My penis is so small

[fotis]

So hello guys, I have a really small penis.. I am 18 years old.
My penis is 5.1-5.3 inches length and 4.3 inches girth. It looks so small and thin.
Bad thing is that I am in relationship 1 year now, but I do not like having sex, cuz I feel to small to satisfy her..
I am going to start jelqing to get some length and girth.. I am thinking of
-5 minutes warm
-stretch my in the middle, right and left
-jelqing for 8-10 minutes

Questions:
- Can my current size satisfy my girlfriend? (I am her first)
- Is this program fine to get some size?

[DaddyDick]

Welcome to the gym. Have you began the JP90 routine yet?

Yes, you should be able to satisfy your girlfriend! Focus on technique.

[fotis]

any tips for technique?

[AverageAndAhalf]

Dude...That is not a small one you got there.

At 18 I was useless in the sack, it was all about the shagging and never about the foreplay

Put much more effort into foreplay and how to drive her mental with bean flicking ....a few orgasms later and when you put your thing in her it won't matter how big it is cause she'l probably cum any way!!

Get on the JP90 routine and with any luck you'l have size increase which will definitely boost your confidence....might want to exercise your fingers too

[PurpleOnes]

Like previously said focus on your technique , maybe purchase a sex guide dvd.

I would also recommend to learn how to satisfy her by performing oral sex( licking her pussy).

As far as PE goes try JP 90 beginners routine https://www.pegym.com/forums/beginne...r-routine.html

Get started with a routine , learn how to do each exercise and stay consistent+ dedicated

[wannahung]

Like previously said focus on your technique , maybe purchase a sex guide dvd.

I would also recommend to learn how to satisfy her by performing oral sex( licking her pussy).

+100. develop the skills in this department and you will be king. done correctly you can give her great orgasms and/or tease her with tongue and finger and she will be begging you to put it in

[NauseousOuroboros]

I'm gonna echo what everyone else is saying about skill being king in bed BUT you definitely should PE too!

Not for her sake so much as for YOUR sake. I've been PEing for about a year and one thing I can say for certain is having a bigger penis makes me feel awesome. I've gained a quarter inch in girth and a half inch in length but my erection quality and most of all sexual confidence has gone up up up. It is slow progress but every millimeter makes you feel better!

[PurpleOnes]

Also learning how to make her squirt is fun too

[T-Bar]

Like previously said focus on your technique , maybe purchase a sex guide dvd.

I would also recommend to learn how to satisfy her by performing oral sex( licking her pussy).

As far as PE goes try JP 90 beginners routine https://www.pegym.com/forums/beginne...r-routine.html

Get started with a routine , learn how to do each exercise and stay consistent+ dedicated

All true!
Forget about size for pleasing her - building anticipation and knowing her body AND MOST IMPORTANT, listening to what she is responding to are the key. If she is vocal, she will tell you, if not, pick up on the signals (change in breathing, moving in a certain way to encourage or discourage what your are doing, moaning, etc.). Understand you are building her up from smoldering embers to a heated fire - it does not happen immediately so don't go straight for the clit etc. Your hands, your mouth and your words are most important as you explore her.
Regarding fingers and hands - my suggestion, especially when you get to using your fingers inside her - is to have good nail care - make sure that they are not only cut but honestly spend some time filing them so they are smooth so when you are inside her using the pads of your finger it feels good versus any sharp edges. Having smooth hands helps here to - you want her begging for you to touch her inside not be afraid you will claw her (unless she likes that kind of thing).
Learn some anatomy, her pudendal nerve is the "sex nerve" it is shaped like a wishbone starting above her clit and running down both sides of her labia - so spend time with your hands and mouth (once you have gotten things warmed up) going all around these areas sensually. Tease to create anticipation - spread her gently with your soft fingers and lick all around. Spend time doing this, there is no rush!
Tease her opening. Make sure to have lube available if she is not wet, or even if she is because you can use on your finger(s) to ease things in and with lube you can stay there a long time building things up. If you don't know where the g-spot is, look it up. Curl your finger in a come hither motion - her g-spot will feel spongy on the inside and will engorge when excited (feel the roof of your mouth with your finger - feels a little like this). It is on the upper side of her vagina toward her stomach - you will know when you feel it - slowly use the come hither motion pressing the pad of your finger on her g-spot, and if she is responding you can go faster / harder - listen to her body.
If you really want to move things along put your mouth over her clit (except I find most women dont like the porno tongue flicking like paint the fence) start with your mouth totally down on her and flatten your tongue and move it on her clit, etc. Every women is different so pay attention, listen to her response. Start softer at first. If you can get your mouth and tongue working together this will heighten everything.
I find at the beginning some variety in motion is good, but when you find what is turning her on and getting her to orgasm, stay with speed and motion that is working, now is not the time to change what you are doing or she will get frustrated!
If you are doing everything right, she will orgasm like a mad women and with good g-spot you might even get her to squirt.
Don't think penis size came up in any of the above!
Good luck!

Okay, this was a much longer response than I anticipated - think I got in to the moment too much. Think I'm going to go find my wife!

[T-Bar]

Oops - sorry about the double post!