Feeling Like a Failure

**vanillacobra** · 11-20-2013

Buddy, Everyone knows that 7" is not small. It is well above average, lets just make that clear. Pics can be hard to determine when they are close up. Feel free to check out mine, I'm 6.5" bone pressed (for Now), 1/2" smaller than you claim and I wouldnt say I am pathetic, not as big as I would like but not pathetic. You should post some measurement pics of your size to be clear once and go from there. Track results and have fun with it. There is no way that having a 7" cock is the sole reason for your woes. How is life in general? Job, relationship, health, social life, etc. I think if you focus on healthy eating habits and an exercise routine to lose the extra weight the terrible self image you have of yourself will go away. Dont be so hard on yourself and try to start focusing on all the positive things you can do to make yourself feel and look the best you can be. Best of luck to you viking

**ByggD** · 11-20-2013

I encourage you to make conscious decisions about what is a reasonable thought and what isn't. For example, years ago, I used to set myself up for feeling awful about myself. I would do something like drop a fork on the ground when I was in a hurry, eating abruptly, or I would forget where my keys were and I would tell myself, "Jeez, you are an idiot." You have probably even done that yourself. Hell, I would go as far to say, "you aren't attractive enough to get that kind of girl." Or something of like. NO MORE!!

Consider the gravity of the situation. Is it really true that I am an idiot for dropping a fork, or forgetting where I set my keys? Hell no! That something that EVERYONE does.

Thus, what I did was every time those self-esteem destroying thoughts would creep into my head, I would shake my head "no" and literally tell myself that it is okay to make mistakes.

What I encourage you to do is ask yourself if it is reasonable to think that your penis is "pathetic." The answer under ANY circumstance, is a resounding NO! NO it is not reasonable to think that.

Rather than think of the things you can't do (like compete with a horse in a dick measuring contest), think of the things you can do like increase EQ by performing kegels daily, increase vascularity by working out regularly and performing jelqs.

My motto has always been if you don't like something then change it; if you can't change it then get away from it; if you can't get a way from it, then change your perception of it. This is a classic example of change it (as in get your butt motivated to enlarge your dick; you can do it and millions of people have) and while you are changing it, change the way you think about it. Be thankful you have a healthy penis. Be thankful that you have found this site. Not necessarily thankful for the community itself, but thankful that you happen to find such a place that did not exist 20 years ago. Hell, think about that. Humans have had body image issues forever, and it is only recently that we were able to visit online forums anonymously to seek others with the same issues.

Seriously, you are in good company here. And we are glad you came!

**Glamissand1** · 11-20-2013

Stole this from L4M38083d1385005532-pics-your-favorite-random-things-34.jpg

**BoaConstrictor** · 11-20-2013

Originally Posted by Glamissand1

Stole this from L4M38083d1385005532-pics-your-favorite-random-things-34.jpg

Nice gaaaainnnnsss dude.

**BoaConstrictor** · 11-21-2013

Originally Posted by Vikingman

I'm sorry everyone for complaining really am I feel like here was the place to vent. I have to find away to change my ways and not like me thinking my penis is too small or not good enough to affect my life anymore. Thanks everyone for telling me my size is good and telling me to relax. Hopefully this will and I'm in the process of losing weight so I'm hoping that will help BIG time!!

You have a good size. What's your Girth?

And your penis should have nothing to do with how you feel about yourself..

Getting into shape is definitely a plus, but mainly for health.
If you want to feel good, Get healthy.
Healthy eating habits, exercise, healthy thoughts, healthy lifestyle, surround yourself in a healthy environment, etc.
Have a healthy heart and a healthy mind..

And yes, you came to the right place to vent...much better than channeling it on somebody or something like that.

**Vikingman** · 11-21-2013

I can't thank you guys enough for all the positive feedback I really can't. I'm extremely hard on myself I really am I feel like I can't go to certain places like the clubs or strip clubs because my penis is too small and if a girl dances with me there gonna make fun of me. My confidence is shot as I probably said and I have to change the way I live life always second guessing myself wondering what a female is gonna think about my penis if it's not good enough. I feel like I live my life in fear or thinking the negative instead of being strong and positive. I will continue to try and lose weight and put more time in trying to make my penis bigger and try buying something to help me make it bigger. I apologize again to everyone!

**CUSP82** · 11-21-2013

See I was having a conversation with your dick last night. Yes he called me. He's quite upset and he's upset with you.He told me that he was ready to really rock and roll,go find some women and play hide the pickle but he's owner is a real jerk. No I didn't say that ; he did! You see he told me he was ready to rock some girls world but his onwer was too stupid to use him. Say he's got some hangups that he may be too small or something. Well your dick has read all the studied and he knows his big and ready but his owner is just being a dick about things. Oh I tried to calm him down but I don't know if it worked. I think he's getting ready to run away on your or at least , since you have been treating him so poorly and not thinking all that highly of him, at the least he's getting ready to really screw you over when you do try to use him but just going on strike and not working at all. Hey I didn't say ; he did. Well I did the best I could to calm him down but let me warn you if you don't start treating him better he is going really mess you up in ways only a dick can do. Hey my advice to you is to start thinking better of your dick; he's still quite fond of you but his pateince is wearing thin!

**Rasputine** · 11-21-2013

Change your brain,and your dick will follow!
What one believes can help or hinder!
Time to get a new set of eyes and start thinking differently
about yourself!
If you never change your way of thinking you will never
change you.

**TPW** · 11-21-2013

Originally Posted by CUSP82

See I was having a conversation with your dick last night. Yes he called me. He's quite upset and he's upset with you.He told me that he was ready to really rock and roll,go find some women and play hide the pickle but he's owner is a real jerk. No I didn't say that ; he did! You see he told me he was ready to rock some girls world but his onwer was too stupid to use him. Say he's got some hangups that he may be too small or something. Well your dick has read all the studied and he knows his big and ready but his owner is just being a dick about things. Oh I tried to calm him down but I don't know if it worked. I think he's getting ready to run away on your or at least , since you have been treating him so poorly and not thinking all that highly of him, at the least he's getting ready to really screw you over when you do try to use him but just going on strike and not working at all. Hey I didn't say ; he did. Well I did the best I could to calm him down but let me warn you if you don't start treating him better he is going really mess you up in ways only a dick can do. Hey my advice to you is to start thinking better of your dick; he's still quite fond of you but his pateince is wearing thin!

OK Cusp...that was pretty darn impressive (and funny too)

**BoaConstrictor** · 11-21-2013

Originally Posted by CUSP82

See I was having a conversation with your dick last night. Yes he called me. He's quite upset and he's upset with you.He told me that he was ready to really rock and roll,go find some women and play hide the pickle but he's owner is a real jerk. No I didn't say that ; he did! You see he told me he was ready to rock some girls world but his onwer was too stupid to use him. Say he's got some hangups that he may be too small or something. Well your dick has read all the studied and he knows his big and ready but his owner is just being a dick about things. Oh I tried to calm him down but I don't know if it worked. I think he's getting ready to run away on your or at least , since you have been treating him so poorly and not thinking all that highly of him, at the least he's getting ready to really screw you over when you do try to use him but just going on strike and not working at all. Hey I didn't say ; he did. Well I did the best I could to calm him down but let me warn you if you don't start treating him better he is going really mess you up in ways only a dick can do. Hey my advice to you is to start thinking better of your dick; he's still quite fond of you but his pateince is wearing thin!

Don't give him my number