- 07-10-2012 #1
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- Jul 2012
Hello everyone, it's great to finally join this forum. I've actually been lurking around here for a year or so, on and off. I haven't been doing PE for a year at all though. I only started doing it regularly in the last 3 months but I stopped around a month ago. In short I've only done it for 2 months, stopped, and then I've been doing it for 3 days. By the time I stopped 2 months later I thought that my unit had gotten a bit thicker from all that jelqing but it's hard to tell you know? And sometimes it was so shrinked up from it that it actually seemed smaller. Lots of variations makes it hard to measure I find. I don't know how you guys do it.
Anyway, I need to tell a little bit about my story. So I've been with the same girl for four years now, since I turned 18. We've been living together for two. We have a good sex life and she's always been satisfied with my dick which is pretty much the definition of average (ranging from 5.5 to 6.5 inches when hard and with a proportional thickness which I can't measure at the moment). A completely average dick which she's always called huge since I'm the only guy she ever had. Now about a week ago, I was flying off to visit my folks on the East Coast and we decided to take a small break at the same time because we'd just spent so much time together that we both felt we needed to see other people. Me more than her actually. Now when I landed there I realised my mistake because I realised I actually didn't want to be with anyone else since I missed her already but she took our arrangement seriously. To make a long story short, she ended up blowing a guy with a horse dick and she told me later on about how much she loved it because how big he was and about how she's gonna see him one last time to get some more of his dick (she won't have sex with him because she says that it looks too big and wouldn't feel good but I feel she's only saying that to preserve my now shaky ego). Also she says that my dick is much more beautiful but I don't care about that... I want it to be huge
I think that any guy who has ever been in that situation will understand how devastated I feel right now. I feel like half the man I used to be... In fact I don't feel like a man at all. She used to be supportive of me Jelqing well I'm at it again now... hard. I mean I'm dedicated to it... I know I can't go too rough at the beginning. But guys, I need help. I want to get huge as fast as possible, I want to be bigger than that guy. This is the most important thing for me right now. I'll do anything I have to do. I'll take coachings if it will help my result. I want to get an inch of lenght and an inch of girth for July 2013. Is this realistic? I'll do anything. Can Big Al help me make such gains?
Thank you anyone who answers this, I really need the support right now.
- 07-10-2012 #2
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- Sep 2009
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Sorry about your situation, shipmate.
Your gains will come when they come. If you try to compete with another guy on your cock size, you, and your lady, are both going to go crazy. If I understand your story correctly, she is willing to give him up for you. Isn't that what you really want after all?
Which would you rather have, your cock and your girl, or his cock and no girl?Pirate Diplomacy:
The art of telling someone to go to hell and having them look forward to the trip.
Remember: If done right, there is no such thing as safe sex.
- 07-10-2012 #3
First off, welcome to the gym!
Sorry to hear about your story bro, that's fucked up. Are you back together now or? How cold of her for telling you all those things .. You sure you fell in love with this person?
Well, we can't give you a magic routine or magic pill to make it huge in 1 month.. Consistency is key. Just keep on training bro, eventually gains will come .. I understand your frustration. Don't overdo things!!! It's tempting to now just start PE'ing like a mad man, but that's not gonna do any good. Stay focused and sober, choose a good beginner routine (https://www.pegym.com/forums/beginne...cess-here.html). Don't be afraid to ask questions on these great forums and try to enjoy it ..
+ you both took a break and she just ran to another guy. That's weird in my opinion. Are you sure she loves you and you love her?
Best of luck!!!
- 07-10-2012 #4
Wow. I feel for you, man. That can't be easy.
Maybe she lied to you. It seems VERY uncalibrated, and downright offensive to tell you all about this guy she blew.
Maybe you guys have this 'open, and honest relationship,' but that goes beyond being open and honest. That lacks total empathy.
My first thought when I read your post: She's lying to you.
Maybe she's trying to spark your jealousy bone so that you 'man up' and come back to her. Look at it like this: She knows you have certain insecurities about your size. You initiate a temporary breakup and she reports finding someone who is too huge to have sex with. Really? Seems kind of... convenient. She gets all the feelings of making you feel hurt, without going the full nine yards of sex.
And then she comments that you have a "more beautiful" ding dong. That seems like a weird thing to say. Maybe she's trying to tell you that she still wants you.
Maybe she's telling the truth, but I'm putting five bucks on the table that she's not being totally honest with you.
Now, about your gains. I'm a little confused... Did you say that you fluctuate a full inch? As in, sometimes you'll measure and it'll be 6.5", and other times you measure, you'll be 5.5"? That tells me you have a poor EQ. You're going to want to work on that by doing kegels. I'll explain below.
Depending on how long ago you started your PE, you're going to need to recondition yourself. Look to the JP90 routine for this.
Gaining an inch in a year is reasonable. It took me about that to gain an inch.
But keep something in mind: a person who is very eager and excited to gain is more likely to overtrain and hurt himself. Doing this will stop or slow down the growing process. When you do PE, TAKE IT SLOW. I can't stress this enough.
When I first started, I was all about seeing BIG gains as fast as possible. I didn't fully read through the routines, I didn't really pay attention to my PIs. I thought that the harder I jelqed, and the more frequently I did, the faster the gains would come.
Because of this attitude, I went 4 months without seeing any gains. It took someone to finally say something like, "Get real. 3" in 3 weeks just ain't gonna happen."
Some people gain fast. Others not so much.
If you want to get huge, it'll probably take you some years to get there. Plural, years.
Now for those kegels I told you about:
Get erect. Perform a kegel and hold it for 5 seconds.
Aim for 50. Once you can do 50 easily, move on to towel raises. This is something that BigAl made me do.
I HIGHLY recommend going with BigAl. He's awesome.
Last edited by Toadstool; 07-10-2012 at 05:11 PM."Know the rules well, so that you may properly break them" - The Dalai Lama
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- 07-10-2012 #5
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- Jul 2012
Thanks a lot for the quick replies guys. My girl is actually a really good person, the best there is. We do have an absolutely honest relationship and she doesn't lie about anything. I'm the one who pushed her away and told her to be with other people when I was gone because I wanted to do the same and I'm the one who asked about the guys size (yeah I know, how masochistic of me). She wouldn't lie about his size either, if anything she would downplay his size to protect my ego (we both love eachother very much).
I'm getting back with her in a week. I know I didn't make it sound like that but we're actually in deep love and we're not only lovers but best friends. I want to get that huge dong for her because she obviously loves it. The guy will be out of the picture soon and I'm not threatened by him because he's way older and jobless, his only redeeming quality being his dick. Which is the only thing that pisses me off. I want to get huge. I'll do anything.
Last edited by Pussified; 07-10-2012 at 05:02 PM.
- 07-10-2012 #6
Why would she even want to see him again if she is going to have you in a week? Just for his huge dick? That seems messed up broseph if she really loves you.
Email Big Al about his mecoach program. His system is worth every penny.If you don't want to date me - that's fine, I get that, but you're wrong and I hate you.
It is that big, deal with it, I've got an Ed Helms.
- 07-10-2012 #7
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- Jul 2012
I'm completely responsible though. I've been sort of an asshole to be honest. But yeah we're very much in love.
Thanks a lot I'm e-mailing Big Al right away.
- 07-10-2012 #8
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- Nov 2011
A large penis is a marathon and you're proposing to sprint out of the gate. That strategy is doomed to failure.
You need to come to grips with the fact that your girl experienced a big penis. Statistically, a large percentage of guys are just not going to be the biggest that their girl has ever experienced. The happy couples are the ones who don't give a sh*t about that. If your girl nagged you and/or developed extreme insecurity if you had a fling with a girl with bigger breasts, would that make you love her more or make you feel like perhaps she's not the one for you? Don't be THAT guy.
PE is great. You say your girl is great and she is comfortable with your PE training. It sounds like a pretty good situation if your insecurity doesn't doom it.11/20/2011: BPEL: 6", MEG: 4.75" (goal BPEL: ~7", MEG: 5.25")
2/18/2012: BPEL: 6.375", MEG: 4.875"
5/9/12: BPEL: 6.5", MEG 5" (goal BPEL: 7.25", MEG: 5.5")
7/3/12: BPEL: 6.5", MEG 5 3/16"
- 07-10-2012 #9
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- Jul 2012
I'll take the time that's necessary, I don't want to rush it... I know this thing takes a lot of patience and dedication.
Your right it's a good situation, my girl is very supportive of me. I just feel like I won't be able to be a man before I get as big as that guy though.
Anyway thanks a lot for your support
- 07-10-2012 #10
I agree she may be lying to you since you initiated it, she was probably hurt and wanted to fuck you up. Girls can be like that
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