Welcome to the hardgainers =\. I've been PEing for 5 months now and no gains... Even though, Im still gonna do my PE routine and won't stop until I see my gains, even if it takes years. I think that's the key to everything in life, not giving up. If your actual routine is not working out for you, try a different one (I'm actually in my 2nd routine), if nothing manual works for you, try hanging or clamping.. Your girl is still gonna be there and if she really cares about you and like you. It will be nice when you finally (and never doubt about it, it is going to happen!) see some gains, but they are not coming from day to night.