tired of showers telling me not to worry about it.....

[hopefultdj9802 Member Find all posts View Profile Close hopefultdj9802]

Every one says there are showers and there are growers... I just happen to be neither. I grow a little but still, most showers' flaccid are bigger than me erect.... that's why I'm here. For help. For a shower to tell me most women don't care what I look like flaccid because they know it'll grow, just makes me so frustrated. Showers will NEVER understand!! --- Because they don't live with it like I do.

[CaptainJohnson Retired ModeratorSenior MemberPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CaptainJohnson]

The first time my gf saw my cock, she was giving me a bj. I am a grower, and I will never forget the amazing look of surprise on her face.

Yes, I'd like to be more of a shower too. Having a decent hang through the day just seems like an enjoyable feeling... that and not turtling heavily while going for a run or bike. Nonetheless, being a grower isn't the end of the world.

Luckily, PE solves your problem easily. It is true, some men gain faster than others, but by and large (haha ), PE will first make your flaccid hang way better before the real erect gains start.

Go get 'em tiger.

[hopefultdj9802 Member Find all posts View Profile Close hopefultdj9802]

Thank you for your kind word. I just get so mad at my crotch because it is so small, and doesn't grow much when erect either. I guess I just needed to vent.

[NCGUY1972 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close NCGUY1972]

Now that you are here work on it but in the meantime dont get frustrated or dwell on it. It really doesn't bother anyone else like it does you so please dont let it hold you back from anything else i life. I know the feeling as I am a grower myself and I was embarrased but its true the first improvement you will see is the flacid hang.

[not2big Senior Super ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close not2big]

I must have a weird dick. Everyone seems to claim that their flaccid gains a lot when starting out. I will have been at it for almost four years and my flaccid has gained only about 1/2 inch, if that. When it turtles, which it does most of the time, it is pretty much back to where it started.

Hey Hopeful!

Let a guy with a small flaccid tell you that you have to learn to live with it; however, keep in mind that most girls really do not care that much about flaccid size. It is the erection that they care most about. As long as you know that you can pleasure them with your erection (which really doesn't have to be that big either) that is all that is important. If you do not want to take my word for it, go to measurection.com, a support group for guys who perceive they have average or below average dicks.

[Toadstool Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Toadstool]

Just think
you'll never have to worry about dinky dunking. You know what that is right? When you go into a restroom and your dong falls into the toilet water. Imagine that in a public washroom!

Plus, you get to watch as your girls' face turns from disappointment to shock and giddy disbelief. I personally like that. I'll be small, turtling hard when the pants drop ... i'll see her face. It's like "oh shit, i've heard about these guys. Keep cool, don't say anything." Then it pops up and she's smiling and laughing. Good times.

The only problem is you don't get to show off in pissing matches.

[rbi99 Retired Moderator Member of the Month Nov 2017PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close rbi99]

LAS's will most definitely help you gain some flaccid size. My signature has a link to it. LAS's will help stretch your upper ligs which will allow more of your inner penis to be exposed while flaccid. It won't help with erect gains, but it will help with flaccid ones. While there are arguments for both sides, I contend that you are flaccid way more then erect, so the better that looks, the better I like it. It's not just for your partner, because quite frankly I enjoy seeing myself in a mirror with a real nice hang.

[EraStyle Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close EraStyle]

I must have a weird dick. Everyone seems to claim that their flaccid gains a lot when starting out. I will have been at it for almost four years and my flaccid has gained only about 1/2 inch, if that. When it turtles, which it does most of the time, it is pretty much back to where it started.

Hey Hopeful!

Let a guy with a small flaccid tell you that you have to learn to live with it; however, keep in mind that most girls really do not care that much about flaccid size. It is the erection that they care most about. As long as you know that you can pleasure them with your erection (which really doesn't have to be that big either) that is all that is important. If you do not want to take my word for it, go to measurection.com, a support group for guys who perceive they have average or below average dicks.

No, man. You aren't alone, I have gained a solid 1" in BPEL and some in girth.

My flaccid is still the same, grower. I sometimes look down and it's the length of my thumb. Just all turtled up. It fucking sucks and there is nothing that works for me.

[Nachos87 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Nachos87]

Every one says there are showers and there are growers... I just happen to be neither. I grow a little but still, most showers' flaccid are bigger than me erect.... that's why I'm here. For help. For a shower to tell me most women don't care what I look like flaccid because they know it'll grow, just makes me so frustrated. Showers will NEVER understand!! --- Because they don't live with it like I do.

I think people misunderstand what a shower is. It is a penis which is similar length flaccid as erect.
So a guy with 8" flaccid and 9" erect is a shower. A guy with 3" flaccid and 3.5" erect is a shower, only a small one.

But I get what you're saying, you just want to get longer.

After some PE my flaccid ended up 0.6" longer then what my erect used to be...
Just be smart and persistent and I'm sure you'll end up content.

Then I didn't feel small and now I don't feel big... I just do it for sport. It's up to you.

EDIT: Actually, scratch that last sentence. I'm doing it to show off my package in tight pants

[samsi4life Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close samsi4life]

I think people misunderstand what a shower is. It is a penis which is similar length flaccid as erect.
So a guy with 8" flaccid and 9" erect is a shower. A guy with 3" flaccid and 3.5" erect is a shower, only a small one.

But I get what you're saying, you just want to get longer.

After some PE my flaccid ended up 0.6" longer then what my erect used to be...
Just be smart and persistent and I'm sure you'll end up content.

Then I didn't feel small and now I don't feel big... I just do it for sport. It's up to you.

EDIT: Actually, scratch that last sentence. I'm doing it to show off my package in tight pants

Hahaha Ya i have a pretty good flacid you can see it in my pics on pegym. I love the looks of women in there.face when they realise you have a big dick.... it imtimidates people in a weird way and makes guys secretly hate you.

Now a days I try to wear clothes to cover up me im kind of lucky im a grower but i still have a good flaicd lol.. i mean im not huge but im a pretty good size

[MovingUp Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close MovingUp]

Yea the dick hitting the water now when I shit and lean forward is kind of annoying ... gotta hold it back a bit sometimes cuz i still wanna lean forward ... you know you're really supposed to shit squatting, leaning forward gets close to that, and if you ever are constipated mimic a squat in any way you can and that will fix things usually every time ...

[Increasing Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Increasing]

I am a grower, Have gained 1.1" (now 6.6 BPEL), and .25" in girth. Haven't measured flaccid, but it still turles up to 2.5-3" sometimes. Most of the time it hangs .5" longer than before PE, but again, still will try to turtle up and go inside me from time to time! lol It's very annoying!

[hopefultdj9802 Member Find all posts View Profile Close hopefultdj9802]

LAS's will most definitely help you gain some flaccid size. My signature has a link to it. LAS's will help stretch your upper ligs which will allow more of your inner penis to be exposed while flaccid. It won't help with erect gains, but it will help with flaccid ones. While there are arguments for both sides, I contend that you are flaccid way more then erect, so the better that looks, the better I like it. It's not just for your partner, because quite frankly I enjoy seeing myself in a mirror with a real nice hang.

I read your post about LAS's, and I think I'll definitely add that to my routine. Thank you for your guidance. I know I must seem like a complete whiner. Most of the time I'm ok with it, then someone says something that sets me off. Thanks also for your patience.

[hopefultdj9802 Member Find all posts View Profile Close hopefultdj9802]

I am a grower, Have gained 1.1" (now 6.6 BPEL), and .25" in girth. Haven't measured flaccid, but it still turles up to 2.5-3" sometimes. Most of the time it hangs .5" longer than before PE, but again, still will try to turtle up and go inside me from time to time! lol It's very annoying!

It sounds like I'm starting about where you did. This give me hope... Thank you. I know the guy that set me off on my rant was just trying to help, but, I did overreact... Sorry

[wazedi2 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close wazedi2]

do erect streches!!!!its the fastest way to bring you flacid length on your erect length