Feeling Like a Failure

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I understand COMPLETELY how you feel, hell, more or less everyone on this damn forum does..that's why we're here. But I think you need to deal with it yourself, nobody else can truly help you overcome your insecurities and posts like this DO drag people down and create unnecessary negativity whether you're sorry or not. I'm only 19 and still have that bullshit teenage insecurity but there's a lot more to life than your already big dick and worrying about irrelevant bullshit when you have your whole damn life ahead of you.

I've wasted months if not a years being miserable about myself but I realised that theres no point in doing so and I don't think you understand how frustrating it is for people that are not as well endowed as you to see you bitch about your perfectly good dick online. I'm sorry if that's harsh but damn, you're 7 inches and I along with many would love to be that big. I honestly don't understand how you don't look down at your dick and see a big dick. But anyway, I don't have any sympathy for you and honestly whilst I do have empathy as I understand what you're dealing with, I simply do not feel sorry for you because you are quite simply blessed.

[LilNudeDude]

It's all about mindset and what you project. If you emanate negative, you attract it. If project positive, you attract it.

Have you heard of "The Secret" by Rhonda Byrne? You should get a copy. It may take a few times reading through it, but it makes complete sense.

Personally, I recommend the movie version. The book was a struggle to get through. Reads like an owners manual for a TV without pictures. The movie version grabbed my attention right away.

Just a "thought", Viking.

[Steneo]

I apologize again to everyone I know this old or this is all I post about and it should and has to stop asap!!! I will try to be more positive about things and my dick. I apologize to anyone that I annoyed it won't happen again I hope. Most of all I hope I didn't give myself a bad name or didn't make anyone dislike me in anyway because of my post I didn't mean to come off like that.

Hey Viking, nice to see you back on the forums . Speaking strictly for myself, I'm not at all annoyed by you or your posts and I don't like to see you apologizing (repeatedly) for feeling like you feel. You have an issue with your self-image, that's no secret, but it would be wrong to state that nobody here has issues like that (likely why many found their way here in the first place) and disingenuous for me personally to tell you to just get over it because I still have issues viewing myself in a positive light (penis size and otherwise).

I like the way Glammissand put it on the previous page - the battle of the mind is one of the hardest battles we face. So true. You've gotten a lot of advice on these threads of yours...get counseling (totally your decision), loose weight/get fit to improve your self-esteem (also totally your decision), etc. Those are all good ideas you should take under advisement. I want to just make one further, likely easier suggestion in case you decide not to do those things (and it seems you haven't and many months have gone by so hey...).

You can do something about this penis size issue of yours. How about you stick around here and pick up a PE routine? Have you done any PE? I've been here for about a year now, you were one of the first people I interacted with here as a matter of fact. Well, in that year I've been working on making my penis bigger and I've succeeded. I've gained 3/4 inch in that time - imagine it! You can do it too, start some PE and stick around. Read the threads - especially some of the "introduce yourself" threads and see just how many people share this issue. Realize you are not alone, come to terms with what actually is small and average and large (you). Start a log and regularly update it. Interact as you feel comfortable doing. This has helped me tremendously with the battle of the mind, reading the threads and eventually becoming a more active posting member.

It can work for you too, why not try it instead of disappearing for a few months and coming back still feeling bad about yourself? You've got nothing to lose really and potentially a lot to gain. Think about it

Edit: To add, since the photos seem to make you feel worse, just stay away from them. I really never look at the photos honestly and there is no real need to in order to do what I suggested above...

[Vikingman]

I understand COMPLETELY how you feel, hell, more or less everyone on this damn forum does..that's why we're here. But I think you need to deal with it yourself, nobody else can truly help you overcome your insecurities and posts like this DO drag people down and create unnecessary negativity whether you're sorry or not. I'm only 19 and still have that bullshit teenage insecurity but there's a lot more to life than your already big dick and worrying about irrelevant bullshit when you have your whole damn life ahead of you.

I've wasted months if not a years being miserable about myself but I realised that theres no point in doing so and I don't think you understand how frustrating it is for people that are not as well endowed as you to see you bitch about your perfectly good dick online. I'm sorry if that's harsh but damn, you're 7 inches and I along with many would love to be that big. I honestly don't understand how you don't look down at your dick and see a big dick. But anyway, I don't have any sympathy for you and honestly whilst I do have empathy as I understand what you're dealing with, I simply do not feel sorry for you because you are quite simply blessed.

It's not harsh you said what you had to say and that's that. I respect that and I didn't mean for anything out of this I will try and change my ways for myself so I don't start and problems on this site. I hope I didn't make anyone mad or upset with me in my bitching about my dick.

[Vikingman]

Hey Viking, nice to see you back on the forums . Speaking strictly for myself, I'm not at all annoyed by you or your posts and I don't like to see you apologizing (repeatedly) for feeling like you feel. You have an issue with your self-image, that's no secret, but it would be wrong to state that nobody here has issues like that (likely why many found their way here in the first place) and disingenuous for me personally to tell you to just get over it because I still have issues viewing myself in a positive light (penis size and otherwise).

I like the way Glammissand put it on the previous page - the battle of the mind is one of the hardest battles we face. So true. You've gotten a lot of advice on these threads of yours...get counseling (totally your decision), loose weight/get fit to improve your self-esteem (also totally your decision), etc. Those are all good ideas you should take under advisement. I want to just make one further, likely easier suggestion in case you decide not to do those things (and it seems you haven't and many months have gone by so hey...).

You can do something about this penis size issue of yours. How about you stick around here and pick up a PE routine? Have you done any PE? I've been here for about a year now, you were one of the first people I interacted with here as a matter of fact. Well, in that year I've been working on making my penis bigger and I've succeeded. I've gained 3/4 inch in that time - imagine it! You can do it too, start some PE and stick around. Read the threads - especially some of the "introduce yourself" threads and see just how many people share this issue. Realize you are not alone, come to terms with what actually is small and average and large (you). Start a log and regularly update it. Interact as you feel comfortable doing. This has helped me tremendously with the battle of the mind, reading the threads and eventually becoming a more active posting member.

It can work for you too, why not try it instead of disappearing for a few months and coming back still feeling bad about yourself? You've got nothing to lose really and potentially a lot to gain. Think about it

Edit: To add, since the photos seem to make you feel worse, just stay away from them. I really never look at the photos honestly and there is no real need to in order to do what I suggested above...

I appreciate that a lot. Congrats on the gains! I've tried a few stretches and the bikers padlock but, I haven't been consistent with it and there's another problem. I will start the thread tomorrow and see where this takes me. I'm in the process of losing weight as I signed up for Brazilian Jujitsu. On my off days I will go to the gym and continue my weight loss process. I won't post a picture again until I really start seeing some changes so it'll be awhile. I will get through this just it will probably take me a lot longer then others. I will say this again don't let my problems bring you down or make anyone lose confidence as I might have to someone who posted on this thread I apologize and if I can help let me know!

[Knoblin]

dont eat after 6pm.(routine)

[Steneo]

I appreciate that a lot. Congrats on the gains! I've tried a few stretches and the bikers padlock but, I haven't been consistent with it and there's another problem. I will start the thread tomorrow and see where this takes me. I'm in the process of losing weight as I signed up for Brazilian Jujitsu. On my off days I will go to the gym and continue my weight loss process. I won't post a picture again until I really start seeing some changes so it'll be awhile. I will get through this just it will probably take me a lot longer then others. I will say this again don't let my problems bring you down or make anyone lose confidence as I might have to someone who posted on this thread I apologize and if I can help let me know!

Stop apologizing ! Start that progress log and expect me (and others) to comment there to keep you motivated and on track. Brazilian Jujitsu?? Holy crap and hell yea! Please don't come kick my ass after you get good at that.