1st day of PE - some questions!

**MoreDP** · 05-29-2012

Hi I just did my 1st day of PE! It felt awesome... but some concerns/questions...

I asked this before but if anyone could help it would be amazing!
I can't keep my boner down! Warm up was ok. Someone mentioned that it didnt matter. But during Sketching and jelqing I would get a boner almost every time I touch my dick. I have to wait a long time (one minute or so for it to calm down). Any advice? Would it be better if I came before my sessions?

Also, whats good thickness to achieve? I am gay and it seems to me that thickness doesnt count as much as length in the gay community... Or am I being absurd with this claim?

Also also, I warmed up in the shower. I basically put my shower head over my dick over 10 minutes... good idea? Would a warm cloth or sock be a better idea?

**CUSP82** · 05-29-2012

You will calm down as you get used to the exercises. As for size, do what you want to do and and don't worry what someone else will want. Hey it's your dick!

**IHaveAHugeNick** · 05-29-2012

Try and masturbate before a PE session. See if that works.

As for girth, don't worry for now. Just be happy with whatever gains come. Later on, once your unit is conditioned properly and you understand the intermediated and advanced exercises, you can start to target specific gains.

**MoreDP** · 05-29-2012

thanks for the response guys. Any suggestions for the warm up?

**Slow&Steady** · 05-29-2012

Take a sock and put about a cup of rice in it and tie the end. Then microwave it for 30 seconds (950 watt machine at my place). It will stay toasty for 10 minutes and works GREAT! As for length, 7-8 is optimal for getting past the second sphincter and giving crazy good feelings but even 4 can be a good time. As for girth, if the guy has some experience, 5.5-6 is about perfect. Bigger if they are into size/pain (no thx) and smaller if they are new. After ~30 years of playing (42 now) I like 6" best but have to warm up to it slowly as it is still large! At 6x5" you would still be a LOT of fun. Oh, I'm bi if you hadn't guessed...

**MoreDP** · 05-29-2012

Thanks Slow&steady! It's great reading the other side of the story

I bottomed myself and I find 7-8 too much but I noticed that gays are length crazy and loves a big dick... :P

**Slow&Steady** · 05-29-2012

Anything over 6" in length HURTS unless you manage the turn (in missionary) and can get past that second tight opening. Doggy works 100% of the time if the guy can relax and you go slow. Nothing feels like that last couple of inches going in, I won't lie. But I can't imagine somone breaking up over just that as you could hit it with toys if a bottom really, really needed it (maybe once a month for me). I'm 99% bottom as I beleive it is better to receive than give. Ha! But I've been 95% a top for girls, assuming they didn't have a strapon attached of course.

**MoreDP** · 05-29-2012

Got it. I top for my current BF and he doesnt complain. I just want to be a better lover though

I wonder if there are any bi/gay folks out there to speak of their experience!

**Slow&Steady** · 05-29-2012

There are many here according to the polls I've seen. But I bet it varies almost as much as girls do. For me it's my nipples that are critical as I can cum just from them being stimulated. I love kisses on the neck too, a lot. Or a strong hand on my shoulders. Rarw! Ok I need to go, do something... Have fun!