Want to get a bigger penis but struggle with the commitment

[bombtech28]

Emember, Rit's jelg for health month, so everytime you exercise, jump on the forum and record your final number, you'll be working out, and helping a great cause at the same time. Sorry I didn't include the link to the forum, I'm on my phone and it takes to long to to load all the pages and copy the url...but that brings me to my next point, stay active on here! The more you read and learn, the more your mind will be thinking about when the next time is to exercise, and you'll be more engaged in your own self improvement. You've taken the first steps, creating an account and making some posts, hopefully you're already PEing too, now all you have to do is stay active. Best of luck!

[second lensman]

It's just like any other commitment: homework in school, studying, housework, getting up early to go fishing, pe-ing, stop drinking and smoking pot, etc. etc.. The hardest part is getting started each time. Discipline yourself!

[NewbieToPE2013]

What motivates me? To be perfectly frank, every time a girl grabs my dick, her eyes light up, she gasps and says "Damn, it's so big." Nothing is more of a sexual turn-on than that IMO.

That is one BIG MOTIVATION you've got right there!


Aside from that, I take PE as a hobby. But it is the kind of hobby that once I started doing it, I will have to keep going. So I guess that by thinking PE in a less stressed way like going to work or college, you can get more out of your PE session while not thinking too much about commiting to it.

[Big Al]

Drive and discipline are huge factors, but "why" you want to gain and the emotions behind them are also very important. Even if you are driven, if you approach PE training suffering from deep anxieties it may interfere in your rate of gains because of poor EQ. The lack of gains over time could cause a lack of motivation- and may even contribute to a "vicious cycle" of sorts regarding performance.

This is a chief reason why trainees with low EQ and SC (Sexual Confidence) are advised to focus on improving those parameters before taking on enlargement work. Even if you don't have anxieties, if you have low EQ, your rate of size gains would be greatly improved by your improving your EQ.

[NCGUY1972]

Yes I had deep anxieties when I was introduced and my commitment was all over the place, now Im me Im back and Im alot more focused. I have my days and my routine layed out and I want to do this for me. Its almost like a hobby that I enjoy and the reward is the same as any other hobby to be honest.

[samsi4life]

Yes I had deep anxieties when I was introduced and my commitment was all over the place, now Im me Im back and Im alot more focused. I have my days and my routine layed out and I want to do this for me. Its almost like a hobby that I enjoy and the reward is the same as any other hobby to be honest.

I am going through anxiety pretty bad myself i am on meds now but still not over it completly so im gonna see a psych and see if i can work it out without starting benzodiazepines.. i am 22 and never had depression or anxiety before but maybe it is a chemical imbalance in my case. I am glad you worked out your problems and hope one day i can myself.

[Rasputine]

You get what you pay for!
If you do not want to pay for it,do not expect to get it!
Paying for it in this case means working for it.
Paying for it also means being committed to do it.
Don't bother starting if you are going to half-ass it
from the start, just don't bother!

[wannahung]

I have had issues with my commitment and PE until I looked at it from a different perspective.
Commitment: the attitude of someone who works very hard to do or support something
Hmmmm...the key word here is attitude. Remember that. When we think about the word commitment what comes to mind? Hard work? doing something we may not always want to do but must because we are COMMITED!! Well damn. That doesn't sound like much fun. There is a lot of stress that goes along with that word. I think we all have, at one time struggled with commitment. Why? because it carries so much weight. Commitment usually requires meeting certain expectations either imposed by ourselves but usually from others. It can be down right scary with "failure" nipping at its heels. Commitment can be a useful thing. When the boss tells you to commit to getting "x" project done by some ridiculous date your ass gets in gear and powers forward, using all your energy and resources to complete the task. I, for one, am not liking this commitment thing very much and it's rarely ever "fun".
Attitude: : the way you think and feel about something
What if you had a different "attitude" towards PE. Lets face it. It is not something our boss is expecting us to do. It shouldn't be stressful. There are no expectations from anyone other than yourself and even with that the only realistic expectations you should have is to improve. You cant really put a number on the improvement because it may not even be achievable no matter how badly you want it.
My attitude has been to view PE as a hobby after a few "committed" failures in the past.
Hobby: an activity or interest pursued for pleasure or relaxation I would also add that hobbies are fulfilling and rewarding and if there is stress involved it is good stress. My hobbies have always been something I think about during the day, wishing I was home indulging in them. Making sure I had all my "commitments" out of the way so I would have time to spend on them. Communicating with like minded individuals for the purpose of gaining and sharing knowledge, shooting the shit, keeping up my interest and enjoying every second of it and most importantly enjoying the actual "hands on" time (pun intended). PE seems like a great candidate for a hobby. Why not have that attitude towards it? It's a lot less stressful. Make it a labor of love and the motivation no longer has to come from a swift kick in the ass. Find enjoyment and challenge in doing every jelq, stretch, squeeze, etc as completely and accurately as possible, look forward to the time you will spend doing it, view it as your relaxation time, find the pleasure in it and the numbers will take care of themselves.

[Danster579]

This is probably the thread with the most good responses I've ever seen in my life. Probably because everyone who takes PE seriously has to go through the same thing.

I want to get a bigger penis but struggle with the commitment to keep it going?

At the end of the day if you don't want it bad enough, it'll never happen. This shit takes years! That's years of plateaus, endless hard work and bull-shit.


Either you find a good reason WHY inside of yourself, or you quit.


This is why no one else does penis enlargement. This is why so many people quit. If you want the result, you're gonna have to have to work for it!


The ability to do something that's out of the ordinary, that seems hard, doesn't feel good, or takes years is a skill! The ability to learn these skills and come out on the other side with the result is part of what makes you a man.

And it's the only thing that will ever set you apart from anyone else.

Regardless of whether your ale to do this now, or a few years from now... the GYM will be here. Good luck!

[themole]

thanks guys, sorry for the late reply been busy with work, alot of good replies, im into my 2nd week of warming up and jelqing until my penis starts to get tired and sore, my flaccid hang has increased which is pleasing, im really going to do it this time and stick to it, the only thing i need to ask is, will i get increase of length gains by jelqing only. I only jelq because stretching with a weight isnt really comfortable,
thanks again