Bigger dick, but what to tell wife?

**Mask-** · 11-23-2013

This is my second go at PE. A couple of years ago I went from about 13,3 cm to 14,3 cm. After about two years away from PE I now gained to about 14,7 cm. Was planing to go for 15,2 cm or about 6 inches. (Girth numbers)

Anyway, and WOW, now things really feel different during sex! But what to tell wife, no way I'm telling here I'm spending half an hour a day pulling my penis!

**wannahung** · 11-23-2013

hmmmm... I don't think you are going to have much choice but to tell. You could tell her you did these exercises to increase the power of your erection and for some strange reason it got bigger. I doubt she would believe you had a late growth spurt

**getinbig** · 11-23-2013

If you think about it, Mask, it's a wonderful problem to have to deal with...one I'm looking forward to. My wife has already noticed changes...I'm hoping she will bring it out into the open when I'm a little further down the PE road...but in 5 weeks, my MSEG has gone from 4.7 to 5.25 this morning! Like you said, WOW!
Wishing you well with this issue...I'm sure The Passionate Wife or MrsLooking4more would have some good advice for you in approaching the issue of your PE growth!

**Koh** · 11-23-2013

You turn me on so much you're making me bigger than ever

**MrsLooking4more** · 11-23-2013

Mask- From a supportive wife's perspective I will say tell her because she will notice the change. I did even though the Mr did not tell me for a year, meanwhile I was worried he had health issues because he was in the bathroom so long.

I would say approach it from the health side, you are doing exercises that help your unit stay healthy and improves your Erection Quality by improving blood flow and strengthen your pelvic floor muscles, as a side effect of the health benefits you might incur some growth.

Believe me it was peace of mind for me to know that the Mr. times in the bathroom was for health and once I knew the nerdy part of me just had to read more about it and I ended up learning how to jelq him and how important is for him to keep his unit in top shape (I was floored to see all he was doing to improve our sex life). You might compare it to her doing kegel for female pelvic floor strength which incurs the same benefits.

Also you want her to be aware so that if is starts to get hard to penetrate, she knows to get lube and use it until she adjust to your new size. You don't want her to have micro vaginal tears, she will not be happy if they happen when they can be avoided and she will love that you are concerned for her vaginal well being as well as yours.

Hope that helps!

**Looking4more** · 11-23-2013

If I were you Mask, I would go ahead and tell her now. The only thing I told my wife at the beginning was that I had a project I was working on and would tell her about it later. The reason I didn't say anything at first is because at the time I was skeptical that it would work. I'm sure if I told her at the time, she wouldn't have believed it. Now you and I know it does indeed work. Now both of our wives know it works so there's no argument there.

After quite a while I decided to tell her. I wasn't sure how she would react but I wanted to spill the beans just the same. To my amazement, she said that she was very touched by the fact that I had invested so much time in bettering myself to help our sex life. Beforehand I had some ED problems that now looking back were caused by low testosterone. But even with the low T, PE definitely helped tremendously.

Your wife loves you and everything about you so go ahead and tell her. Believe me it will bring you closer together especially if you share this site with her and she gets to see the inner workings of the male mind and body. The more she understands about you and your desires, the more she will be able to help fulfilling those desires. Don't wait another moment and show her everything. Hopefully she will get involved just like many other wives have and will enjoy the threads as much as we do. I'm sure nothing but good things will come from including her and when she realizes how much you have let her in to your inner self, she will be just as touched as my wife was.

**Glamissand1** · 11-23-2013

Telling my wife has sparked our sex life back up to premarital levels. It seems to have peeked her interest in my dick, and loves to ask for peeks and pics of it. Even sex has touches of PE in it, she will jelq me and even edge me. She even tried to do a few stretches, but seems to loving of my dick to give it any good pull. Point is we husbands are preserving our marriages by providing a long happy sex life.

**BigO** · 11-23-2013

They would only think its crazy if it did not work. Once you have proven to yourself it works you go and brag about what you did to her.

She may think its weird but trust me, she will get curious and then she will support you. Its a chain reaction sort of thing.