Penis Bigger during Sex/ Oral??

[jay1993 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jay1993]

Weirdest thing, whenever I masturbate and take measurements, my penis looks noticeably smaller than when I am having sex. It does not seem like an EQ issue, because my penis gets hard as a rock when masturbating. It just takes a more full and larger look when I am actually in the moment. Can you have poor EQ and still be very hard? If so, maybe my true measurements are bigger than I think!

[jay1993 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jay1993]

A good way to put it is that my "sex penis" looks a lot like my post -workout penis.

[Raider Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Raider]

Your penis better be bigger with a partner than with your hand or else I'd have to do something about it....And EQ stands for erection quality so the higher it is the harder your erection will be.

[jay1993 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jay1993]

Yeah I get that. It just seems like sometimes my erections can be very hard but look and feel smaller. Like maybe the CC is filling with blood but not fully expanding. I'm not sure.

[donjelqer76 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close donjelqer76]

It's probably due to the different perspective between the different acts.

[rbi99 Retired Moderator Member of the Month Nov 2017PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close rbi99]

Two perspectives - your partner is holding it when you are having sex, so your perspective is mostly visual; you are holding it when you beat off, that is visual and tactile.

[Mark 1 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Mark 1]

i think i feel the same way... i have largish hands, and she has girlish hands. So I agree with rbi, its just perspective.

[Nola-rise Member Find all posts View Profile Close Nola-rise]

The resistance of the hand (even lubed) causes a retraction... it is kind of designed to do that for easier initial penetration. So when your whakin it still applying any pressure, the cock is staying in initial penetration mode. You see it bigger when fucking after shes nice an wet, and ya feel little to no friction, your cock is now in flare mode. Where the head is designed to flare so the rim is to act as both a sperm remover (for removing other potential mates) and sperm blocker, to keep your own in.

[Padawan787 Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Padawan787]

Weirdest thing, whenever I masturbate and take measurements, my penis looks noticeably smaller than when I am having sex. It does not seem like an EQ issue, because my penis gets hard as a rock when masturbating. It just takes a more full and larger look when I am actually in the moment. Can you have poor EQ and still be very hard? If so, maybe my true measurements are bigger than I think!

Yep, during sex, or a blowjob especially, I look girthier, especially the head. When I masturbate I'm usually not all that into it, I'm a bit meh, so I personally find a noticeable difference between a masturbation/measuring erection, and a "sexual" erection.

I usually have soft glans when I masturbate, but not at all when I have sex.

It's probably due to arousal.

[jay1993 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jay1993]

Regardless, I will never take a measuring tape into the bedroom. I'll just keep using my masturbation stats.

[seahawksam Member Find all posts View Profile Close seahawksam]

A good way to put it is that my "sex penis" looks a lot like my post -workout penis.

Sex penis? Holy sh*t man...you just named my next band.

And yeah totally possible. Arousal. That was me last night. I'm fairly certain I hit 8". The Mrs. sure thinks so.

[jay1993 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jay1993]

Cervical Punch would be a good one too.

[Robberman Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Robberman]

This thread reminded me of the sly hand measuring I did with my ex. I passed it off as curiosity when in fact I was trying to gauge how her hand might look around my penis in comparison to mine.

Back on topic... I thought this was a normal occurrence, I always put it down to higher states of arousal. I can only get to this "sex penis" state if I balloon for ages, where as with a woman it's sometimes the moment I'm with her!

[GoingForGold Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close GoingForGold]

Thx to Nola-rise for explaining the functionality of the penis rim. That's pretty cool!

[Nola-rise Member Find all posts View Profile Close Nola-rise]

Thx to Nola-rise for explaining the functionality of the penis rim. That's pretty cool!

Secrets of the Phallus: Why Is the Penis Shaped Like That?: Scientific American

Awesome article about what I said. Article could also explain our deep embedded obsession to be the largest male... simply to make sure that tool works effectively. (is like 3 page article so be sure look for the 1-3 tabs at bottom of writings.)