Thread: Need help before I quit!
- 10-21-2012 #1
Hey. I've reached a complete road block with PE and honestly idk WTF to do!
I've been at it since the very last week of july. Thats August, September, and half of October. Very close to 3 months. and NOTHING!
I've spent numerous hours on the forums soaking in information. The only Thing I've gotten is some new veins.. but fucking not even a .001 difference in size and its so dam frustrating and pissing me off I was so psyched when I got found this site, Even a 0.1 difference after 3 months would have made me smile.
Warm up in the shower
15 minutes stretching all directions helicopters and kegels in between
20-30 minutes jelqs @50% (+-10%)
couple stretches after
sometimes I edge
probably 3-4 days a week
Also, throughout all this and the rest of the day, I'd say 3-400 kegels
There was only one period where I stopped due to an overstretched lig in the beginning of august for 2 weeks.
I've tried going lighter than normal, and heavier than normal. My Penis gets a nice pump, i notice new veins it gets bigger than normal.... but it fucking goes away after literally 20 minutes of being done, right back to normal and theres nothing I can do about it. wasted so much timeeeeeee doing this and its heartbreaking to see that nothing is changing, Its to the point where like I almost wish I never found this site and never thought this was even possible cause now im just completely disappointed and now I have it in my head that i WILL have a bigger dick. and now I'm seeing that I might not and idk how the fuck to really deal with that, if Iwasnt psyched about my size before, if anything I feel worse about it now. IDK man I really just need help or something I have no idea wtf to doo now.
**I was annoyed with alot of things at the time and this kinda set me over the edge so please excuse the irrate form I wrote this in. haha . **
Last edited by faithandhope; 10-21-2012 at 11:48 PM.
- 10-21-2012 #2
So you just let the shower water warm your dick up? If I were you, I would try changing your warmup- make a rice sock like most people on here use to warm up. Your penis needs to be pretty hot to make the penis tissue into the mushy, moldable state that it needs to be in in order to be stretched and grow.
- 10-21-2012 #3
- Join Date
- May 2011
First get a vacutech pump (2 by 9) cylinder.
From Monday, Wednesday and friday, (20 minutes stretching, followed by 200 strokes of jelqing, 2(10minutes Pumping at 4hg, followed by 50 strokes of jelqing in between).
It seems like you need advance routine to shock your penis. One more thing always warm up before any session. Try this for 3 months then get back wit me.
- 10-21-2012 #4
I don't see whats wrong with a hot shower, I take really hot showers and make sure the water is mostly hitting above my dick where the ligs are. I think 15-20 in a hot shower is a more consistent than a rice sock. and Besides, I've used a rice sock a bunch of times its never been any different my penis is always in the same state as warming up with the shower.
I'd like to get a pump cause I've read alot and they seem nice for gains. Tad awkward ordering that on someone elses credit card though?
- 10-21-2012 #5
You would need to be taking a smoking hot shower for the shower to work. There's a reason the majority of people use a rice sock.
As for ordering online, you could always buy a Visa Gift Card with cash at a Walmart or whatever and order online with your disposable card.
- 10-21-2012 #6
- Join Date
- May 2011
pumping will give you both lenght and girth with a solid manual routine trust me.
- 10-21-2012 #7
Ok bro, don't worry about the apparent lack of measurable gains you are percieving.
penis enlargement for the vast majority is a very slow process and by slow I feel gains of 1/32 of an inch or less per month are normal. There is a long learning curve with penis enlargement exercises. The penis does not grow like a plant but rather is encouraged to relax the structural tissues and fascia allowing for a greater expansion and elongation, similar to the often cited balloon analogy...when you first try to blow up a new balloon it is tough and requires alot of effort but if you repeatedly blow that same balloon up to it's maximum size many times the balloon become easier to expand and will reach greater proportions than it did initially. This in my opinion is where the majority of what are called "newbie gains" come from.
In your case faithandhope it is possible that your penis is already at that state and does not have the room for the initial newbie gains. This is where the dedication and discipline is required to further increase the size of your penis. The addition of tiny unmeasurable increases in size that accumulate over months and years of dedication.
As for your current routine, I would focus more on wet jelqs. Make sure you have warmed up well to loosen up the tissues and increase vasodilation. Make each stroke last 4-5 seconds, count this. Many people jelq at too fast of a pace. Go slow at around 75% erection level and really focus on feeling and seeing the expansion. As one hand is slow moving up the shaft towards the head of your penis your other hand should be in place at the base providing a slight to moderate clamping/constriction to assist in holding extra blood in the cavernous penile bodies. Perform a kegal flex occasionally and watch and feel the extra blood and expansion that occurs. Try and spend 20-30 minutes jelqing.
A penis pump is a great tool to assist in the benifits of the jelq exercises. You may want to invest in one.
With patience and percevierence you can piss through a stone. If you are disciplined and dedicated you will get measurable gains in time but for the vast majority, they don't come overnight or over a few months.
Last edited by phallic1; 10-21-2012 at 10:22 PM.
- 10-21-2012 #8
Sorry if this sounds like I'm an angry child on a rant, I really do understand that its a slow process, I just was hoping that after almost 3 solid months that maybe I'd have went from 6.75 to even 6.8! ANY gains to show me that its real.
- 10-21-2012 #9
Many of us, especially veteran PE'ers myself included, can sympathize with you...cause we have been there too.
Henry Ford once said..."Those who say they can and those who say they can't are both right".
- 10-21-2012 #10
Faithandhope, I see that you are already at 6.75 inches which is very good length. Are you focused on gaining length or overall size increase?
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