questions around kegels

[Learntolift Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Learntolift]

so first let me explain my issue...

so i get morning wood just fine and all, can get hard laying down, but if i am hard and stand up, it like starts to die immediately.

and if i try to masturbate standing, like at the sink, or in the shower, it's basically just masturbating a 50% hard erection, it is very hard to get more than that it seems. even when having sex with my gf standing up, i can get it pretty hard and start but i swear it dies down to the like 50% erection and i will like slip out or something a lot....and then it isnt even hard enough to really get back in

however, when i am getting close to ejaculating, i notice it does start to get hard


is this something that kegels will help? and if so, what kind of routine would be recommended and then how long do i need to do them, or is it something i just have to do forever? (feel like most guys never kegel really in the general public and have no problem keeping a strong pc muscle)

also, what is unconscious kegeling and what are the effects? just curious to see if maybe i suffer from this

and finally, what do reverse kegels do?

could use a bit of guidance on this matter, thanks!

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

I would like you to seek a medial opinion.

[Learntolift Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Learntolift]

pardon?

[MrHammer Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close MrHammer]

I think he meant medical. In other words; A doctor!

And I totally agree with Pegasus. This seems a bit too odd.

[Learntolift Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Learntolift]

would i see a urologist about this or what?

[Dangler Senior Administrator☼ Wizard ☼ White Tiger Award 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Dangler]

Generally you would work with your General Practitioner, and ask for a referral.

[Learntolift Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Learntolift]

gotcha. do you guys think maybe its just from years of lots of masturbating sitting down, so now my brain is conditioned to only getting arousal sitting down really? and i need to like just train myself back into standing up and being hard on my own so i can do so with my gf?


random piece of additional info...when we shower together for example and im up against her and my penis will slide against her, stimulating my glans, ill start to get decently hard, and even work up to i'd say an 8 or 9 while i keep stimulating the glans against her body, although it doesnt last long if/when i stop.


so maybe it's just a conditioning thing?

[MrHammer Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close MrHammer]

It might be a mental thing.. but just to be sure.. maybe you should seek a medical opinion.

[Learntolift Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Learntolift]

yeah, i just feel SO awkward talking about that face to face with a doctor who knows me and my family for years. i guess ill just suck it up and make an appointment


is it worth mentioning to her than when i'm about to finish, it starts to get fully erect again, or can i leave that part out lol

[enthusiastic Member Find all posts View Profile Close enthusiastic]

Well , that's normal. When you are about to finish , the penis becomes 100% erect