Anyone regret getting too big?

[alan020 Member of the Month Jan 13 Find all posts View Profile Close alan020]

Just out of curiosity here, does anyone here regret PE'ing after getting too big. This could include,

• Becoming too big for your partner
• Lack of sensitivity
• Any other reason you could think of

I'm not sure if this topic has been discussed before so apologies if it has.
The main reason I ask is because a lot of people have the goal of 8 x 6, along with myself someday hopefully, I am wondering has anyone had trouble being this size if you have achieved or exceeded this size.

[somebodyelse Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close somebodyelse]

kinda hard to get to big without knowing it. LOL

not too many guys achieve their goals

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

I dont think 8x6 will stop many from having sex. I am at a size where that goal would not be that far away and I cant inagine less than an inch more of length being the end of my se life. Of course my wife has grown with me, lol

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Well my partner likes the 8" length but states clearly that she prefered the 5.5" girth to the 6" girth I have currently. My original goal was 6.5" girth but I am maintaining at 6".

[bxitachi Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bxitachi]

Im in a similar boat as Pegasus. Once we had the "im peing and heres where i want to go" talk, my gf explicitly told me minimize girht gains if possible. Hard to argue with the woman whos actually gotta hold the damn thing in her.

[Koh Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Koh]

I'll let you know when I finally make gains...

[Toadstool Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Toadstool]

I have a pretty large goal in mind 9.5x6.
The more I think about it, the more I think it's too big.
I'll probably settle in the 8-9 BPEL range.

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

The only down side I can think of becoming too big is being unable to receive oral. If her mouth is pretty small, she may have a tough time taking it in if it gets too big. Other than that, as long as you're both enjoying it, it's all good.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

But I hear those 80 year old babes can do it all!

[arkham Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close arkham]

But I hear those 80 year old babes can do it all!

Its a shame that I have so good imagination that this scene is taking place before me :P

[4Samson Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 4Samson]

I have to admit this concerns me at times. I'm currently peing while away from my fiancee for an extended period of time. I've set a limit of 8 x 6 for myself although will probaly stop short of that, maybe around 7.5 x 5.75. I guess it will depend on how slow/fast my gains come. I want to increase the fun in the bedroom through pe, not limit it. It would be nice if I was with her and could get step by step feedback as I grew.

[Funnypop Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Funnypop]

I personally think 8X6 would be too large.. maybe you guys have been watching too much porn and letting it make you feel extremely inferior? Not every girl/woman can fit that much stalk in her flower.. I mean do you realize, how fat 6 inches of girth is? If maybe you are with the same partner and as you grow, they stretch out.. but in reality you gotta think of your partner.. I am sure they don't want to be stretched out to a big empty garbage bag.. then say you broke up, and then what? your still happy with your size, and they are screwed, having hot dogs slip in their hall way.
Besides that, length is not the most important thing.. you could be 4 inches, and that would be enough for length.. the average unaroused vagina is 2.5-3.0" deep and stretches out to accommodate bigger objects or wangs.

[4Samson Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 4Samson]

I agree 8x6 might be too large and is too large without a doubt for some girls. Too much length is not good but there are spots at the back of the vagina similar to the gspot that can cause intense orgasms. I dont want to turn this thread into a does size matter debate but every girl I have been with has said to me in one way or another "it feels so good when you go deep"... I doubt they were talking about 4" in.

[Hopeful&dedicated Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hopeful&dedicated]

I too don't want to turn this into a size matters thread but I will offer my personal story of my growth and my wife's reaction to it.

I started at 6.5 NBPEL and 7.25 BPEL...or so I thought. I'm a thin guy with low body fat so I thought the .75 inch was a bit strange. I measured about 2 months in and I was 7 NBPEL and 7.5 BPEL. Wierd? I measured again last night and I was 7.25 NBPEL and 7.75 BPEL. The one thing I am certain of was my NBPEL because I had measured that more times than I'd care to admit over the years. So either I grew .75 or .50. At the very least the half inch is undeniable and it's possible it is three quarter.

On to my wife's reaction. I am a stealth PEer so everything she has said is all on her own. She started apologizing when she got ontop because she had to take it easy for a while. Her words were. "You must be really hard because you feel deeper." Over the course of a couple weeks it was common for her to tell me how deep I am in her during sex. This never happened in the past. The after one particular session she says, "I don't know why but you are hitting a different spot in me. It's deeper." I ask if it's a bad thing and she responds with, "Oh no...It's the best! It feels different but I love it." I can also pick her up and bounce her on me now. I couldn't do this in the past with my 6.5 NBPEL. Or at least as well. She was never into it much but now it's her favorite position and let's just say if there was such a thing as having an outer body experience this would be it for her.

I don't think she was lying in the past if I asked her if she wished I was longer but rather it was something she didn't know she was missing.

[JonPop Retired Sr. Administrator PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close JonPop]

Having a large penis is a responsibility, and should be treated accordingly.
Do I regret gaining all that I have? No, but I do wish I had all of the many thousands of hours I spent doing PE, back.