- 03-07-2013 #1
We see our penises everyday and it gets hard not only to notice any visual changes that may occur but also sometimes it is even difficult to detect actually physical changes - in feel.
There are guys here that are in the 7.5 x 5.5, 8 x 6 + category and i wonder: forget what the ruler tells you, do you see your dick as being big when you look down on it, when you look at it facing the mirror and when you look yourself in the mirror sideways? Meaning, if the rules did not give out your measurements, would you think you are big?
I'll be getting in that range very very soon (i hope) and i do see improvements both when i look down on it and when i look straight into the mirror, although its hard to say how much. looking at it sideways i can't really see any changes (btw, i've gained 1.1 inches in length in 7 months).
But still, when i look down at it, it doesn't really seem "big". I'm overweight, so that also seems to detract from a "big" look.
I wonder if one can ever have a visual idea of what your penis really looks like size wise from a third's person perspective.
How do you see yourself?
- 03-07-2013 #2
I don't see myself as big at all. I am about 7.4x5.25.. I have a big mirror in my room, and looking at myself from the side I actually look short, really. Doesn't look thick either.. In retrospect, I've seen 7x5 objects and laughed at the thought of the entire thing going inside of someone. Perspective is reality! I've been trying to learn to take pride in my size, I'd consider myself on the small side of large, or the high side of mediumI have no problem being with just one woman, but I can't not eat all the donuts.
Current: 7.2" x 5.25"
Next stop: 7.5" x 5.4"
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But do you guys think that someone who sees your dick from a third person perspective would find it big? That's what seems funny to me: why it's look short to me and maybe big to someone that its looking at it other than myself.
- 03-07-2013 #5
I dont see myself as that big to be honest, I would need a good 6" girth to feel that way. Even when I look down I dont think it looks long at all even though I am around 8" BPEL. When you look at it every day you get used to it i guessStarting Point: September 2010: 6.5" x 5"
Goal: 8" x 6"
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- 03-07-2013 #6
Stop staring at your dick. Stare at your gf/wife's perfect body. That's were your eyes should be. Then let nature take it's coarse.
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- 03-07-2013 #10
Self-perception is important. There are at least two optical illusions that affect how we view our own penises. One is foreshortening, which is just our natural eye angle makes it look less, and looking in a mirror would correct that. The other is the length to girth ratio. When I stand sideways with an erection and look in the mirror, it does not look as long as photos of shorter ones. My wide girth makes it look much shorter. Then there is, like you said, when you see an object the same size as it is, and the object looks much larger than it does, until you put them side by side. Many times in my teens I would think I had found a bottle or tube that it would fit into, only to find amazingly that it was too big to fit.
I always took my size for granted until last year when I got into webcamming, and was amazed at how many people were wowed, even by my flaccid size. Slowly I began to realize that compared to most of the ones I was seeing online (not porn), mine indeed was much larger than average. I have since quit webcamming because it was addictive and ruining my life. Two good thing came out of it, and one is a clear realization that mine is very wide and quite long. We do indeed get used to what we have, and that can be good or bad, depending on the attitude we take. The other webcammers had to comment about my cocky attitude, which gets into my philosophy about what it means to be a man and to enjoy being one. Realizing how important attitude is was the other realization. Most people will notice your attitude first, and if there is occasion for your penis size to figure into the evaluation, then that can make you look even better.Ezek. 23:20 "with genitals as large as a donkey's and emissions like those of a horse."
"Speak softly and carry a big dick."
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