Required viewing for all PEGym members

[HotRod Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close HotRod]

All members of this forum, please find time to watch both of these.

In the first film, "My Penis and I," Lawrence Barraclough shares his personal journey as he overcomes his own penis size complex.

In the sequel, "My Penis and Everyone Else's," he continues to explore men's penis anxieties and documents the experience of an American friend who has penis enlargement surgery on film.

Both films are masterfully presented with heart, humor and intelligence. Please enjoy....

Part I: My Penis and I

Part II: My Penis and Everyone Else's

[777heaven Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 777heaven]

i caught piece of this. Icalways wanted to finish this. Thanks!!

[HotRod Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close HotRod]

i caught piece of this. Icalways wanted to finish this. Thanks!!

My pleasure. These videos just raise so many issues about the whole penis size thing. I really do hope everyone here will find time to view them and that they will inspire some discussion.

These were originally broadcast on BBC in 2005 and in 2007 respectively. I just found them and was surprised that they aren't well known on PEGym.

[Jelq Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Jelq]

This is ooold! Still a good watch tho.

[HotRod Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close HotRod]

This is ooold! Still a good watch tho.

Old? Seriously. These films could have been made today. They are current and will be meaningful for many years to come. I'm not in the UK so that's probably how these got by me.

[Toadstool Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Toadstool]

He's 3 inches erect. My index finger is longer than that. Heh, poor guy.
I'm curious about the mixed results from women. Some day it doesn't matter. A porn actress said it doesn't.
But then this one girl at a club said that it does matter and anyone saying otherwise is just being nice.

[Lord Harris Member Find all posts View Profile Close Lord Harris]

If you're 3 inches erect, it matters. Remember this when it first came on, felt bad for the guy. Apparently he joined up at thunders, never said he started a routine though lol!

[HotRod Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close HotRod]

I think you guys are missing the point. He overcame his insecurity and enjoys a loving and meaningful relationship with his girlfriend without enlarging his penis which is saying a lot more than can be said for most of the guys on forums like PEGym and Thunders who seem bent on nursing their insecurities. Sorry ,but it's true.

So no it doesn't matter if it's 3 inches or 7X6 like Jarod in the sequel who went through with the surgery.

[HotRod Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close HotRod]

I'm curious about the mixed results from women. Some day it doesn't matter. A porn actress said it doesn't.
But then this one girl at a club said that it does matter and anyone saying otherwise is just being nice.

Those women were drunk. They were on camera. They were goofing around. They didn't know what this guy's film was really about or that he had a 3.5 inch penis. And per many threads where Batwoman and others here have tried to explain, most women just don't really understand what they're stepping into when this subject is presented. Again: they were drunk and playing around and there was nothing serious about what they were saying.

Toadstool, I'm not sure what the porn actress reference is. Are you thinking of Nina Hartley's video on YouTube? Nina says that "size matters when it matters." She goes on to explain that technique and angle is everything no matter how big a penis is. She says that some women have girthy vaginas so they might be happiest with a girthy guy. But yes, her overwhelming message is that size matters in the minds of men.

Most women who do say that size matters are NOT saying that they want a large penis. Like Goldilocks, they really want a penis that feels just right to her. But the reality is they never know what they are going to get. All sex requires some form of negotiation for position, angle and communication no matter what genital sizes are involved.

I think it doesn't really matter so much what women think about size. It's clear enough that they have their own distortions on the matter (I especially liked the scene where the women sculpt the ideal penis in clay.) It's really up to men who have insecurities to rise above the situation and see a larger picture and do more to determine better sex for themselves.

[Toadstool Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Toadstool]

I have no idea what you're referring to. I'm assuming you watched the documentary. At one point, he goes and talks to some people in porn.
I don't think anyone's missing the point. Whoever watched the documentary in length pretty much got the point.

[HotRod Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close HotRod]

Director's Cut: Jarod's Enlargement Surgery (My Penis and Everyone Else's)

Here's a little "special feature" from the second film. In part III below Jarod's friend visits him post-op and swings a 15 pound boat hanger from his own penis. These three parts go into greater detail than the film does with Jarod's phalloplastic augmentation surgery.....

Part I: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jV8iir4WDng

Part II: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DoryVFXeHHs

Part III: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MMycy...47l1.1.2.1l5l0

[ColtAR-15 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ColtAR-15]

He's 3 inches erect. My index finger is longer than that. Heh, poor guy.
I'm curious about the mixed results from women. Some day it doesn't matter. A porn actress said it doesn't.
But then this one girl at a club said that it does matter and anyone saying otherwise is just being nice.

Funny thing is I dont recall too many details but I do remember the girls outside the nightclub saying that " size matters, we just say it doesn't because we dont want to hurt the guys feelings". Thats yet another reason why I distrust so much of the "it doesn't matter" rhetoric that we hear so much.

[Toadstool Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Toadstool]

Funny thing is I dont recall too many details but I do remember the girls outside the nightclub saying that " size matters, we just say it doesn't because we dont want to hurt the guys feelings". Thats yet another reason why I distrust so much of the "it doesn't matter" rhetoric that we hear so much.

Hotrod makes a good point... they were drunk. Drunk people say things that they wouldn't mean while sober.

What about his girlfriend of nine years? You don't stay with someone you're dissatisfied with for nearly a decade. If she was unhappy about his penis size, then she'd leave. She seemed like a down to earth girl.
Actually, she did care about his size. She cared because it mattered to him. She wanted whatever was best for him.

It's best not to be subject to a confirmation bias. That is, you disregard all the evidence that points to one answer and go looking for any evidence that points to the one you believe in.
All women are different. There's bound to be some girls out there who prefer a certain size over another (be it small, or large). Most don't seem to care.

Edit: After watching hotrod's first video, I'm not sure if my answer still applies :/ one woman and her friends talk about small cocks. Heh. I don't know.
Some women do care. Others don't. Bleh. I'm sure it's comparable to breast size. Some men really care about it. Others really just don't.

[Thick_Unit Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Thick_Unit]

He's 3 inches erect. My index finger is longer than that. Heh, poor guy.
I'm curious about the mixed results from women. Some day it doesn't matter. A porn actress said it doesn't.
But then this one girl at a club said that it does matter and anyone saying otherwise is just being nice.

Correction it's as long as my thumb.

[amiok Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close amiok]

Hotrod makes a good point... they were drunk. Drunk people say things that they wouldn't mean while sober.


Edit: After watching hotrod's first video, I'm not sure if my answer still applies :/ one woman and her friends talk about small cocks. Heh. I don't know.
Some women do care. Others don't. Bleh. I'm sure it's comparable to breast size. Some men really care about it. Others really just don't.

Drunk people have loose lips, not that they say stuff that "isn't true." You know? Like it's stuff they want to say but stop themselves when sober.

And yea dude many care. Some demand large, some want large, some think they want large, some just one "average", some don't care, and five in the world want small lol.

I remember watching this at some point and the women sculpting was the worst.