Thread: Psychology of PE
- 05-16-2012 #11
would you gain an inch in a day if you could never gain after that?
My answer would have to be no for me, because I have and ultimate goal to fulfill.
If I never get there, it doesn't really matter that much, as long as I can say I damn sure tried my best.
But If I get to my regular goal and can't gain any more after that I would say that I would be happy.
would you keep gaining even if you were at a size that maximized pleasure for a sexual partner?
No, I would stop.
If my partner said it was perfect at that size then I would stop, because she knows I do PE.
So, I would have to respect the fact that I want to please her and not hurt her.
After all, it's called love making, not butchering the cow.
As far as the psychology aspect of it.
I would say that men have always been competitive and this is just one more thing that they can compete with one another in.
I mean, I would think that some people really would like to have the largest penis in the world. How would you feel if you had it?
And as far as guys starting PE with 8" or more, I think they look at porn and think that they have to compare themselves to these guys and think they have to be as big or bigger to be excepted in this society in this day and age.
I think the biggest reason that guys start PE is because they have had a bad experience with a girl or girls that have told them they were small.
This can really hurt a guys ego.
After all who wants to be called small in the bed room. It makes us feel inadequate.
What we want to hear our woman say...
"Oh my God you got a nice fucking cock. Your fullness inside me feels amazing."
And if we have been away from her for a while on business or what ever, we want to hear her say...
"Oh baby, I can't wait to feel your big fucking cock deep inside me, get your ass home please."
When you hear your girl say things like this to you, and she wants it all the time.
You can pretty much assure yourself that she doesn't cheat on you, and does not take any interest in any other men.
Because, you are everything she needs, given the fact, that you also have the other parts of the relationship going good as well.
Last edited by ronnierokk; 05-16-2012 at 02:21 PM. Reason: spelling and grammarBegin 1/1/2009: *I took off 1 1/2yr.
BPEL 6, MEG 4, BEG 4.5
FL 6.1, FG 4.8
NBPEL 6.8, BPEL 7, MEG 5, BEG 6
NBPEL 8, BPEL 8+, EG 6
NBPEL 9, BPEL 9+, EG 6.5
- 05-16-2012 #12
- Join Date
- Feb 2012
Yeah I see where you're coming from with the worlds largest penis thing, I read somewhere about a guy who wanted to have people ask him if he's had surgery to make it bigger haha.
And so you'd relate to the social influences from the media and from peers (or girlfriends hehe), which I tend to do. I think the porn industry has done more damage than many people know- Its setting up these insecurities for men, setting silly ideas on sex and what a body should look like, along with the damage it can do in the whole errection side of things- just look at the members on this site going on anti-porn stints and such.
I totally agree with the seeming common views on stopping if you had the perfect size for your particular partner, I was just interested, especially if the scenario was say her ideal size is 7", and you're on a role with the gains, they're coming steady, and you have all of these influences saying bigger is better, but you have this objective knowledge that your current size is perfect. As well as being able to comment in line with how the relationship is, it can also give ideas into the ego and internal motivation for wanting gains, which is what i'm interested inI'm back!
- By newuser21 in forum Premature Ejaculation ForumReplies: 53Last Post: 10-23-2012, 12:23 AM
- By Sharpshooter in forum Premature Ejaculation ForumReplies: 3Last Post: 11-13-2011, 03:19 PM
- By CircaSurvive in forum Premature Ejaculation ForumReplies: 36Last Post: 06-05-2011, 12:36 AM
- By Sretsbew in forum Relationship ForumReplies: 14Last Post: 01-24-2011, 04:27 PM
- By byronb in forum Beginner's ForumReplies: 1Last Post: 06-22-2010, 07:49 AM