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I've been in a relationship for 4years now and we just moved in together. I think it would be easier for me to stick with a routine if i didn't have to hide it all the time. How did you tell your other half about PE and did she get upset or anything when you did?
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These may help you.
https://www.pegym.com/forums/penis-e...s-my-girl.html
https://www.pegym.com/forums/gym/105...-about-pe.html
https://www.pegym.com/forums/relatio...-doing-pe.html
https://www.pegym.com/forums/penis-e...e-tonight.html
In the end if you're with her for 4 years and moving in together, what's the big deal letting her know or not, it's your body your decision
PE is mainly for penile health and gains come with it too, nothing odd about taking care of your dick. -
Walk in to the kitchen while she is preparing dinner and throw a bottle or plate onto the ground and simply tell her "look babe I pull on my dick to make it grow for you." Then tell her your definition of love and what your favourite painting is and why it makes you think of her....I don't know why I don't charge people for my advice.Comment
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Im not sure how i missed those Steve, i actually did a search lol. Im taking your advice raider..plate smashing and allComment
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You're a good manComment
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I just told her and didnt hesitate at allComment
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You would likely have a difficult time making any profit with your advice: charge fee for advice, pay to replace 50 year old scotch and fine china plates. $83 in the red for one suggesion. Plus a law suit for causing his mother's heart attack as she overheard his bold penis-tugging proclaimation having stoped by to return tupperwear. Then there is your involvement in the divorce to follow once he tells his wife that his definition of love is the painting he did of a naked girl in college art class, which just so happens to be his favorite image to edge to. That might put you right out of business unless you already have a crack legal team in place.Originally posted by Raider View Post
Seriously, I think many of us have been conditioned to consider PE as something to be ashamed of, like when you were 13 and masterbated in your aunt's basement after you walked by and saw her ample naked breasts as she combed her hair with the bathroom door open. PE is self improvement, so really 2009vettez51 has the right attitude, it is a positive thing men should confidently share with their lover/s (probably not best to tell your mother unless she is a real free spririt). I have talked about it to a few women early on and all of them reacted in a positive, excited, and playful naughty way. Had sex shortly thereafter. But I certainly see how a 4 year relationship is more delicate than 2 dates. Regardless, it forms another connection between you, thus increasing intimacy.
Women are also much more accepting of these things than men give them credit for (this might have something to do with Freudian mother/lover association, not that I believe that or like Freud at all). Imagine if she told you about her kegels and vaginal fluffing routine. "Yeah baby, can I watch!" You are trying to improve the funnest and most intimate part of your body, largely for her benefit. She should be happy to find out! But it might be easiest to just broach the subject seeing as you are uncertain and gage her reaction. "So, have you ever heard of men yankin' their wangs to make them big and hard"? She replies, "Oh my god that is so disgusting, all those porn stars should stop bragging." Ok, might want to reconsider telling her now. Or she may respond, "Oh, that sounds exciting! Are you going to start doing it?" Easy. You will likely get a more timid reaction somewhere in the middle of these two extremes.
You could always leave a general info page open on your PC for her to find. She will read it and either kick you out or bring it up one night in bed. Or listen to Raider and just throw a plate at her head while screaming, "I LOVE YOU AND I LOVE MY PENIS AND I DO NOT CARE WHO KNOWS ABOUT IT!"Last edited by Gspot; 07-06-2012, 01:34 AM."Dogs bark at what they do not know ... Many fail to grasp what is right in the palm of their hand ... Lovers of wisdom must open their minds to very many things ... A wonderful harmony is created when we join together the seemingly unconnected" ~HeraclitusComment
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I said to my wife "After having done some extensive research, I believe there are exercises a man can do to increase the size of his penis, and I want to take up that challenge. I'm telling you this because I don't want to have to do it in private and it will make it much easier if you're okay with me doing the exercises in the same room as you sometimes."
After that I had to convince her that it wasn't going to get too big. She's totally cool with it now, but she didn't like it at first. She thought I was doing it because she thought that I thought I wasn't good enough for her. Honestly, sometimes I think my wife has had more penis size insecurities than me. I think she has learnt a lot through PEGym and this whole process as well actually.Comment
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Oh, she just reminded me that she was worried I'd damage myself. Some of those exercises looked scary and she said she didn't want a broken penis.Comment
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I just swallowed my pride and told my wife. At first she was literally dumbfounded and couldn't figure out why I would do such a thing. She also said that she was glad that I told her, because if she had found out on her own she would have wondered if there was a different motive (another woman, etc). She also worried about things becoming too big.
In the end, she approves of it now and supports me in it. She has also said that she does enjoy the results (I am now at a 40+%increase in total volume) and even agreed that I can continue as long as it continues to fit.
You have nothing to lose by telling her. Also, a tip: Make sure she knows its not because of anything she did and that it is a personal journey for yourself. Explain to her that it is your insecurity that you want to fix and that her understanding means a lot to you.Comment
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Wow 40% volume increase Don. That's very impressive.Originally posted by donjelqer76 View Post
Good advice too.Comment
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I told her I wanted 9" she said "Can you get some girth for me?"Comment
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Thanks! I just did the math - its actually 42.1% to be exact (i haven't ran the numbers in a while) My 1 year PE anniversary is coming up in November, so I'm turning up the heat and would love to see +50% by then!Wow 40% volume increase Don. That's very impressive.
Good advice too.
You just made my wife bust out in laughter. Funny as it is, she says that its so true.. All us guys are so worried about our length almost to the point of ignoring girth all together, but my wife insists that girth is more noticible for her. Oh well, I guess I'll have to add to them both!I told her I wanted 9" she said "Can you get some girth for me?"Comment
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My wife commented on the "tan" my penis had while we were dating. It was the perfect "in" to explain I had once been smaller. The rest is history.Comment
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doesnt really matter how you tell her as long as you dont say, well since you wont keggle.............
It will give you so much more freedom to PE and you will be glad you told her.Going an inch and 1/2 deeper than beforeComment
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