- 08-25-2013 #11
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I told my friend/ fuck buddy about PE... I use it to flirt... By telling her Im exercising, and thinking of her. She scolds me not to release and save it all for her.
My obsession with my penis has made her obsessed with it. She always tells me it's perfectly fine... And I say I must pursue in the name of science!
So just Laugh About It, Be About It!
- 08-25-2013 #12
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So she's had some time to process and digest, we spoke again a little last night and today about things. She's wildly curious about all of it as I knew she would be, wouldn't surprise me if she appears on the boards here once her life settles down a bit and has some free time. She came clean about some thoughts she has had but kept to herself. The event that triggered my PE journey she said she was thinking to herself that maybe I shoukd get checked to see if anything was wrong, she didn't mention it at the time because she wasn't sure if it was an isolated incident, but had always thought something wasn't quite right. Since then she said she has definitely noticed improvements in EQ especially the past couple months. She has also noticed an increase in girth and had been confused and somewhat concerned by it. Length she hadn't noticed much difference, she attributed changes to better EQ rather than length so she isn't sure which contributed more. She said she has also become very aware of changes in flaccid size, she had mentioned that previously to me, and she likes seeing it, doesn't seem to mind if others around us see the jeans bulge ether (so long as its when we are together).
So once we finished discussing the changes up to this point we began discussing moving forward. She's incredible supportive and open about what she thinks. We discussed girth and length changes and where her limits are or may be as we move forward. She's really curious and wants to do a session with me (though is playfully concerned that I'm not supossed to be erect during the exercises, something hear impossible for me now when I'm around her). She wants to learn about all of the theories and any science with PE. I had also previously discussed foreskin regeneration with her and she's seen my tugger, she's now more curious about that. I imagine things like porn induced ED will also pique her curiosity as well.
Part of me says I should have included her sooner, another part is glad that I waited until she recognized the difference and sees that it works. I think it was necessary for me to have begun my PE journey for myself and by myself, to have dealt with and conquered this problem alone, it's empowered me and didn't add stress by including her. For anything else in our relationship I'd have to adamantly agree that it's unhealthy to take on problems alone without the other person, but PE is an exceptionally personal thing and really shoukd be done for oneself to be truly successful with it. It's empowering to have done this myself, to conquer the EQ demons in my head. I'm certain she would have supported me but it needed to be done alone, for me at least. Now that I've reached this point though I openly welcome her support and participation. This is no longer about me conquering my demons, it's now about our relationship and how PE affects us together. I want to be sure it's nothing but positive for each of us.Start 12MAR'13
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- 08-27-2013 #14
Congrats, great attitude toward communication in your relationship! It sounds like you're laying a solid foundation, not just in regards to PE but in terms of staying open with each other. My girlfriend is used to me introducing new sorts of sexual "training," so I was lucky enough to be able to be open about PE from the start...I have nothing but sympathy for the guys who have to do stealth PE.My progress log: Reforging My Weapon
“Your body is the church where Nature asks to be reverenced.” - de Sade
“To wield the long sword well you must wield it calmly.” - Musashi
- 08-27-2013 #15
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If you allow me some license to edit.
It is truly empowering to know that you can overcome these challenges. Congratulations on arriving there. Congratulations on taking the next step, which is to involve your significant other as you trod this path.
Last edited by namsokiek; 08-27-2013 at 08:31 AM.
- 08-27-2013 #16
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Yeah you really need to have a mate who is open and receptive....but I think that some women wouldn't be open to it. Maybe it weirds them out or something.