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    Does Your size make you insecure around women?


    Here is my advice for guys that are really insecure about their size.

    The problem today about insecurities with Dick size is that most guys grew up watching porn and it does a mind fuck on people, both men and women, so they think that all women want is a guy with a big cock.

    In most cases this is true, but the problem is, that most guys don't know that more then half of the guys in the porn industry today was not born with that size they had to create it.

    Now, I'm not saying that some of them was not born with that size, because yes it's true that some guys are born with big cocks, it's in there genes.

    But more then half of them did what you are doing now. Used PE, pumps, weights, Jelqs, you name it.

    Here are some definitions of 5 of the most popular Penis enlarging techniques for those that are new to this...

    Stretching: Stretching consists of attaching a penis stretcher or "extender" device to the penis for set periods of time. The device exerts a constant traction on the penis, which, in theory, lengthens and widens the penis, although this can be very dangerous. The traction supposedly causes the cells in the penis to divide and expand.

    Jelqing: Jelqing is a penis enlargement method intended to make the penis larger by "exercising" tissues in the penis, with the goal of permanently increasing the maximum erect size of the penis. This technique, also called "milking", involves wrapping the thumb and index finger around the penis while semi-erect and repeatedly drawing them away from one's body to force blood into the glans, thus encouraging more vascularity in the corpus cavernosum and associated tissues.

    Clamping: Clamping is a risky and dangerous technique. The goal of clamping is to increase the girth of the penis. This enlargement technique uses a constricting device, such as a shoe string, cable clamp, or a tight cock ring. The device is firmly tied, clamped, or put, respectively, on the base of the erect penis while "edging" (extended masturbation) with a firmly erect penis. Use of a metal cock ring is not advised because trapped blood engorging the penis can make it impossible to remove without amputation or emergency intervention such as sawing the ring off. Clamping is considered extremely dangerous by both practitioners and the medical community as it can cause permanent catastrophic damage to the penis.

    Hanging: Weight hanging consists of attaching a device (usually a rope or a strap) that grips the glans or just behind the glans and allows a weight to be suspended for a specific amount of time. Then a conscious effort is made to exercise the penis by raising the weight in repetitions (lasting no more than 5 to 10 minutes at a time) starting with the smallest and lightest weight 1/16 pound to the heaviest usually 1/4 pound or more.

    Weight hanging, however, can also carry serious risks, which include nerve damage, chronic pain, scarring and impotence. The idea behind weight hanging is to stretch the tunica albuginea and other various tissues of the penis.

    Hanging carries additional health risks due to the restriction of blood flow to the glans, including testicular cancer. So this is the reason that it is very important to take breaks in between to let the blood flow and message your penis while doing these exercises.


    Pumping: A penis pump is a cylinder that is fitted over the penis, with a manual or motorized pump to create suction. As the apparatus creates a partial vacuum around the penis, blood is drawn into the penis, helping it to become engorged. As vacuum increases, the difference between the inner blood pressure and the pump pressure increases as well; excessive pressure causes vascular damage rather than a harder penis.

    Penis pumps, usually described in this context as vacuum pumps, have use in conventional alleviation of impotence. The pump itself is essentially as described above, although often made to higher standards of quality with a much higher price, and arrangements for distribution by suppliers of medical equipment. The purpose is not to cure the condition, but to attain an erection by mechanical and hydrodynamical means even if there is nerve and vascular damage preventing a full natural erection; once the penis is erect, a compression ring is slid on to maintain the erection which will otherwise subside immediately.

    A flexible compression ring (or sometimes more than one), commonly called cock rings when used recreationally, must be used. It is fitted on the open end of the cylinder, then an erection is created by pumping. Then the ring is pushed by hand onto the base of the erect penis before releasing the vacuum. This restricts blood flow out of the now erect penis, enabling the erection to be held even in the presence of problems of the vascular or nervous system which would otherwise lead to immediate loss of erection. In the best circumstances erections can be maintained for a considerable time, but manufacturers' literature recommends that, for safety, rings should be removed after no more than 30 minutes. Very prolonged use (hours) will cause permanent harm.

    A personal lubricant of a type not harmful to the ring material is used, primarily to make a good seal at the base of the pump to prevent air leakage, in the same way that vacuum grease is used with a laboratory vacuum pump. It also makes it easier to slide the ring off the cylinder, and later to remove the ring.

    Pumping must be done very carefully to avoid serious injury: over-enthusiastic pumping can burst blood vessels and form blisters. In some cases the testicles can be unexpectedly pulled into the cylinder, causing discomfort, pain, and possibly injury.[citation needed] It is also believed that the rim of the cylinder can cut into the skin and over time cause damage to the ligaments surrounding the penis.

    Impatiently pumping without reading explanatory material can produce too much suction (any pressure lower than 10 torr/1,333 Pa) and cause permanent and irreparable injury. Attempts at using vacuum cleaner units for this purpose have resulted in extremely severe injuries because the suction is far too powerful.
    Pumps used with rings are virtually always effective, as they operate by a simple mechanical process, in cases of ED, even when pharmaceutical methods fail. They may nonetheless be found unsatisfactory due to the inconvenience and similar factors.

    The effectiveness of penis pumps for permanent penis enlargement was examined by Kazem, Hosseini and Alizadeh. They studied 37 men with penis length less than 10 cm and found no significant change in penile length after using pumps for six months, although the follow-up have found 30% satisfaction with the method. The conclusion of the paper stated that vacuum treatment of the penis is not an effective method for penile elongation, but provides psychological satisfaction for some men.

    A 31-patient study conducted by the Department of Urology at St Peter's Hospitals and the Institute of Urology in London investigating the usefulness of pumps to correct the penile curvature associated with Peyronie's disease found that "There was a clinically and statistically significant improvement in penile length, angle of curvature and pain after 12 weeks of using the vacuum pump". In this study, subjects with Peyronie's undertook two ten-minute pumping sessions per day for twelve weeks. The additional penis length of 0.5 cm average was an unexpected side effect found in approximately one third of the subjects and not an intended aim of the study.

    In the US, Penis pumps may be funded by Medicare, where a patient's erectile dysfunction is deemed to necessitate this.

    (note* all of these terms above were taken from wikipedia.org for accuracy)


    They did it all to get where they are today.


    So what I'm trying to say here is that nothing comes for free in this world. If you want a big fucking cock dude, you have to work hard for the mother fucker.

    That is no joke. I am being totally honest with you.

    There is no quick fix for growing a big cock.

    Now, I'm not saying that you can't get great results in 3-6 months time. Maybe you can and maybe you can't.

    It has more to do with your genetics. IF you body grows fast then you will get bigger faster, if it doesn't, then it will take a little longer.

    That is just the facts.

    The fact that most people think that all black guys have big cocks is a false statement, but I know a lot of people that do think that.

    Well to tell you the truth a lot of them don't.

    Let me give you a little history lesson here on why some do and some don't.

    The one's that belong to the The African Karamojong tribe from North Eastern Uganda, from early youth they would hang ever increasing numbers of circular stone disks from the end of their penises, and over the course of a number of years they can achieve penis lengths comparable to the Indian Sadhus which would stretch their up to 18 inches.

    So all of them that was related to this tribe down the line had gotten their genetics from this Tribe through there DNA. So their DNA would now contain the code for a longer bigger dick.

    Now, I want you to think about this for a while. They stretch their cock from a young age, lets say 8yrs old all the way through their 20's.
    So, how many years is that?

    That's right 12yrs if they started at 8 and stooped at 20.

    That's a long fucking time dudes.

    Now I'm not saying that it will take you that long, because now days with the technology we have and the things we have learned over the years to make
    our cocks bigger has surpassed what they did back then.

    And you want to know the really fucked up thing about them using weights for all those years.

    Although both the Karamojong and the Sadhus achieve incredible penis sizes, they in fact permanently damage their penises beyond the point of no return.

    Such extreme practices eventually lead to nerve and tissue damage which prevent any normal erectile function.

    So all they had was a big useless fucking Cock!


    But...

    The Good thing about these examples however, do give an insight into the feasibility of penis stretching. With more controlled and moderate use, modest gains in size are achievable without running the risk of injury.

    So with that said, be careful what you do to your cock and be safe. Never over train and make sure you follow all direction to a tee when they are given. Seek advice of someone that has lots of experience with this, don't just try and and not know what the hell you are doing and end up fucking your shit up dude!

    There are specific examples of ritualistic penis stretching to be found from around the world. Two prominent examples are provided by separate continents – India, and again, Africa.

    You can get bigger and you will. But remember it takes dedication, focus and a will to get bigger. It has to become your main focus in life.

    You can to do many things at once. Just concentrate on just that, till you get where you want to be, then pursue other things. This is help in your building process.



    And here is the most important thing about this whole lesson that I'm giving you right now because the title of this tread is about being insecure here what
    you need to do. I know it will be hard but you have to do it if you want to be happy, other wise you will stay miserable.


    You need to stop all dating with women. Yup, you heard me right. Stop it wild cat!!

    Take off from women for at least 1 year to work on your cock to try and get it to the size you want, or until you feel that you do not feel insecure around
    women any more.

    I want you to feel like when you walk into a room with a bunch of women you will put a big smile on your face because you will know you can satisfy any women
    there.

    So, if you can't swing it for 1 year, start with 6 months and see what you get.

    But I'm telling you, if you do this until you feel better about your cock size, then you won't have a problem with women and dating again.

    But if you do date right now being insecure like you are, and a woman complains about your size, you will be back to being miserable again. Get my point.


    So, I hope this lesson has helped you gain a bit of knowledge on things and I hope you get your goals done guys.

    Keep going, Take care of your member and he will take care of you.


    Hope this helps,
    Ronnie Rokk
    Need a PE Coach?



  • #2
    Great thread man. Yes my penis size definitely makes me insecure around women. If i had a shlong i would be a complete different person around them, a whole lot more myself.

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    • #3
      It used to for me and still does occasionally. But, I've come to learn that I don't give a shit. I have the people close to me who care about me, friends and family, and they don't care how big my dick is - and their's are the only opinions that matter.

      If I let pride rule one facet of my life and define my self worth, I might as well let pride rule all facets of my life. And, if that was the case - I'd be getting height extension surgery, doing roids and trying to fix every little thing about myself. When you realize that the things which define your pride, don't define you, life opens up immensely.
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      • #4
        My size definitely does my x told me she went out with a man who was hung like a donkey ever since then my confidence is fucked
        Starting roughly nbp 6.75x 5.25
        Current roughly nbp 7.25x 5.5
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        • #5
          Originally posted by crackincock View Post
          My size definitely does my x told me she went out with a man who was hung like a donkey ever since then my confidence is fucked
          I hear ya, women like to rub that in our faces. Mine told me that her X had 9" which is a big jump on me. I asked her how often they had sex. She said all the time.

          Before I started doing PE we would only have sex so many times in 1 months time. Now that PEing has encreased my size already things keep getting better.

          So I would have to say that size does matter to some women, I'm not saying all of them.

          But the one's that I have been with it does.
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          • #6
            She told me she enjoyed my sex more hard to believe though I understand I can't be everyone's biggest just dont wanna feel beneath any man
            Starting roughly nbp 6.75x 5.25
            Current roughly nbp 7.25x 5.5
            Bpl 8
            Goal 8x6
            Dream 10x7

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            • #7
              Originally posted by crackincock View Post
              She told me she enjoyed my sex more hard to believe though I understand I can't be everyone's biggest just dont wanna feel beneath any man
              Maybe she does enjoy sex more with you, because maybe the guy that was hung like a donkey was too big for her and hurt too much.

              I know my girl also told me that her X that was 9" use to hurt her. She said my size was perfect because I make her cum 4-5 times almost everytime and I don't hurt her.

              But just the other day when were having sex, she was making that face when I looked at her and I asked...

              "Am I hurting you?" and she said...

              "Yes" and I said...

              "Well, why didn't you say so?" so she says...

              "Because you was enjoying it. You think that you are small, you are not"

              What a sweet heart huh? She was just taking the pain only because I was enjoying it? Wow! what a woman.

              I love her.

              Ronnie
              Need a PE Coach?


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              • #8
                Mine makes me insecure around women mostly because I have a very small flacid. After 15yrs I still dont feel comfortable letting my wife see it. no problem once erect but I have to get past the flacid issue.

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by ronnierokk View Post
                  What a sweet heart huh? She was just taking the pain only because I was enjoying it? Wow! what a woman.
                  I love her. Ronnie
                  Yeah sometimes I tell my wife to let me know because she'll do the same thing.

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by 2009vettez51 View Post
                    Mine makes me insecure around women mostly because I have a very small flacid. After 15yrs I still dont feel comfortable letting my wife see it. no problem once erect but I have to get past the flacid issue.
                    I use to feel like that around mine woman to, but once you get a 6" or more hang flaccid you won't feel like that any more.
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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by ronnierokk View Post
                      Maybe she does enjoy sex more with you, because maybe the guy that was hung like a donkey was too big for her and hurt too much.

                      I know my girl also told me that her X that was 9" use to hurt her. She said my size was perfect because I make her cum 4-5 times almost everytime and I don't hurt her.

                      But just the other day when were having sex, she was making that face when I looked at her and I asked...

                      "Am I hurting you?" and she said...

                      "Yes" and I said...

                      "Well, why didn't you say so?" so she says...

                      "Because you was enjoying it. You think that you are small, you are not"

                      What a sweet heart huh? She was just taking the pain only because I was enjoying it? Wow! what a woman.

                      I love her.

                      Ronnie
                      Ah I tried make myself feel better by sleeping around hence she's my x ha ha fuck it anyway
                      Starting roughly nbp 6.75x 5.25
                      Current roughly nbp 7.25x 5.5
                      Bpl 8
                      Goal 8x6
                      Dream 10x7

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by TheSnitch View Post
                        It used to for me and still does occasionally. But, I've come to learn that I don't give a shit. I have the people close to me who care about me, friends and family, and they don't care how big my dick is - and their's are the only opinions that matter.

                        If I let pride rule one facet of my life and define my self worth, I might as well let pride rule all facets of my life. And, if that was the case - I'd be getting height extension surgery, doing roids and trying to fix every little thing about myself. When you realize that the things which define your pride, don't define you, life opens up immensely.
                        I hear ya man, nothing wrong with looking at things from that perspective
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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by 2009vettez51 View Post
                          Mine makes me insecure around women mostly because I have a very small flacid. After 15yrs I still dont feel comfortable letting my wife see it. no problem once erect but I have to get past the flacid issue.
                          Damn man, you have a huge dick! If I had a small flaccid and a huge dick, I'd just call it a magic show and let all the girls watch!
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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by TheSnitch View Post
                            Damn man, you have a huge dick! If I had a small flaccid and a huge dick, I'd just call it a magic show and let all the girls watch!

                            I am getting over it and this forum has been a big help. It shouldnt bother me and I know it doesnt bother my wife. She could care less because she loves me.

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                            • #15
                              I was kind of obsessed with my size and n curve during high school. This was because of porn. When you compare youself to something extraordinary, you may see yourself as garbage. However, when I started having sex and didnt have issues, I came to the conclusion that Im not the one thats not good enough, what was seen in porn was way more than normal.
                              I will never become as strong as a strongman, never as fast as a sprinter and never as big and good at sex as peter north. On the other hand, Im much stronger than the average guy, I can outrun most guys and Im above average in terms of penis size.

                              Never compare yourselves with someone unique or rare. Compare youselves with the average guy, who is 5-7" long and can last about 5-15'. If you find out that you are below average regarding something, then stop whining and cursing your genes and do something about it.
                              The best sound in the whole world is my wife.... having an orgasm!!!!

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