Thinking that you are small but stats say otherwise?

[pornobig Member Find all posts View Profile Close pornobig]

Okay guys i had idea for this thread for a long time.

Question is next - why do we feel that we have small penises when they are with their stats above average?

I.E i have

8 BPEL 7.8 NBPEL and 5.5 EG - NBPFL - of 5.8

And i still feel that i am small compared to others? Why is this happening, what is hidden thing in our unconcius part which makes this decisions?
I know my size is ready to be in porn industry ( Monster size) and still when i look at it i am not that much impressed with my penis.
Last girl i couldnt push it all the way like 3/4 she would moan and scream "IT hurts please stop" so i would have to stop but again i dont feel that "power" ( you know what i mean).

So what are your ideas?

[Whiteboy16 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Whiteboy16]

A lot of guys are like this bro. I myself am not that big, but I am bigger (at least longer) than average. Girls have called me 'big' but I just don't feel the same way when I look at my dick. For me I think it's too much porn tbh.

For a guy your size I can't really tell you why you feel small but just know that (as far as I can tell) most guys feel the same!

It's like when you see skinny girls who are convinced they're fat. It take a lot to overcome negative body image. Try to be positive, perhaps try to incorporate some affirmations (speaking to yourself in the mirror) into your daily routine. Who knows, it might help.

[eiffel Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close eiffel]

Body dysmorphia.

If you started with a small dick and a small ego, only one is going to grow with PE. The other part is purely a matter of self-perception.

[Grow_Brah Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Grow_Brah]

if you feel small you have some issues. i would not feel small if i had your stats and most likely woudnt even care to do p.e

[4Samson Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 4Samson]

This is probably going to sound more offensive than intended but... perhaps a lack of intelligence? Remove penis size from the equation and lets just look at numbers. If I tell someone 10 is a higher number than 5 and that person doubts it, I will consider that person dumb. If I put 4 apples on one table and 2 apples on another table and ask someone to pick the table with the most apples on it, if they can not decide what table to choose I would consider that person dumb. If I put a 10lb turkey beside and 20lb turkey and ask someone to choose the turkey that will feed the most people, if the person can not decide on the 20lb turkey I would consider that person dumb. If the average size basketball player is standing beside the average size asian women and the same person does not believe the basketball player to be taller... well you get the idea. We are lucky in todays age of the internet as we have countless average size polls/studies to use as the comparision to ourselves when it comes to penis size. It really is as simple as 10 is a larger number than 5...

[pornobig Member Find all posts View Profile Close pornobig]

I completly agree with your re-marks... Its all said nicely but if life what MATHEMATICS then it would be boring, right?!

So my question was why do we feel like this even though our stats say otherwise.

I got best answer from @eiffel body dysmoprhia as he said.

I am not someone who lacks of confidence, as matter of fact i have it enough - as i said in on of posts i am sick of guys who come and ask "IS MY PENIS BIG ENOUGH" or "DO YOU THINK THAT MY WIFE LOVES ME BECAUSE OF MY PENIS SIZE" etc... or "Would she be with me?"

I hate that kind of questions which say people who have , i wouldnt say little confidence but NOW CONFIDENCE At all - i would compare them with plants but they are to beautyful on some other way.

Anyways back to the point, Just wanted to ask why does this happen ? Confidence is first thing that fell on my mind but then i think its something else.

I started pe with 6.5 NBPEL and 4.8 EG

[UpcomingStallion Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close UpcomingStallion]

I'm going to be a bit blunt but maybe it will help get it through your head.

You're 8x5.5 for fuck sake! You know how many guys would kill to have those stats? How the hell can you think you're small? Well..it's quite simple you're insecure. Probably about more things than just your penis size. What exactly are you insecure about though? That you wont be able to please a woman? That you don't look good in the locker room? That other people on this planet have a bigger penis than you? You realize you're the size of a lot of pornstars...

[EraStyle Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close EraStyle]

Threads like these makes me angry, but I have no other choice than to tell you that you have to change your thinking - you say the last girl you fucked said it was painful, yet you still think of yourself as small? The only good reason I can think of as to why you think your penis looks small is if you are a gigantic guy.

[Thirdeye Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Thirdeye]

Threads like these makes me angry, but I have no other choice than to tell you that you have to change your thinking - you say the last girl you fucked said it was painful, yet you still think of yourself as small? The only good reason I can think of as to why you think your penis looks small is if you are a gigantic guy.

I agree. I feel these threads are only created for an ego boost. I myself am not that big at ALL, and I know that, that's why I'm here. The fact that you say you have almost a 6" flaccid hang should tell you right then and there that your dick is huge man. My flaccid hang is barely under 4", on a good day. Consider yourself blessed.

[4Samson Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 4Samson]

So my question was why do we feel like this even though our stats say otherwise.

Highly intelligent people base their personal views and opinions on facts, stats, evidence and experience. To form opinions or views out of your ass and based on nothing is once again a sign of lower intelligence to me.

[Whiteboy16 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Whiteboy16]

Also, just noticed this (stupid that I just checked now but)... your handle is "pornobig"... clearly you don't think you're small

[4Samson Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 4Samson]

Highly intelligent people base their personal views and opinions on facts, stats, evidence and experience. To form opinions or views out of your ass and based on nothing is once again a sign of lower intelligence to me.

Well I just googled the definition of intelligence and apparently that is exactly what it means:

"capacity for learning, reasoning, understanding, and similar forms of mental activity; aptitude in grasping truths, relationships, facts, meanings, etc."

"Intelligence has been defined in many different ways including, but not limited to, abstract thought, understanding, self-awareness, communication, reasoning, learning, having emotional knowledge, retaining, planning, and problem solving."

"The capacity to acquire and apply knowledge,The faculty of thought and reason"

Every definition of intelligence I came across is similar.

We know approximately what the average penis size is. According to the bold text above, intelligence should take care of the rest if present.

[CLOSEDDennyA Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close CLOSEDDennyA]

Threads like these makes me angry, but I have no other choice than to tell you that you have to change your thinking - you say the last girl you fucked said it was painful, yet you still think of yourself as small? The only good reason I can think of as to why you think your penis looks small is if you are a gigantic guy.

I understand where the OP is coming from...one of the reasons I am still making my dick bigger...it's a sickness of perception but at times I feel small even though I have seen the evidence to the contrary about a million times by now. And I am not trying to make anyone mad at me...just being honest.

[Thirdeye Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Thirdeye]

I understand where the OP is coming from...one of the reasons I am still making my dick bigger...it's a sickness of perception but at times I feel small even though I have seen the evidence to the contrary about a million times by now. And I am not trying to make anyone mad at me...just being honest.

I just don't understand that at all... How can you think you're small when you KNOW you're much bigger than the average Joe? I think I'm small because I fall RIGHT into the category of average, if not less. Once I exceed the average, then I know I'm big.

These kinds of statements and threads just never make sense to me. How can the perception of your dick be small when your flaccid length is almost as long as my NBPEL?

[GoingForGold Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close GoingForGold]

Let your knowledge dictate your reason, not your ego.

I would guess you have an inferiority complex.