How did you tell your wife/gf?

[franciscan]

PS. I am not always wise and philosophical...you lot just happen to catch me on good days!

[Eazygeezer]

I thought honesty was the best policy, I noticed a decrease in my libido and EQ, told the mrs I wanted to improve it and found some exercises to try out.
She was a little dubious till I showed her them. Afterwards, all good.

If I was single? Maybe, maybe not, what's the worst an ex can say? My ex played with his cock a lot, oh and it was rock hard? Lol

[eworthi]

Since I'm all about curing my PremE my wife liked hearing that I had found this site and was starting an exercise routine to learn to control my orgasm response, but she also made it clear that she didn't want any details and hasn't asked me about it since. After 23 years in the sack with me I guess she's seen about all she wants to see. I do have some issues with feelings of inappropriateness though , I have no problem with edging with lube and other exercises but the fleshlight with it's realistic molded vagina opening kind of freaks me out ! But it's all part of learning to deal with maximum stimulation, right? And it will all be worth it on the day she and I cum together.

[franciscan]

Since I'm all about curing my PremE my wife liked hearing that I had found this site and was starting an exercise routine to learn to control my orgasm response, but she also made it clear that she didn't want any details and hasn't asked me about it since. After 23 years in the sack with me I guess she's seen about all she wants to see. I do have some issues with feelings of inappropriateness though , I have no problem with edging with lube and other exercises but the fleshlight with it's realistic molded vagina opening kind of freaks me out ! But it's all part of learning to deal with maximum stimulation, right? And it will all be worth it on the day she and I cum together.

Best part of the post that!

[Closed035]

Yeah. I remember when my gf first found out... My advice: unless your married, I would definitely hide PE from whoever you know. The problem with PE is no matter how much information you throw at people about how PE is healthy for your junk and stuff like that, you always come across as someone who has a penis size complex (which in hindsight is kind of true for a lot of us). Therefore, if word gets out about you doing PE, you're most likely going to take some form of backlash for it.

Truth is I know the kid version of me would be severely disappointed to find out this is where I am in life. I mean if you think about it, we all spend roughly an hour a day tugging on our junk in an isolated room so other's don't know about our "problem". It's a bit too sheepish in my opinion. Also all this time I'm waisting to gain hopefully half an inch, I could be spending learning a new language or bettering myself at my profession so I can one day give back to society.

In the end, this is why I to this day regret letting my gf find out about it. Ever since she find out, there were many positive qualities she used to see in me that she no longer does and justifiably so. It's put a major strain on our relationship in many ways. For example, she hates the fact that my junk is slightly purple now. I don't see the big deal, but she says "it looks like your dick is suffocating". Overall, the visual quality to my junk is no longer appealing to her anymore and now that she knows why, she's lost even more respect for me.

[juanepstein]

I told her I play with it because it's all about the penis health. She said me playing with it benefits her. Man, I love her!

[MrsLooking4more]

I told her I play with it because it's all about the penis health. She said me playing with it benefits her. Man, I love her!

Exactly!