls can't even achieve this.

[ThomasJohnThomas Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ThomasJohnThomas]

I am 8.8x5.7 on 10eq and I had this problem with my gf when I was a bit less than eq10 on a too soft mattress, so it may not have been a size thing. This was the first time she was on top and I thought what the hell is going on! Later she did ride me on a noemal mattress and it was great. The first time she did it stands out as an exepyion. And, dude, maby you made her way too wet

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

BigO:

HAHA, YOU are the man. well she definitely says she enjoys me "sexually" and keeps asking me to have sex with her, but Ive been wondering if its just her trying to see if she can finally make it work with my dick, lol. sort of like a "its gotta work at some point" type of thing. I normally eat her out, have sex and thats how it goes. Sometimes she orgasms when i eat her out, then we have sex. sometimes midway through she says "put it in" so theres no orgasm. But twice she did orgasm through sex, while she was on top. So im torn.

Maybe you should try experimenting with your fingers while having intercoures. She could cum while on top because she could control where the stimulation was happening for her. Many woman have more success with orgasms on top because of this. The slightes changes in angle can make a massive difference.
I would communicate with her and tell her she needs to tell what feels good while in different positions, There is nothing wrong with you using your fingers to stimulate her while your behind her.