How confident are you with your size?

**James.** · 01-10-2013

Originally Posted by jay1993

Not to mention, stretching trashes EQ, while jelqing helps it!

Why do they tell us we need to stretch then if it destroys our EQ

**jay1993** · 01-10-2013

Originally Posted by James.

Why do they tell us we need to stretch then if it destroys our EQ

Because it is responsible for the majority of length gains. The resulting EQ is only down temporarily, it is not a permenant trashing of your EQ. But if you stretch hard on Monday, your dick might not be at 100% when you have sex on Tuesday.

**SeemsLegit** · 01-12-2013

Originally Posted by rbi99

Four words why I do - I hate doing them. I enjoy, love actually, doing jelqing exercises, but standing still and holding my bad boy out in a stretch bores the crap out of me. I am not going to walk around the house with weights hanging off the end of it, or in a contraption that looks like it came out of the Dark Ages, so I will leave well enough alone!!! I equate stretching to running. I love lifting, and I have done it for years. I hate running, and though I have tried many times to get into it, I still hate it.

Fair enough. I agree with the weights/running I have the same issue. Jelqing is more fun/entertaining for me, but I usually try using my other hand gently pressing up and down the shaft as I hold it out just to keep it less boring and convince myself that extra motion is somehow helping me by relaxing the ligs more or something I can't prove.

**wind chill** · 01-13-2013

Originally Posted by rbi99

Four words why I do - I hate doing them. I enjoy, love actually, doing jelqing exercises, but standing still and holding my bad boy out in a stretch bores the crap out of me.

you can do streches sitting as well.I am quite the opposite, i hate jelqs, my flaccid is like micro penis.

**penisesunite** · 01-13-2013

Around 6.5" BPEL, around 5.5" NBPEL, around 5" girth. That's apparently slightly above average but my height (6'4) doesn't really help. At least I'm thin so it's not all bad and luckily I'm into cardio so there's no risk of making it look smaller. Hopefully I'll see gains when I get into PE.

Unlike a lot of guys apparently, I only want a big dick, not a huge dick. 7" NBPEL with 5.5-5.75" EG is the biggest I want to go. I value diversity in positions, I value anal, deepthroating, long blowjobs, and I don't want to hurt the girl. honestly, flat out, do not want larger than 7" NBPEL and I never want to see 6" EG on that measuring tape.

Regardless of what size your penis is though, the worst thing you can do is feel sad or angry about it. Is that going to change its size? No. So why are you sad? You don't have to be happy about it but the least you could do is accept it. There are people with 2-3" BPEL's out there or less than 4" girths. Think about how they feel and shut up.

**penisesunite** · 01-13-2013

Originally Posted by rollingthunder

I'm 6'1" and 200lb when I'm not overweight. I'm just naturally broad and muscular.

Yes this makes me look much smaller than I am. This shouldn't affect your confidence however. Get it inside her, and she will realize her error.

There you go, man.

**Lance85** · 01-13-2013

With my wife? 0 confidence in my penis size. She bashed it for years and fantasized about an ex.

With other girls? 100% confidence. Especially when they tell me I'm big. I didn't realize until I joined this site that I am 'big'. I know that's subjective but at 7 x 5.75 I've realized I'm not normal and I'm definitely not small. I'm at least in the top 10% from what I've learned here. But my wife told me all the girls who said that about me lied. Now I know that's not true.

**penisesunite** · 01-13-2013

Originally Posted by Lance85

With my wife? 0 confidence in my penis size. She bashed it for years and fantasized about an ex.

With other girls? 100% confidence. Especially when they tell me I'm big. I didn't realize until I joined this site that I am 'big'. I know that's subjective but at 7 x 5.75 I've realized I'm not normal and I'm definitely not small. I'm at least in the top 10% from what I've learned here. But my wife told me all the girls who said that about me lied. Now I know that's not true.

I hope you aren't with your wife anymore.

**Tsumon** · 01-13-2013

my length is great but my girth is where i fail. I haven't measured it as im still looking for my measuring tape, but its very lean. about 2 in inches i suppose. Im praying(not literally) by next year or 2015 i an be atleast 2.5/3 because i know it takes time.

Im confident on my length and received praise for it, but my girth is where im not confident. When i was younger, most females only looked at the length. As i got older and started messing with more eperienced women, girth became a bigger issue than i ever thought it be.

**Lance85** · 01-13-2013

Originally Posted by penisesunite

I hope you aren't with your wife anymore.

She said all this before we got married. Now she never says anything b/c she realized how much it hurt me and tells me everything's fine. I don't buy it. Now I'm doing PE to have a bigger penis with a bigger head ... two frequent comments she would make. She don't like me doing PE but what other option do I have?