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    So I was feeling rather 'big' the other day after exercising and decided to get a full willie for measuring. I had just learned that BPEL was the standard used for studies claiming 5-6" was average. I had always measured NBPEL at 6". So i measured at full potential BPEL and was 7! I was ecstatic! All this time I thought i was below average and I'm above!

    Today I held up a different ruler fully clothed and just pretended i was measuring. 7 seemed so big and my 'visual' memory was telling me the 5.5 - 6 was my real length.

    Anyone else ever feel this way? Maybe I mis-measured when I saw 7? Looking at this ruler ... 7 looks HUGE! I can't believe that I measured that much last week. Doesn't even seem possible.

    For those who didn't see before this all stemmed from my fiance saying mine was small and my head was small and she wasn't sure I'd be enough for her a couple years ago. I told her girls have said I'm big and she said girls lie about those kind of things. She doesn't have sex and has only seen 3 ... apparently they were all larger enough for her to be concerned about mine. It all started when we watched a porn and she compared me to the guys. I said they're porn stars! She said they're just normal guys! I've felt inadequate ever since and fear when we marry and make love she'll be fantasizing about an ex or anything/one longer with a bigger head.

  • #2
    Yes, I measure 8.1". When I see the ruler I'm like wow this is long, but it doesnt seem that long from my viewpoint.
    My wife has commented a lot lately so I think I am on the right track, but yeah I feel the same way about the ruler thing,
    and about the wife wanting a bigger one. I am slowly getting over that last one though, thanks to the PE exercises.
    01/14/12 BPEL:7.4" EG:5.0"
    03/04/13
    BPEL:8.2" EG:5.5"BPFL:6.8 BPFSL:8.8"pics

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    • #3
      So let me make sure I have this correct, she is a virgin and has only seen three. She is concerned that yours might not work for her at 7 inches. Oh, how I wish you would take a picture of the look on her face when you put 7 inches in a virgin. It will remove all doubts she could possibly have and she will wish you were smaller.

      Relax as you have nothing to worry about.
      Going an inch and 1/2 deeper than before

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      • #4
        She's a reborn virgin. Had sex a few times (less than 5) when she was 17 and then the guy cheated on her. It was her first love. She's never had intercourse since and has only seen 2 others. She's 29 so it's been 12 years and I can barely put a finger in her comfortably.

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        • #5
          I'm not worried about our first time having sex though. I'm worried about later when she enjoys it and wants more ... I see the guys on here growing and their saying how their gf's/wives are enjoying sex more so obviously it matters. And everyone she's seen before me felt "bigger in her hand" as she says.

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          • #6
            Dude, f*** that. She's being a bitch.
            Start July 2012: 6.3 BPEL, 5.125 MSEG
            Current : 7.375 BPEL, 5.3-5.4 MSEG, 7.125 NBPEL
            Short Term Goal:7.5 BPEL, 5.5 MSEG
            Goal: ​8.5 BPEL, 6 MSEG, 8.25 NBPEL

            I am on a fucking Girth Mission right now. No sleep till 5.75 MSEG!

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            • #7
              I would have second thoughts about getting too serious with this girl if she is already concerned with your above average size. Remember, however, she is only seeing your NBPEL. If and when you get an opportunity to slide your actual erection into her vagina, she will feel more than your NBPEL as you press your fat pad against her. Not as much as your full above average 7" BPEL, but more than your 6" NBPEL. You probably have a lot of give in your 1" fat pad. You really need to talk her into a trial run prior to increasing your commitment to her.
              Valued Member of 12+ years at the PEGym
              12/'09 (start) NBP EL - 4.5, EG - 4.4
              12/11 NBPEL - 5.1, MSEG - 5
              01/13 NBPEL - 5.35, MSEG - 5.1
              01/14 NBPEL - 5.35, MSEG - 5.25
              01/16 NBPEL - 5.4, MSEG - 5.5
              Fat Pad = 1+/-

              Real cars have two seats. Everything else is a bus.

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              • #8
                @not2big,

                To her the 'big' ones were normal. She didn't think i was above average but below. This is almost 2 years ago now that she said that. She always tells me today she loves me, loves my body, doesn't look for that in a man, loves my penis, yadda yadda yadda. And there's no trial run ... she's a wait until marriage girl and has been strong to it for almost 13 years now.

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                • #9
                  First of all, I'd like to state that your length, is my GOAL length as of right now. So kudos to you. In my experience with girls, honestly not alot of dudes have big dicks man. I've had sex with maybe 15 females, (I'm 20, didn't lose my virginity til I was 16.5 cause I was so insecure, thought I was small! lmao) and out of those 15, I've had comments from probably.. 7 of them? about half? Lets keep in mind that only 2 of them were relationships, as those girls werent whores. I was the biggest both of them had. Besides the extreme whores (20+ men) any of them who was under 10 guys made comments to me. Also, a few of them told me I was their very best, or 9/10 and those girls had been with bigger guys (1+ inch)

                  I think it is very unfair to YOU, first of all, for your fiance to be saying anything whatsoever, nevermind negative shitty feedback. When you get defensive she should automatically know to back off cause its touchy ground. Personally I think you need to set her in her place, because it isn't right. Tell her EXACTLY how the fuck it is and don't even give her a chance to stutter a word. Bitches need to be put in their place sometimes. Whats your Girth? Even at 5.0" girth I've been told by a couple girls that I'm thick. I know I'm barely above average, but that just shows the percentage of dudes who fall in the average range (75%+)

                  Idk. Anyways, I don't think any of this should even matter, never mind her even DARING to say you might not be enough for her. I swear man if a girl ever said that to me I'd bug the fuck out on her. Not because It makes me feel inadequate, but teh simple principle of her downgrading you, your body and your feelings like that? And thats the women your in love with and will (hopefully) marry? Not cool at all.
                  I have no problem being with just one woman, but I can't not eat all the donuts.

                  Current: 7.2" x 5.25"
                  Next stop: 7.5" x 5.4"

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                  • #10
                    Man, dont get me wrong but that reborn virgin stuff is bullshit. I have known a guy or two with "reborn virgins" and they were only virgins with that the guys they were with. At 29 she is either wierd or doing something wrong. I dont know her so please dont think I am saying she is bad but that is some bologny if you ask me. Reborn virgin, hmmm.

                    Plus couple that in with they were all bigger than you at 7 inches, something is just wrong here bro. I sense drama and deception on her part. Normal people have sex with thier boyfriends at 29. Stop taking her out and buying her shit and see what happens.
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                    • #11
                      I read her diary out of insecurity and haven't seen anything to say otherwise. She was a Mormon for 12 years and recently left ... so no drinking, intercourse, etc. Only saw 1 guy's penis and messed around with another. Her vagina is so tight I can only put a finger in and I have to go slow and she has to be very aroused. Rarely lets me do that. Unless she's a kegel master and she's been fooling me for 3 years ...

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by Lance85 View Post
                        I read her diary out of insecurity and haven't seen anything to say otherwise. She was a Mormon for 12 years and recently left ... so no drinking, intercourse, etc. Only saw 1 guy's penis and messed around with another. Her vagina is so tight I can only put a finger in and I have to go slow and she has to be very aroused. Rarely lets me do that. Unless she's a kegel master and she's been fooling me for 3 years ...
                        Well then it sounds like she is the exception to the rule and if she is I am happy I am wrong. Stop reading her diary! Still glad I am wrong.
                        Going an inch and 1/2 deeper than before

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by BigO View Post
                          Well then it sounds like she is the exception to the rule and if she is I am happy I am wrong. Stop reading her diary! Still glad I am wrong.
                          Thansk BigO. I was starting to feel bad since everyone was downing her. She's the sweetest and most loving person I've ever met. But those comments 2 years ago killed my confidence. I have slept with several women during our 'breakups' and she hasn't even kissed another guy since I met her. I also used to be in porn so really I'm the one with the real baggage here ... she's quite innocent.

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                          • #14
                            Really for her age and reading her diary ... I felt like i was reading a teenagers diary. I like to think she's just completely ignorant. She's only seen 3 before me and her dad's porns when she was a kid so that's what she knows. What she's seen and the porns as a kid.

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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by Lance85 View Post
                              Thansk BigO. I was starting to feel bad since everyone was downing her. She's the sweetest and most loving person I've ever met. But those comments 2 years ago killed my confidence. I have slept with several women during our 'breakups' and she hasn't even kissed another guy since I met her. I also used to be in porn so really I'm the one with the real baggage here ... she's quite innocent.
                              You know that most women cant tell size by sight and it sounds like the first time she seen some meat whistles was when she was younger and believe me, a girl who sees a boner when she is 17 and has seen almost none at the time and then sees a weener 12 years later, well her memory of the dick was probably exagerated back then. A 17 year old seeing a dick for the first time is going to think it is freakishly bigger then it is and a 29 year old lady who sees a weener will think now that it is normal because even if she hasnt had sex just by virtue of being an adult with 12 more years of viewing experience will have leveled off the wow its huge factor.

                              Damn, I hope all that crap I just spewed mad some kind of sense.
                              Going an inch and 1/2 deeper than before

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