Ok so I've read with hard flaccid that you have to relax the pc muscle and that involuntary kegels are bad. BUT while achieving erection I kegel involuntary and always have, to push it to a full strong erection. Which works quite well.

I can control these kegels and stop them but in the process it completely ruins my erection. Should I be able to achieve full erection without the involuntary kegels? Is it bad i am kegeling to reach erection.

For eg. I get to about 70% then a kegel or two pushes it to 90-100%