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    when I was 13 years old I started watching porn, in the beginning I watched the occasional a video but a few months and I started to get a little addictive i almost watched porn everyday and mastrubate 3 times a day). now I'm 18 and am now stopped for a month watching and mastrubating.


    but now I have a problem because I dont get horny.

    when I see a beautiful woman its doing me nothing.
    sometimes i have the feeling that im going to be gay but only I don't find men attractive.
    its very frustrating and confusing.

    is this normal?.

    srry for bad english
    gebruikersnaam
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    Last edited by gebruikersnaam; 06-23-2013, 07:29 PM.

  • #2
    This is normal initially yes, give it some time. Your brain needs to rewire.

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    • #3
      Give it some time chief, it'll pan out. I have seen pretty much all types of porn (I mean ALL types) on the net and collected it for so long that nothing really shocks me anymore. It's pretty hard for me to stay interested nowadays so I just focus on money, but every once in awhile something beautiful comes along and I get that urge. Lately that's diminished also though because I've come to find that the sexier the women are, the more boring or lazy they are in bed generally. But that makes it so if I go ahead anyway I can last pretty much as long as I want to.
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      • #4
        Just decided to give no-porn a try. I did this because I recognized a few "symptoms" in myself, although they were mild compared to what some guys report. Anyway, for about a week after I quit I could not get hard for PE (I was using it A LOT for PE), and it was a little tough with my current girl, as well. Now, in fairness I have to say that this girl goes from hot to cold to super-hot to downright frigid from one week to the next, and gets angry at me if I don't swing through that in tandem with her. So I'm in trouble if I want sex when she doesn't and I'm in trouble if I don't want it when she does, which is pretty much the biggest turn-off I have experience. And I had a girl who used to talk about her grandmother's bladder control during sex, so that tells you how bad it is.

        Anyway, my point is that it could be the porn withdrawal or it could be her antics making me go a little rubbery when I am with her. But the PE one is definitely porn induced and it took about a week to start getting better. I don't know if that is a normal time period, but that is my experience.
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        • #5
          It is different for everyone.

          I am trying to quit (3 days no fap no porn right now) and I am still getting morning wood and erections when jelging. Like you OP I rarely get hard when seeing an attractive women, but I personally have never gotten hard from just seeing one unless there was physical touching or an emotional connection with her...so I don't really know for sure if I have a porn problem or not.
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          5.75" mseg 5.75" mseg 6" mseg
          7.4" bpel 7.7" bpel 8" bpel

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          • #6
            I know this is a little off topic, but These stories are AMAZING! They sound so far fetched, yet this is EXACTLY how some women are. YES!! Sometimes the lovely ladies feel they don't have to work at it,,,,that the guy will do all the work,,,,,and quite frankly it gets ho hum because you can see that "she" is going through the motions. Well maybe she does it too because she loves you and wants YOU to enjoy, but it's on the rare side. I work DAMN hard at my relationship. If something isn't just right, at least I know that there is a good chance it's not anything I've done. Not saying I'm perfect,,,,just that I watch my P's and Q's very carefully. Something can always go wrong though.

            Thanks guys for the insights!
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            • #7
              Originally posted by Dick Whammy View Post
              I know this is a little off topic, but These stories are AMAZING! They sound so far fetched, yet this is EXACTLY how some women are. YES!! Sometimes the lovely ladies feel they don't have to work at it,,,,that the guy will do all the work,,,,,and quite frankly it gets ho hum because you can see that "she" is going through the motions. Well maybe she does it too because she loves you and wants YOU to enjoy, but it's on the rare side. I work DAMN hard at my relationship. If something isn't just right, at least I know that there is a good chance it's not anything I've done. Not saying I'm perfect,,,,just that I watch my P's and Q's very carefully. Something can always go wrong though.

              Thanks guys for the insights!
              Try having the first time you have sex, the girl you're doing it with is riding you and all of a sudden just says "have you ever seen the movie Teeth?". I threw her off so hard and ran out of there so fast I thought I was going to die.


              Back on topic..

              I have issues with that myself OP. I haven't been able to have a rock hard erection for about ehhh, couple years. I basically lost an inch due to over-masturbation and watching porn. I was trying to stay off of it but when I was clamping yesterday I ended up watching it and failed my goal, now back to square one. I'm trying to go at least a week now, if I can do that then a month without fapping or watching porn. It's difficult as hell because I get turned on just by smelling a sweet scent a girl left by walking by (as long as it isn't overpowering of course). Our dicks can be such a pain.

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              • #8
                I'm pretty addicted to porn. I keep apps on my phone to pe to but I usually don't masterbate at all, just once in awhile. I like feeling like a loaded gun and always horny I guess. I'm 38 but my dick has always acted like I'm 13. Sexy women still catch me out there making me walk slightly bent over so's they don't notice lol.
                Start (3/2012)
                BPEL: 6.2
                EG: 5.0

                Current (6/2018)
                BPEL: 7.8
                EG: 5.75


                Goal:
                BPEL: 8
                EG: 6

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                • #9
                  Watching porn can be due to an addiction, however boredom can also be a factor.
                  Always have something to do, and you will realize porn isn't as hard to quit as you thought.
                  When i get tempted i play ps3.

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                  • #10
                    Sorry if I hijack your thread a little, but it covers the topic. I've been porn addicted for many years. I quit tight after me and my girlfriend started dating and now we're in a stable relationship. What effects does the porn reboot usually have? I've been off for porn for about 9 months, and it goes really well. My question is: What differences should I notice? What would be the difference if I do the reboot and not touch my dick at all for 3 months?

                    The problem is that when I quit porn, I started almost immediately with PE. Was this a bad idea or will it work fine? I still can't keep my hands off my penis for a day, but who can?

                    Thanks!
                    “I keep six honest serving men (they taught me all i knew); Theirs names are What and Why and When And How And Where and Who.” - Rudyard Kipling

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                    • #11
                      for me stop watching porn is positive.

                      when i'm watching it i get horny with difficult using my fantasy or watching gurls(in real life). when I stop to watch porn I'm always horny even with gurls not so hot LOL. I mean, there is a reason why in countries with difficult access to porn, there are more rapes.Porn is like a sedative for the libido.

                      just my 2 cents.
                      started with
                      6.30 BPEL
                      ?? EMG

                      current (JULY 2013)
                      7 BPEL
                      5.5 EMG

                      Goal
                      7.5
                      6 EMG


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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by Daicazzo View Post
                        for me stop watching porn is positive.

                        when i'm watching it i get horny with difficult using my fantasy or watching gurls(in real life). when I stop to watch porn I'm always horny even with gurls not so hot LOL. I mean, there is a reason why in countries with difficult access to porn, there are more rapes.Porn is like a sedative for the libido.

                        just my 2 cents.
                        Sorry, I simply could not lead that one alone...have a read of this, Which country has the highest reported incidents of rape? [DATA] | GlobalPost - simply their is no correlation between number of rape cases and porn availability. Also, it sort of sounds like you are saying that rape is almost inevitable if a man gets horny enough.
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                        BPEL - 7.25 inches
                        NBEL - 6.9 inches
                        EG - 5.0 inches

                        07/01/13
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                        • #13
                          No, I absolutely don't mean it, read it again.





                          It was just an example for sayng that porn is a libido killer.And if I'll found it, I'll post the article. But It's in Italian , so good luck



                          Off course there are a lot of reason why in some coutries there are more rapes (more isolated place, different opinion about the woman role in the society , (sadly a lot off coutries don't respect women), bad education, bad emergency services..bla bla bla)

                          but that's not the point.
                          started with
                          6.30 BPEL
                          ?? EMG

                          current (JULY 2013)
                          7 BPEL
                          5.5 EMG

                          Goal
                          7.5
                          6 EMG


                          Final Goal
                          8x6

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                          • #14
                            Here is a video on youtube that explains the consequence of porn addiction on the human brain : The Great Porn Experiment: Gary Wilson at TEDxGlasgow

                            The problem of porn is that you think of different women, exactly like an addict sex guy that is seeing different women/escort/prostitute every week. It affects the dopamine levels which lead to loneliness, depression, suicidal behavior, etc...

                            It takes usually 4 months to be normal again. Don't forget to go out, under the sun to increase the dopamine.

                            Personally after 17 years of addiction I have never been able to reach even 1 month of rest.

                            Good luck!
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                            2012.04 : 7.6 x 6.3 Curve 21,3°
                            2014.02 : 8.0 x 6.5 Curve 23,0° Progress log

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                            • #15
                              I can relate. I was a few years younger than you were when I started watching porn. I became very addicted. However, in time, I was able to get away from it.

                              I think that unless you have a desire to be gay, you have nothing to worry about. Give it time. Basically I think you'll find someone who turns you on intellectually as well as your sexuality. That's how it happened for me.
                              Glad I found PEGym!!!!!!:becky:

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